Indlela yokuphendula kwizizathu zabantu zokungafuni ukugqoka iComso

Ndivile zonke iindidi zezizathu zokuba amadoda angathandi ukugqoka iikhondom . Kodwa, ngokungayisebenzisi, ukhuseleko lwakho lusemngciphekweni. Ukusebenzisa iikhondom rhoqo xa uxhatshazwa ngesondo unikeza ukhuselo olufanelekileyo ekubambeni i-STD, kuquka ne-HIV. Kucetyiswa ukuba usebenzise ikhondom nangona usePilisi (okanye enye indlela yesigqirha okanye ukukhulelwa kwe-hormonal ). Ukuba umntu uthi "mkhulu kakhulu" ukuba angene kwiikhondom, vula enye, faka izandla zakho (njengokuba uhlaya), gxobhoza ikhondom phezu kwezandla zakho, uze uwasasaze malunga nobubanzi beekhilo ezili-12 - buza ukuba uyena mkhulu kunelo!

Nazi ezinye izizathu zokunika abantu izizathu kunye nezimpendulo ongazisebenzisa:

1. Ukuba uthe: "Kuphazamisa isimo sengqondo."

   Indlela yokuphendula ngayo: "Ukuba nesondo esingakhuselekanga kundenza ndibe nomoya ."

2. Ukuba isigxina sakhe sithi: "Iikhondom iyonakalisa ukuzonwabisa kwam ngesondo."

   Indlela yokuphendula ngayo: "Andikwazi ukuzonwabisa ngesondo ngaphandle kokuba sikhuselekile ."

3. Ukuba uthe: "Ukuba uyandithanda ngokwenene, umele uthembele kum."

   Indlela yokuphendula ngayo: "Kungenxa yokuba ndiyakuthanda ukuba ndifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba sonke sibakhuselekile."

4. Ukuba uyakhalaza: "Andiyi kuva nantoni na xa ndigqoke ikhondom."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Amakhondom amaninzi anemisebenzi eyongezelelekileyo yokwenene ngokubhekiselele kwesondo, kwaye ukuba bobabili niyakwazi ukuphucula ukwazi ukuba uyazikhusela kwi-STD kunye nokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo. Ngaphezu koko, amadoda angakwazi ukufumana injabulo ngakumbi ngamakhondom athile (njengekhondom ye-ribbed) ngaphandle kokungabikho nanye. "

   • Indlela yokukhetha ikondom
   • Ngaphambi kokuba Uthenge iiCondom

5. Ukuba uthe: "Iikhondom ayenzi ngokwenene; ininzi yazo iyancipha."

   Indlela yokuphendula ngayo: "Ukuba siyisebenzisa ngendlela efanelekileyo, iikhondom ziyimpumelelo engama-98%. Ngamanye amaxesha aphula xa ungagqoki ikhondom elungileyo. Hayi, makhe sibone ubukhulu bekhondom uze ukhethe okugqibeleleyo kuwe!"

   • Umtya weKondom

1. Ukuba isigxina sakhe sithi: "Ukugqoka ikhondom akunakukhathazeka."

   Indlela yokuphendula: Phakamisa uphawu oluthile okanye ubungakanani . Ezinye iintlobo zeekhondom ezahlukeneyo (ngaphandle kweekhondomu ze-latex ) ukuzama:

   • Iiporurethane Iikhondom
   • I-SKYN - Iikhompyutheni ezingekho ngeLatex
   • Iikhondom zeTrojan Double Ecstasy
   • Iikhondom ezongezelelweyo ezinkulu
   • ICombsStyles Turbo Condoms
   • Iikomso zeKimono MicroThin kunye no-Aqua Lube

   ---> Okanye, ukuba unesidima, unokubuya kunye naye, "Ewe, kwaye unjalo ukhulelwe iinyanga ezili-9 uze uzalwe."

1. Ukuba uthe: "Musa ukuxelela ukuba ucinga ukuba uya kubamba okuthile kum."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Ndiqinisekile ukuba andiyi kuthi, kodwa kungcono ukukhuseleka kunokuba uxolo."

2. Ukuba ukuchasayo kukuthi: "Kodwa wena usepilisi."

   Indlela yokuphendula ngayo: " I pilisi ayiyi kusikhusela kwi-STD ukuba asinakukwazi nokuba sinakho - ikhondom izasinika loo khuselo. Ngaphezulu, ngale ndlela, sinokukhuselwa kabini!"

3. Ukuba uthe: "Kodwa siye sabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom ngaphambili."

   Indlela yokuphendula ngayo: "Loo nto yayisisigqibo esibi, andifuni ukuyenza kwakhona. Ndandikhathazekile yonke inyanga ukuba ndiyakhulelwa . Sasinenhlanhla, kwaye andiyikuyidlala kwakhona. "

4. Ukuba i-excuse yakhe: "Andiyazi indlela yokusebenzisa ikhondom ngendlela efanelekileyo."

   Indlela yokuphendula: "Ndiya kukwenzela yona."

   Unokuzama ukusebenzisa iCensis Condoms . Ezi khondom ziquikStrips - iithebhu ezikhethekileyo ezenza oko njalo yonke ikhondom ye-Sensis iyahamba ngokukhawuleza, kulula kwaye ifanelwe. Ukwenza izinto zengqondo, zama ukubeka ezi khondom kwiqabane lakho. Nangona ebumnyameni, akukho ukuphosa njengoko kulula ukuxelela ukuba yintoni indlela efanelekileyo yokuluhlula ikhondom.

   Ukuze umkholise ngakumbi (kwaye ungeze umnwabo), sebenzisa umlomo wakho ukubeka ikhondom! Qinisekisa ukuba wenze oku kuqala.

   • Indlela Yokubeka Iikhondom Ngomlomo Wakho

   Ungasoloko umfundisa indlela efanelekileyo yokusebenzisa ikhondom - yenza kube "amahle" amava okufunda.

1. Cinga ezinye zezixhobo (mhlawumbi ubone oko abanye babhalele iziphakamiso):

   • Ziziphi iiCondom eziPhambili okanye iCondom ezibi kakhulu?
   • Yithi: Ziziphi iintlobo zakho zoLuntu lweComm?

2. Yiza ulungiselele ... zizise ikhondom zakho! Ungakwazi ukuzithenga ngokulula kwi-aisle yocwangciso lweentsapho kwisitolo sakho sokutya okanye kwindawo yokuzonwabisa / ivenkile okanye i-intanethi (ukuba unqwenela ukuba yingqondi).

Iingcebiso:

1. Ungesabi ukucela iqabane lakho ukusebenzisa ikhondom kuba ucinga ukuba akayi kukuthemba. Ukuba kunjalo, oko kuthetha ukuba awuyithembi ngokwaneleyo ukumcela ukuba asebenzise ikhondom.

   Ukunyaniseka nawe, ukuthetha ngokulawulwa kokuzalwa kunokuba nzima, kodwa kubalulekile (ukuba ulwalamano olunzulu) ukwenza izigqibo kunye. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba awukwazi ukuthetha nomlingane wakho malunga nokukhulelwa kwezilwanyana , izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo, kunye neembali zesondo, kufuneka uqikelele xa ulungele ulwalamano lomntu naloo mntu.

1. Khumbula, kukho izizathu ezininzi zokusebenzisa ikhondom. Funda zonke iindlela iikhondom ziyakwazi ukukhusela zombini, ukuze ukwazi ukumkhumbuza (kunye nawe) sokuba kutheni usebenzise ikhondom rhoqo xa ulala ngesondo. Ungazivumeli izizathu zeqabane lakho likuyeke ukukhusela.

2. Funda ezi ndlela zendlela onokuphendula ngayo iqabane lakho. Ukuba kuya kukukwenza uzive ulungele ngakumbi, uhlaziye; ngoko, unokulungele ukumngeni umngeni xa ekunikezela isizathu sokungafuni ukugqoka ikhondom.

3. Khumbuza ukuba ukucela umntu ukuba asebenzise ikhondom kubonisa ukuba uyazihlonela yena kunye nabo, ngoko wenqaba ukulala ngesini nomntu ongahloneliyo okanye ngokwabo ngokwaneleyo ukusebenzisa ukukhuselwa.

   ---> Yenza kucace - akukho kondom, akukho isondo!

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