Uqale nje ukutshata nomntu omtsha. Uphume ngaphaya kwamaxesha ambalwa kwaye ucinga ukuba ulungele ukufika kwisigaba esishisayo nesinzima. Ngaphambi kokuba iingubo ziqale ukuhamba ezindizayo, unokufuna ukubuza imibuzo ngaphambi kokulala ngesondo.
Imfundo yesondo ayipheli esikolweni esiphakeme. I-personz yakho yesini yinto ewusizo xa uqala naluphi na ulwalamano olutsha lwesondo. Le mibuzo iyakunceda wena kunye neqabane lakho elitsha ukukhusela impilo yakho yempilo:
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Ngaba uhlolwe i-STD?Abantu abaninzi baya kuthi ewe kulo mbuzo ... kwaye bangalunganga. Bacinga ukuba ugqirha wabo uyazihlola ngokuzenzekelayo kwizifo ekuhlolweni kwawo kwonyaka. Ngelishwa, akunjalo. Uninzi lwabagqirha alukhenkethi abathengi ngokuzenzekelayo kwi-STD. Kufuneka ucele ugqirha wakho ukuba enze iimvavanyo.
Ngaphezu koko, kufuneka ucele ngokuthe ngqo malunga nokuvavanya, ubuncinane kwi- chlamydia kunye ne- gonorrhea , ngaphambi kokuba uqale ulwalamano olutsha lwesondo. Ngamanye amaxesha oogqirha banqwenela ukuvavanya ezinye i-STD, ezifana ne- syphilis okanye i- trichomoniasis , ngaphandle kokuba unempawu okanye wazi ukuba uye wavezwa.
Sekunjalo, akukho nto ibuhlungu ukubuza. Khawukhumbule nje, ukuba umntu uthi bahlolwe i-STD, kufuneka bakwazi ukukuxelela izifo ezihlolwe ngazo. Ukuba abanako, mhlawumbi bayiphutha ngokuvavanya.
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Uvavanyo Lwenu Lokugqibela lwe-HIV luni?Izikhokelo zangoku ezivela kwi- CDC zincoma ukuba abantu bahlolwe i-HIV njengenxalenye yohambo lwabo lokunakekelwa kwezempilo. Ukuba unayo nayiphi na inokufumaneka kwi- HIV ngokusebenzisa isondo esingakhuselekanga , ukwabelana ngeesaliti, okanye ezinye ukuchaphazela kumanzi omzimba, kufuneka uhlolwe. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba unokuba utyhilekile, kufuneka uhlolwe kwakhona.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuhlolwa rhoqo kwe- HIV yinto efanelekileyo. Uninzi lwamazwe luza kukuvavanya ngokungaziwa. Ngaphezu koko, ukuvavanywa kwamahhala kufumaneka kwiindawo ezininzi. Ukuba iqabane lakho lithi, "Andizange ndivavanywe," unokufuna ukulinda ukuba ulale nabo de ukuphendula kwabo impendulo. Kule mini kunye neminyaka, xa kunokukhululeka, ukuvavanywa okungachazwanga kufumaneka lula, akukho sizathu sokuba ungavavanywa rhoqo. Kukho izizathu zokuba.
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Ngaba Uyabandakanyeka Nabani Nabanye?Konke kuhle kakhulu kwaye kulungile ukucela i-STD yesimo sakho se-STD. Sekunjalo, oko bakuxelelayo akunakuthetha nantoni na ukuba baqhubeka besondo nabanye abantu. Ukuba ubandakanyekile, ngokwesini, ngobudlelwane obungengowona umtshato, ezi ngxoxo zibaluleke kakhulu. Kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba awugcini nje ngesondo olukhuselekileyo kunye neqabane lakho. Kwakhona kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba iqabane lakho linesondo elikhuselekileyo kunye nabo bonke abalingani bakhe.
Umntu onoxanduva lokungabikho monogamy akuyinto ekhuselekanga ngaphantsi kweyodwa. Kwezinye iimeko, kunokukwazi ukukhuseleka. Nangona kunjalo, lifuna uxhulumaniso olungcono ukuze ugcine impilo yakho yempilo kunye nemvakalelo. Khumbula ke, ukuba ubudlelwane obude bunexesha elide bubonisa umngcipheko ophantsi kunayo yonke impilo yakho yesondo .
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Ngaba Ulungele Ukufumana I-Sex Safe?Xa ungathandabuzeki, faka izinto. Ukuba uceba ukwenza isondo nomntu, kubalulekile ukuthatha uxanduva lwakho kwimpilo yakho yesondo. Oko kuthetha ukufumana izinto ngesandla. Iikhondom , iikhondomu zamabhinqa , ukukhulelwa kwe-contraception, i-lube , ukugoba i-saran, iiglavu ... nantoni na ukufunayo ukwenza isondo ekhuselekileyo kuwe oko kufuneka ube khona.
Kuthiwani ukuba iqabane lakho, umzekelo, lithengela izinto ozilungeleyo okanye ongazithandiyo? Akukho nto inokukhungathekisa njengoko unquma ukuba ulungele ukulala ngesondo kwaye ufumanisa ukuba zonke iivenkile ekuhambeni ukuhamba zivaliwe okanye zivela kwiikondom zakho ezizithandayo.