Iingcamango Zezesondo: Ndingazi ukuba uMlingani wam wayeba ne-STD

Abantu bahlala becinga ukuba baya kuba nako ukuba baxelele ukuba bona okanye iqabane labo liphethe i- STD . Babala ukuba bayazi ukuba umntu une-STD ngoba:

  1. Kuza kubakho iimpawu ze-STD ezibonakalayo, ezifana nokutshintsha kwiphunga okanye izilonda ezibonakalayo.
  2. Ugqirha wabo uya kubaxelela emva kokuhlola rhoqo.
  3. Kuphela iintlobo zabantu abafumana ii-STD, kwaye abantu abasengozini enkulu bayakwazi ukuyiqonda.

Ngelishwa, akukho nenye yale nkolelo inyanisekileyo .Ayikho indlela ethembekileyo yokuxelela ukuba umntu unayo i-STD.

  1. Inani elikhulu labantu abane-STD abanakho iimpawu . Oko kuthetha ukuba awukwazi ukuxelela ukuba umntu unentsholongwane ngokujonga nje ... okanye ukukhwaza.
  2. Ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi , oogqirha abaqhelekanga kubandakanya ukuhlolwa kwe-STD epheleleyo njengenxalenye yonyaka wokuhlola.
  3. Nabani na onokufumana i-STD. Kuyinyaniso nokuba ngaba benza isondo ngokukhuselekileyo . Enyanisweni, ngamanye amaxesha, nokuba bahlala bintombi.

Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba abantu banokusasaza ii-STD nangona kungabikho iimpawu. Kucingelwa, umzekelo, ukuba inani elikhulu labantu abanesifo se- herpes zobulili babonakaliswa ngabantu abangenayo ingcamango yokuba banegciwane. Oku kunjalo nakweminye imimiselo, kuquka i- syphilis , i- chlamydia kunye ne- HIV .

Ngoko ndingaxelela njani ukuba umntu unama-STD?

Inyaniso kukuba yodwa indlela oyaziyo ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho unesifo se-STD ukuba uhlolwe .

Emva koko kufuneka uxoxe ngokukhululekileyo iziphumo zakho zokuhlola. Awukwazi ukuthembela kwiimpawu. Awukwazi ukuthembela ekuthembeleni umntu uyazi iziphumo zabo. Kwaye awukwazi ukuthembela ekubeni uyakwazi ukuchonga umntu okhangele ngathi unako ukukhuseleka.

Ukucinga ukuba uyazi ukuba iqabane lakho linomdlavuza we-STD, okanye ukuba bayazi ngokwabo, i-recipe yengqumbo nentliziyo.

Ngokwahlukileyo, ukuthatha uxanduva kwimpilo yakho, kukuncedisa ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokufumana i-STD. Kwakhona kuphucula impilo yobuhlobo bakho. Oko kuthetha ukuhlaziya rhoqo, ukuthetha nomlingani wakho malunga nembali yokujonga, kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesondo ngokukhuselekileyo.

Kunokuphazamisa ukufumanisa ukuba usulelekile nge-STD xa ungenalo ingozi enjalo. Ingakhokelela ekuvekeni komsindo kunye nesityholo somlingane ongonakalisa ulwalamano. Abantu abaninzi bazimisele ukufumana umngcipheko wokusuleleka kwe-STD ukuba babe nomnye umntu abathandayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokwenzeka ukuba kunene xa bekunikwe ithuba lokwenza ukhetho oluchanekileyo. Ukuxolela kunzima xa abantu beziva bekhohlisiwe. Iimvakalelo ezinjalo zokukhohlisa zikhona nangona kungekho mntu wayekhohliswa ngamabomu. Njani? Xa omnye okanye bobabini abalingani bekholelwa nje inkolelo yesondo eyabaxelela ukuba bayayazi ukuba babe ne-STD.