... kunye neNkcukacha oyifunayo ukuyenza
Abanye abazali bangathanda ukwenza into engathethiyo kubantwana babo ngesondo. Ingcamango yabo yabasetyhini ibangela ukwesaba kakhulu ukucinga kwaye bayathemba ukuba ngokungathethi ngabo, okanye ngokuthetha nje ngobuntombi, ukuba abantwana babo abasayi kuba nako. Ngokudabukisayo, ayisebenzi njengaleyo. Ukungathethi ngesondo kunye nabantwana bakho akubavumi ukuva malunga nalo, kubangelwa ukuba bangayiva malunga nawe.
Ngaba ubungenakukwazi ukuba ulwazi olufumene lube luhle, kwaye luchanekile, kwaye lusetyenziswe ukubanceda benze ukhetho olungcono kunokwenzeka?
Ukuthetha nabantwana bakho ngesondo akubangela ukuba balala ngesondo. Ukuba kukho nantoni na, ingaba nempembelelo eyahlukileyo. Imfundo yesondo epheleleyo iboniswe ngokugqithiseleyo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo , ukunciphisa ukukhulelwa kwentsha ngelixa kungabikho ukwanda kwentlalo yesondo, ngoko yintoni enokuba ngcono kubantwana bakho kunokuba uthethe ngesondo ekhaya? Ulwazi oluchanekileyo, olufundisayo, ulwazi oluchanekileyo sisixhobo sakho esona sikhulu ekuphuculeni ulwalamano lwabo lwezesondo kunye nolwalamano oluthile kodwa nolwalamano lwakho nentombazana yakho. Ukuxelela intsha inyaniso ngesondo, kunokuba nje ukhuthaze ukuziyeka, kuninzi kubangela ukuba bakuthembele kwaye bakuphulaphule icebiso lakho xa wenza izigqibo.
Ukuthetha Nabantwana
- Ibizwa ngokuba yiinyoni kunye neenyosi (ubuninzi) ngesizathu.
Iyintoni imfihlelo yangempela yokuthetha kunye nezingane zakho malunga nesondo kwaye ubenokuziphulaphula? Akunakuthethi kuphela ukuthetha nabo ngokukhawuleza - ukuphindaphinda akuyona nje imfihlelo yokudibanisa, kuyimfihlo yokunxibelelana kakuhle.
Umbuzo weNtombi
- Ulwabelana ngesondo Ed
Abanye abazali kunye nezopolitiko abaqinisekanga ukuba bazive njani ngokufundisa imfundo epheleleyo yesondo ezikolweni. Nangona ndivuma ukuba akukho ndawo endaweni yokuthetha nabantwana bakho abasekhaya, kunzima ukuphikisana nokusebenza kakuhle kwemfundo yesini esekelwe esikolweni. Nantsi yonke ingcaciso oyifunayo ukuze ufunde ukuba isebenza, njani isebenza ngayo, kwaye kutheni nabazali nabazali abanokuthandana nentsha yabo ukuba bagweme ukulala ngesondo kufuneka baqikelele ukukhuthaza ootitshala babo ukuba bayeke ukuziyeka kuphela.
- Izibhambathiso
Izibhambathiso zentombi zibonakala ngathi zifanele zingabi nengozi. Yintoni enokuba yingozi ngokukhuthaza intombazana ukuba ityikitye iphepha okanye igqoke isithintelo sokuziyeka? Uya kumangaliswa ... - I-Hymen: Inkolelo okanye Intloko?
Abantu bangaphantsi kokungazi kakuhle ukuba ukuba ne-intenethi ehambelana nayo ifana nentombazana "ihlambulukile," inobungozi, kwaye ikhuselekile kwi- STD . Enyanisweni, yonke into yesikhumba, kwaye enye ayinako ukuyisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo njenge-barometer yendlela yokuziphatha okanye yamava ezesondo. - Ubundlobongela Nentombi Ingabonwabi Ngesondo
Ukuba iqabane lakho lezesini liyintombi ayithethi ukuba awukwazi ukufumana i-STD. Kungenxa yokuba umntu "intombi" akuthethi ukuba ukulala nabo kungenasengozini.
Ukuhlahlela kwiGritty Gritty
- Kutheni Ufuna Ukuthetha Ngeentlobano Zesondo
Kusuka kwizinto abantwana baziva kwiindaba ezi ntsuku, akumangalisi ukuba abaninzi babo bacinga ukuba isondo somlomo sisondo sonke. Nangona abazali banganqikaza ukuxoxa ngeendlela zokuziphatha zesini kunye nezingane zabo, kubalulekile ukuba benze. Iintsana zabo zisenokuba sele zithatha inxaxheba kwisondo ngomlomo ngelixa zingabi nalwazi lokuba zibeka ingozi kwi-STD ezahlukahlukeneyo. - Iingcamango malunga noBani abanezifo zoSondo ezikhuselekileyo
Akukho mntu uthanda ukuzicingela ngokwasemngciphekweni wokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo okanye izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo. Esikhundleni sokukhetha nje ukungabi ngesondo okanye ukusebenzisa iikhondom okanye ezinye iindlela zokukhulelwa, zikwazi ukuziqinisekisa ukuba azikho engozini. Nazi ezinye iingcamango ezingalunganga malunga nokuba ngubani owenzayo, kwaye akafuni, ukuba asebenzise isondo esilondekileyo esaqhelekileyo kubaselula nabadala.
Bancede Bazilungiselele
- Khu seleko kunye noBawo
Ukulungiselela abantwana bakho ukwenza izigqibo ezilungileyo ngesondo kubalungiselela ukuba benze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo ngokuphathelele ubomi. Bancede ukuba baqiniseke ngokwazi kwabo ukuzimela, benze izigqibo zabo, benze njalo kubo kwaye baya kuba balungele ukujamelana nehlabathi. - Ungayithobeli into oyifunayo kwiDrack Soft
Ukuba ubhekana nezingane zakho ngaphezu kokufumana iikhondom kwi-drack sock okanye isikhwama sencwadana, ingaba ucinga ukuba uya kubayeka ukulala ngesondo? Kunokwenzeka ukuba banokuyeka ukuthenga ikhondom. Ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukulawula ukukhetha kwabo, ngaba bekungekho lula ukuba bekulungele ukukhusela?
Isifo sokukhusela i-HPV: Okunye Okuyaziyo
- Indlela yokukhusela iVVV
Xa ukukhusela i-HPV kuqala kuphuma, umhlobo wam wandixelela ukuba abafundi bakhe babebuza ukuba isitofu sokugonya, ngokwawo, singabanika umdlavuza. Le yinkcazo yam indlela uGarasil esebenza ngayo, kwaye kutheni akuyinto engadingeki bakhathazeke ngayo. - I-Gardasil yoKhuseleko Ukuthetha ngezinto ongenakuzixhalabisa ngazo, umbuzo we-Gardasil ukhuseleko ukhuphe ngokupheleleyo kwiindaba. Ukuqonda ukuba kutheni, kufuneka uqonde ukuba idatha yokukhusela i-vaccine iqokelelwa njani e-US, kwaye yiziphi iingxelo ezikwazi ukuzenza kwaye azikwazi ukuxelela abazali kunye noogqirha.
- Ukumisela i-HPV Vaccine
Kukho umbuzo oqhubekayo kwizombusazwe malunga nokuba ngaba okanye awuthiyo kufuneka ugunyaze i-HPV yokugonya. Nazi ezinye zeenkcukacha ozifunayo ukuze uqikelele ukulinganisela kwingxoxo
Abaselula Abayena Abadala Abancinane
- Indawo yoTshintsho
Iibutho eziselula zihamba neenkqubo ezininzi zenguqu. Ukuguquka kokuphakama nokuphuhliswa kweempawu zesondo zesibini zimbini kuphela. Ezi zinguqu zibalulekile, kwaye kungekhona ngezizathu ezicacileyo. Inkqubo yendlela umlomo wesibeleko oqhubeka ngayo ebusheni ngokuqinisekileyo ubeka amantombazana amantombazana emngciphekweni omkhulu wesifo xa kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini abadala.
Emva kweMifanekiso: Indlela iNzululwazi esebenza ngayo
- Ukufumana iNyaniso kwiSaveyi
Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana impendulo eqondekileyo kwintombazana yakho malunga noko bakwenza esikolweni, unokwenzululwazi olunokuthi ulindele ukuba ufumane iimpendulo ezichanekileyo malunga nezihloko ezinzulu ezifana nobulili? Ewe, akulula, yingakho bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye nokuzama ukwenza okulungileyo. - Ukuhlala Phezulu Kweengxaki
Xa izazinzulu zifuna ukwazi into ethile, njengabanye abantu, bafuna ukwazi ngoku. Nangona kunjalo, bafunde ukuba ukuze bafumane iimpendulo ezifanelekileyo, kufuneka bacele imibuzo emihle. Inkqubo yokuphuhlisa isixhobo esisisigxina ithatha ixesha, yimi kutheni ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi ngonaphakade phambi kwedatha kwizinto ezitsha, ezona zifudumele, imibuzo yesayensi iyaqala ukuvela.