Kubantu abaninzi, enye yezinto eziyingozi kakhulu ekufundeni abanesifo soxhatshazwa ngesondo (STD) ingcinga yokuthandana nayo. Bayazibuza ukuba abantu baya kucinga ntoni. Basenokungabaza indlela yokuthetha ngokuxilongwa kwabo kunye nomlingani omtsha okanye okhoyo. Ukuba bathukuthele, banokufuna ukugxeka omnye umntu ... okanye ukukhathazeka umntu unokubagxeka. Ukuba bebuhlungu, banokungabaza ukuba bafuna yini.
Le mibuzo kunye nokungabaza kuqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, izigidi zabantu zikwazi ukuhlala zivuyisayo ngama-STD. Ngamanye amaxesha, kungenxa yokuba abazi ukuba bane-STD. Amanye amaxesha, kuba ukuvuleka kunye nokunyaniseka ngempilo yesondo kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokuvuselela ukusondelana nokushisa.
Ukuthetha nomntu onxulumene naye malunga ne-STD
Ukuthandana ne-STD kwakungeke kubonakale kunzima xa abantu benza umkhwa wokuthetha ngesondo ngaphambi kokuba nayo. Ngelishwa, kwiindidi zentlalo ehlukile ngaphandle kokulawula.
Ngokufanelekileyo, wonke umntu uza kuvavanywa nge-STD . Baya kuxubusha loo miphumo ngaphambi kokuba balalane neqabane elitsha. Benza izigqibo eziqinileyo malunga nokuziqhuba (okanye ukungenzi) ngesondo esiphephile. Oku kuya kuthatha umthwalo wokubhengezwa kubantu abayazi ukuba banesifo se-STD. Endaweni yoko, wonke umntu uza kufika etafileni ngento ethile.
Inyaniso kukuba, abaninzi abantu abane-STD kwaye abazi. Yingakho ukuvavanya kunzima kakhulu.
Xa uthetha malunga nokuba ne-STD kunye neqabane okanye iqabane elifanelekileyo, bobabini abantu bafanele bazi ukuba bahlala kuphi. Ukungazi kwandisa umngcipheko wesigwebo kunye nokusola. Kwakwandisa umngcipheko womntu uthetha into abaza kuzisola ngayo .
Ufanele uxelele nini umntu onomdlavuza we-STD? Yiyo kuphela into ongayenza isigqibo.
Abanye abantu bathanda ukuthetha ngawo ngaphambi kokuba naluphi na ulwalamano olusenzekayo-mhlawumbi lwengqondo okanye ngokomzimba. Abanye bagcina ingxoxo phambi kobudlelwane bokwenyama, kodwa emva kokuba bazimisele ukuba iqabane lingumntu oziva bekhuselekile ukuthetha naye. Kanti abanye bawabeka etafileni ngaphambi kokuba baqale ngomhla wokuqala. Ngokuqhelekileyo isenzo sokulinganisana phakathi kokukhusela iqabane ngokuzikhusela.
Oko kwathiwa, akuyiyo ingcamango enkulu yokuthetha ngentsholongwane xa izinto sele ziqalise ukutshisa nokuzinzima. Akusiyo ixesha apho abantu banako ukwenza izigqibo ezintle. Kungcono kakhulu ukuba nencoko phambi kokuba iingubo zivele, kunokulandela.
Ukujongana ne-Stigma yokuthandana nama-STD
Inxalenye enzima kunazo zonke yokuthandana kwe-STD ijongene nehlazo . Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuba ne-STD yenza umntu angcolile okanye angathandeki. Nangona kunjalo, loo nkolelo ayikho yonke indawo.
Abantu abaninzi baqonda ukuba i-STD eziqhelekileyo, kunzima ukugweba umntu ngokuba nabo. Sekunjalo, ukuba unomsebenzi ongaphantsi we-STD, kunokuba nzima ukugqitha. Kufanelekile ukusebenza, nangona kunjalo. Kunzima ukufumana umntu ukuba akuthande xa unenkathazo ekuthandeni.
Into enye enokukunceda ukusebenzisana nabanye abantu abaye bajongana ne-STD kunye nokuphuma ngaphesheya.
Amacandelo enkxaso kwezinye ze-STD ezinokugxeka, ezifana ne-herpes kunye ne-HIV, ziyafumaneka zombini nakwi-intanethi.
Kuye kwaba nenani elikhulayo lewebhusayithi yokuthandana yi-STD. Nangona benenjongo efanelekileyo, banokuba negalelo kwi-STD. Abakhuthazi ingxoxo yengozi yesondo nangona bayayigxotha.
Inyaniso kukuba, ukuba unayo i-STD, akukho mfuneko yokunciphisa i-pool yakho yokubambisana nabanye abantu abane-STD efanayo. Oku kunjalo ngokwenene kuba ukwenza njalo akunakwenza isondo esiphephile naluphi na olubalulekileyo. Ukongezelela, ukuthandana akukhona malunga nokuba unobungozi obuthile okanye usulelo lwe-virus.
Ngokumalunga nokufumana umntu onokwabelana ngeengxenye zobomi bakho. Ukuba into kuphela efana nayo i-STD, akusiyo isiseko esilungileyo sobudlelwane .
Ukucinga Ngengozi
Ukunyamezela komntu wonke ngomngcipheko we-STD uhlukile. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantu abakwazi ukucinga ukungazisebenzisi izithintelo zesondo ezikhuselekileyo. Abanye abantu bakhetha ukubophelelana kwamanzi kunye nomlingane emva kokuba behlangene kunye nexesha.
Ngayiphi na indlela, kubalulekile ukucinga malunga neenkxalabo zakho kunye nokukhetha ngokucacileyo. Akukho nto ephosakeleyo ngokugqiba ukuyeka ukulala ngokwesondo kunye nomlingane . Ufuna nje ukwenza njalo ngamehlo avulekileyo malunga nemiphumo emihle. Oko kuthetha ukuba uqaphele ingozi engenzeka kwaye nendlela onokuyinciphisa ngayo. Ngokomzekelo, umntu unokucela iqabane lakhe ngezilonda ezibandayo ukuba zikulungele ukusebenzisa ityhafi yokunyanzelisa ngaphambi kokuqala ukuba nesondo somlomo olungakhuselekanga.
Ii-STD kunye nokulwa noTlobongela
Abantu abafumana ubudlova obundlobongelayo basengozini enkulu yokufumana i-STD. Enyanisweni, banomngcipheko omkhulu wokuhlaselwa ngamaxesha amaninzi. Ngokwengxenye, oku kuba amaxhoba obundlobongela obusenyongweni abathandana nabo abanalo amandla okuxoxisana ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ii-STD zingasetyenziselwa umenzi wobugwenxa ukulawula umlingane okanye ukuzigcina ebudlelwaneni obubi. I-stigma ehambelana nee-STD ingenza abantu bacinge ukuba banamathele kumlingane obundlobongela okanye ukuba abafanelekanga nantoni na. Akunjalo.
Ukuba umntu usebenzisa isifo se-STD ukugcina ulwalamano olubi, fumana uncedo. Ukusebenzisa ii-STD ukuphatha iqabane lakho kungabi ngothando. Kuthetha ngamandla.
ILizwi
Ukutshata kwe-STD ayikho nje ingozi. Kwakhona kuvuya. Uninzi lwabafundisi bezesondo zihambelana nombono wemvume yentshiseko . Imvume yentshiseko kuthetha ukuba abantu balala ngesondo kunye nabalingani abafuna ngokwenene ukuba babe nabo. Yinjongo enhle kakhulu. Kananjalo ngowona oqala ngemvume enolwazi .
Kwimiqathango yempilo yesondo, imvume enolwazi inezinto eziliqela ezibalulekileyo:
- Ukwazi isimo sakho se-STD. Oku kubandakanya ukuqaphela ukuba i- STD yokuhlola ayilunganga . Into into ofuna ukuyicela.
- Ukwazi isimo se-STD somlingani wakho. Oku kubandakanya ukuthetha malunga nexesha lokugqibela abavavanywa ngayo kwaye bavavanywa ntoni.
- Ukuqaphela ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokukhusela oyisebenzisayo, ukuba ulwaphulo olufanelekileyo lufanelekileyo.
- Ukuqaphela ukuba iqabane lakho okanye iqabane elinokuthi likhangele izinto ezifanayo ngokwesini njengoko unjalo. Ukuba omnye wenu ufuna ubusuku obunye kunye nobunye ubudlelwane obude ubomi, yindlela yokwenza intlungu.
Emva koko, lixesha lokucinga ngentshiseko. Ngaba ufuna ukulala ngesondo nomlingane wakho? Ingaba lixesha elifanelekileyo okanye ngaba kungcono ukulinda? Ziziphi ezinye izinto onomdla kuzo? Ngaba bayabelana nabo ngokuzonwabisa okanye ngaba bayazibuza ukuba ingengcamango efanelekileyo?
Khumbula, awunakuze walala ngesantya. Ukuba nonke nifuna, kulungile. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokulinda ixesha kunye nendawo esebenza kuzo zombini. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuthatha ixesha lokucinezela kukunika ithuba lokuba uthembeke kwaye uvule omnye nomnye. Oko akuyonto into embi xa kuvela ekwakheni ubuhlobo obunempilo, ngokwesondo.
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