Iingcebiso Zokunyamekela Ukujongana Nokunyanyiswa
Nangona abanye abantu abaphila ne- Alzheimer okanye ezinye iintlobo ze-dementia zihlala zimnandi kwaye zilula kuwo wonke ubomi babo, abanye bahlakulela iimvakalelo ezininzi zomsindo kunye nobudlova. Xa umntu onomdemokhrasi ephazamisa kuwe ngenxa yokuba kubonakala kungekho sizathu, kuyinto evakalayo ukuba uzivekile, udimazekile, utyhafile, ucatshukiswe, kwaye ubenomsindo kubo. Ukufunda oko kubangela ukuba umsindo uxhomekeke kwingqondo kunye nendlela engcono yokuphendula ngayo kunokukunceda ukuba uqalane.
Ziziphi iindlela zokukhusela ekukhuseleni kwi-Dementia?
Xa abantu abane-dementia bevutha umsindo, banokuphakamisa ilizwi, baphonsa izinto, babonise ukuziphatha okuxhatshazwayo njengokubetha, ukukhaba, okanye ukukrokra, ukugcoba nokukhwaza okanye ukuzama ukukuhlasela. Ulwimi lwabo lunokuba lubalabala , nangona bengazange bakhulume igama elingcolileyo ngaphambili.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho iimpawu ezilumkiso ezifana nezwi elikhulu, i-scowl, okanye ukuguqulwa kweengalo kwisithuba esingenanto. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, kunokuba nzima ukubona umsindo ozayo. Kungabonakala ngathi ikhuphuka embala. Umsindo "ongekho isilumkiso" unokuba nzima kunzima ukujamelana nayo ngenxa yokungaqiniseki.
Kwiyiphi Inqanaba Ngaba Ingqumbo Nokunyanzeliswa Kuvame Ukuphuhlisa?
Ukuziphatha okucelomngeni okunjengomsindo kunye nobudlova kunokwenzeka ukuba kuphuhliswe kwizigaba eziphakathi komqondo .
Yintoni Edala Ubumsindo Kwi-Dementia?
- I-Dementia ichaphazela iimvakalelo. Ukuba unomncedisi womntu onomdemokhrasi, kunokunceda ukukhumbuza ukuba iimvakalelo zabo zichaphazeleka sisifo. I-Dementia ichaphazela ingqondo, kwaye ingqondo ixanduva lokungaphezu kwememori yethu kunye nenkqubo yokucinga. Ingqondo ilawula kwakhona iimvakalelo zethu neempawu zethu. Ngoko, kuxhomekeke apho umonakalo wengqondo khona, iimvakalelo zinokuchaphazeleka ngokunjalo. Impendulo enobungozi , apho ukuphendulwa ngokukhawuleza nokungenakuphazamiseka kwimeko ebonakalayo eqhelekileyo kwenzeka, zihlala zibangelwa kukunyamekela. Oku "ukuphendula kwangaphezulu" kwiimvakalelo kunokubangela umsindo nentukuthelo.
- I-Dementia ivelisa ukungaqondani. Ngenxa yokuba i- dementia ichaphazela ukunxibelelana , ukukwazi ukuqonda into umntu athethayo okanye ukwenzayo kuncitshiswa. Njengomnakekeli, unokuba uthetha kuphela ukuba luncedo, kodwa umntu onomdemokhrasi akanakho ukuqonda ukuba kutheni uzama ukumnceda okanye uzive ukuba uzama ukumphatha.
- I-Dementia ichaphazela ukuqatshelwa kwabathandekayo. Abantu abanomdemokhrasi abanakho ukuqonda amalungu abo entsapho okanye abahlobo, kwaye oku kunokubangela ukwesaba, ukuxhalaba nokuziphatha okubi. Ngokomzekelo, umfazi onomdemokhrasi angazama ukuhlasela umyeni wakhe kuba uyayika "indoda engaqhelekanga" endlwini yabo.
- I-Dementia ingabangela i-paranoia, ukukhohlisa, kunye neengcinga. Ukuphazamiseka kwezinto eziyinyaniso, ezinjenge- paranoia, ukukhohliswa , kunye neengcamango , kunokunye umphumo wesifo sesifo sengqondo. Akubona wonke umntu onomdemokhrasi okhulisa le mpawu, kodwa angenza ukuba nzima ukulawula ingqondo. I-Lewy yokugula komzimba , ngokukodwa, kwandisa amathuba okukhohliswa kunye neengcinga, nangona zinokuthi zenzeke kuzo zonke iintlobo zeengqondo zomqondo.
- I-Dementia inokubangela ukuba abanonophelo bazive bekhululiwe. Ukuba unomncedi uxhalazelekile, unomonde, kwaye unomsindo, nangona le mivakalelo ingagqithwanga, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba umntu onomdemokhrasi uza kubonakalisa le mvakalelo kuwe ekuziphatheni kwazo. Ukubambisana kwakho ngomlomo nangokungathethi ngomlomo kungathathwa ngumntu onomdemokhrasi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, njengesibuko, ubuyele kuwe. Ukuzibeka esweni ngenxa yokukhathazeka komnakekeli kunye nokugqithisa kubalulekile-kungekhona nje kwimpumelelo yobomi bakho , kodwa nangomntu obathandayo.
Ukuphendula Ngomsindo kwi-Dementia
- Nika indawo. Khumbula ukunika isikhala esincinane kumntu ohlala nomqondo wokugula ngengqondo. Xa uhlasela indawo yomntu othile kwaye abaqondi ukuba kutheni, unokulindela ukumelana okanye ukudibana nokunyamekela.
- Musa ukuphikisana . Unokulingwa ukuba uzame ukubonisa ubungqina bakho, kodwa ukuphikisana nomntu onomdemokhrasi akusoloko usebenza. Enyanisweni, ngokuqhelekileyo uya kwenza umntu abe nomsindo ngakumbi xa uxabana nabo, kwaye 'awuyi kuphumelela.'
- Nika ixesha. Ukuba uzama ukunceda umntu ukuba aqhubise amazinyo aze athukuthelele, qiniseka ukuba uphephe wedwa kwaye umnike ixesha elincinane. Ukuzama umsebenzi ofanayo 20 imizuzu kamva ngamanye amaxesha kunokuvelisa umphumo ohluke ngokupheleleyo.
- Sebenzisa ukuphazamiseka. Ngamanye amaxesha, umculo ungabangela ukuphazamiseka okukhulu. Zama ukudlala iqoqo lakhe eliyintandokazi enkulu kunye nokucula naye imizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokumnceda ukuba agqoke. Okanye, vula i-Michael Jordan ibinqabileyo xa enika inwele.
- Indlela eya kumntu omnye. Kunokuba ube nobabini okanye abathathu abantu ukuza kukunceda unike umntu isanti , sebenzisa umntu omnye xa kunokwenzeka. Umntu ongaphezu komnye umntu osondela kumntu onomdemokhrasi unokunyusa uxhalabisayo aze ahlasele.
- Zama ukuqaphela isizathu. Xa ukhangela izizathu zomsindo kunye nobugwenxa, ungakulibali ukucinga ukuba intlungu, ukukhathala, indlala, okanye ukuvuselela kakhulu kunokuba negalelo. Izinto eziphathekayo kunye nemeko yokusingqongileyo inokuchaphazela ukuziphatha kwaye kufuneka ihlolwe ngokucokisekileyo. Khangela iipatheni ngexesha (umzekelo, ingaba uyavutha ngethuba lokuhlwa ?), Kunye noko kwenzeka ntoni ngaphambi kokuba umsindo uphuhlise (ngaba wawukhulu kakhulu kwaye uxakeke?).
- Sebenzisa umkhathaleli ohlukeneyo xa kunokwenzeka. Ukuba usebenza kwikhaya labahlengikazi okanye uncediswa ukuhlala apho kukho abanye abasebenzi abakhoyo, zama ukutshintsha nomncedisi ohlukeneyo ukuba umntu onomdla uya kuba nomsindo kuwe. Nangona kunjalo ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba imiqobo (njengomnakekeli oqhubekayo) inenzuzo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlangothi oluhlukeneyo lunokubangela ukuba kubekho umphumo othile.
- Buza ugqirha. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunokunyusa ubugwenxa kunye nentukuthelo yokuba abo bantu abasondeleyo bangakhuselekanga, nokuba ngaba ngababakhathaleli okanye nabanye abahlali. Ukuba ubundlobongela kunye nomsindo ukubeka umntu kunye nabo bajikelezayo, lixesha lokubiza udokotela. Amachiza akufanele abe ngowokuqala ekuphenduleni iimpawu ezicelomngeni, kodwa kukho amaxesha afunekayo. Ugqirha unokukwazi ukuvavanya oku.
> Imithombo:
> I-Alzheimer's Association. Ukuxhatshazwa kunye nentukuthelo. http://www.alz.org/care/alzheimers-dementia-aggression-anger.asp
> Alzheimer Society Canada. Ukugxilwa kweShifting: Isikhokelo sokuqonda ukuziphatha kwengqondo. http://www.alzheimer.ca/on/~/media/Files/on/Shifting-focus/Shifting_Focus_Full_Guide.pdf