Kuthetha ukuthini ukuxhamla umkhuhlane?
Ababini abakhetha ukuyeka ukulala ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo ngamanye amaxesha bathi ngamanzi ahlangeneyo. Oku kungenxa yokuba babelana ngamanzi omzimba omnye komnye. Ezinye izibini ezithandanayo zikholelwa ukuba ukudibanisa kwamanzi kuyindlela yokuphucula ubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto isondeleyo ngokuphathelele ukulala ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga xa kuthelekiswa ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo.
Izibini ezininzi zinobudlelwane obusondeleyo kwiminyaka emininzi ngaphandle kokutshintshwa kwamanzi.
Izibini ezininzi ezitshatileyo azikwazi ukuziphatha ngokwesondo. Nangona kunjalo, izenzo ezinjalo zibizwa nje ngokuba zizibophelelo zamanzi xa zikhethwa ngokukhethekileyo kubantu abakwilamano. Isigqibo sokuba sisinyanzelwane esiphucukileyo ngokuqhelekileyo senziwa emva kwexesha elithile apho isibini sisebenzele isondo esiphephile. Uninzi lwezibini zilindele ukuhlolisisa ukuba zinokubambisana ngokukhawuleza zide zihlolwe i-STD .
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ukudibanisa kwamanzi kungabandakanyeka kumngcipheko we- STD ukuba olo vavanyo lwe-STD aluhambelani . Akunabo bonke oogqirha bavavanya zonke ii-STD . Oku kunokunika abantu ingqiqo yokukhusela. Ukongezelela, ezininzi izibini aziqapheli ukuba kaninzi kangakanani ii- STD ezingenayo iimpawu . Bangakholelwa ngokungafanelekileyo ukuba ukhuselekile ukuyeka ukusebenzisa izithintelo ngaphandle kokuvavanywa , ukuba akukho qabane lingenayo impawu ebonakalayo.
Ukubambisana kwamanzi akukwenzeka kuphela phakathi kwamabhinqa angqabane.
Amadoda abelana ngesondo kunye nabesilisa nabasetyhini abalala ngesini nabasetyhini nabo banokubandakanya ubudlelwane obudibeneyo. Ukongezelela, abanye abantu ababandakanya ipolyamory kunye nezinye iindidi ze-non-monogamy engavumelekanga bazicingela ngokwabo okhulayo kunye nomnye okanye amaqabane amaninzi. Basenokuthi baqhube ngesondo ekhuselekile ngaphandle kwezo nxu lumano.
Uninzi lootitshala bezesondo , mna ndibandakanya, kukholwa ukuba kubalulekile ukuzama ukukholisa abantu ukuba batshintshe isicatshulwa sesini esenza abantu bakholelwe ukuba isondo esingakhuselekanga sithetha ukuba banqanaba eliphezulu lokuzibophezela. Ukusebenzisa isondo ekhuselekileyo akufanele kubonakale njengophawu lokuba umntu akathembi umlingane wakhe. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka ibonakale njengophawu lokuhlonipha umzimba wabo. Kufuneka kubonakale njengesimboli somnqweno wabo wokukhusela umntu, okanye abantu, bathanda kwingozi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kunokwenzeka ukwenza isigqibo esinolwazi sokuba ngumbane odibeneyo kunye nomlingane. Kuyinyaniso nokuba kunye neqabane elithandekayo kwi-STD. Nangona kunjalo, ukudibanisa kwamanzi akuyiyo ikhetho ekufuneka yenziwe ngokulula. Ukubambisana kwamanzi akufanele kube yindlela yokubonisa uthando okanye ukuthembela kwakho . Kutheni uqale uqale ukuxoxa ngesimo sokulala ngesondo esingathintekanga nomntu ukuba ukuthanda okanye ukuthembela kwakungumbuzo?
U mzekelo:
Isigqibo esicinga kakuhle ukuba sibe yintlupheko
UJohn noMarianne baye bahlala bethandana ngaphezu konyaka, besenza isondo ngokukhuselekileyo ixesha lonke. Kwiinyanga ezimbini emva kokubhiyozela kwabo, benza isigqibo sokuba ba tyelele iklinikhi ukuze bahlolwe izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo . Emva kokuba benze uphando lwabo, bacela oogqirha ukuba bawaphephe i-HIV, i-herpes, i-syphilis, i-gonorrhea, i-chlamydia, ne-trichomoniasis.
Xa iziphumo zabo zibuya zingekho, zixoxa ngezinto. Benza isigqibo sokuba ekubeni bobabili bathembekile kunye kunye kwaye baceba ukuhlala njalo, bafuna ukuyeka ukuziphatha ngokwesondo ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye babe ngumthamo oqhekezayo. UMarianne uqala ukusebenzisa ipilisi ukuze akwazi ukuzikhusela ekukhulelwe xa ayeka ukusebenzisa iikhondom .
Isigqibo Sokungalungi-Isigqibo Sokuba Ngomngcipheko
U-Brian no-Annie baye badibana kunye neenyanga ezintathu. Bahlangene xa bobabini bekhohlisa abanye abalingani. Kwiveki eledlule, bafudukela kwigumbi elitsha ndawonye. Akukho namnye wabo oye wavavanywa uvavanyo lwe-STD.
Bobabini bahlala belala nabanye abantu, kodwa bazinikele ekwenzeni lo buhlobo busebenze. Nangona uBrian sele efunyanwe ukuba une- herpes yobulili , akanakuqhaqhaza. Ngoko ke, xa ebuza u-Annie ukuba ufuna ukukhulelwa kunye naye, unquma ukuthatha ingozi. Ukholelwa ukuba ukuhlambululeka kumanzi kuya kunceda ukuqinisa ukuzinikela kwabo. Kwiiveki ezintandathu emva kokuba benze isigqibo, ufumanisa ukuba unesifo se-chlamydia emva kokuba sele elalwe ngesondo esingakhuselekanga nomnye umfazi.
ILizwi
Abantu banokubandakanyeka ngokubambisana ngokucwangcisayo ngezizathu ezifanelekileyo okanye ngezizathu ezimbi. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantu bazi, kwaye bakwazi ukuxoxa, ingozi. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ube ngumngcipheko odibeneyo kunye nomlingani kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngeembali zakho zesondo ngokucacileyo nangokunyaniseka. Kubalulekile ukuxubusha izibophelelo zakho malunga nobulili bodwa kunye nokusebenzisa isondo esiphephile. Kubalulekile ukuba uqikelele ngezinto onokukwazi, kwaye akunakwenzeka, wenze ngobudlelwane bakho. Emva koko unokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo malunga nokuba uhlambulukile umbane unengqiqo okanye nokuba uya kuziva unwabile kwaye ukhuselekile ngakumbi xa unquma ukuqhubela isondo ngokukhuselekileyo.
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