Kutheni abantu behluleka ukuziphatha ngokwesondo ngokukhuselekileyo ? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba abazi ukuba basengozini? Ingaba ngaba bayalibala ukuthenga ikhondom ? Okanye ngaba ngaba awaziyo ukuba bathethe njani iqabane labo malunga nesondo elikhuselekileyo kwaye babuze?
Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kumntu ukuba athethe intsebenziswano ngekhondom kunye neqabane lawo yinto eyaziwa ngokuba yi-self-efficacy.
Abantu kufuneka bazive bekholose ekusebenzeni kwabo ukusebenzisa iikhondom, okanye abayi kuwusebenzisa. Omnye ophethe ikhondom ephezulu ukusebenzisa i-self-efficacy (CSE) uzizwa ekhululekile ukuthenga ikhondom. Bazimisele ukuthwala omnye kunye nabo xa besenokuyidinga. Bavakalelwa kukuba bayazi ukusebenzisa iikhondom ngokuchanekileyo. Bakulungele ukwenza njalo ngexesha lesini. Kwaye, mhlawumbi kubaluleke kakhulu, banethemba lokuba bakwazi ukucela iqabane labo ukusebenzisa ikhondom. Bayazi ukuba banokuthi "hatshi" nabani na abangafuni ukuthobela .
Ukuzibhokoxa, kulo mongo, kwandisa abantu abanomgomo wokusebenzisa ikhondom kuphela. Kwakhona iphakamisa ipesenti yexesha abayisebenzisa. Zombini zezi zinto zibalulekileyo ekukhuthazeni isondo esilondekileyo.
Indlela abantu abahlakulela ngayo iCompom YokuziPhatha
Mhlawumbi kungenakuqhaqhayisa, iqela eliphambili le-CSE yi-self-esteem. Ukuze umntu akwazi ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo ukusetyenziswa kwekhondom, kufuneka ukuba bakwazi ukuhlangabezana nayo nayiphi na imiphumo emibi yokuzama.
Ukuba besaba kakhulu ukulahlekelwa ngumlingani wabo ngokukhupha isifundo sokusetyenziswa kwekhondom kunokukhathazeka ngeengozi zesini esingakhuselekanga, kunokubathintela ukuba benze ukuzama.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba abantu baqiniseke ngokwazi kwabo ukuqinisekisela ngokwaneleyo ukuvelisa isihloko sokusetyenziswa kwekhondom.
Kufuneka babe nokholo lokuba banokuqiniseka ukuba iqabane labo lisebenzise izakhono zabo zomlomo. Ngokufanayo, abantu bafuna ukwazi ukuba banokulawula izifiso zabo zesondo ngokufanelekileyo ukucela iikhondom. Bamele bazi ukuba banokwenza oko nangaphantsi kweempembelelo ezinxilisayo njengothando okanye utshwala.
Kutheni Kubalulekile Ukuthetha Nabaselula
Kubaluleke gqitha ukuba intsha ikwazi ukuthetha nothelwa kuphela koontanga kodwa ngabazali babo ngesondo. Uphando oluninzi lubonise ukuba intsha enokuthetha nabazali babo ngesondo iyakwazi ukusebenzisa iikhondom okanye ezinye izinto zokukhusela. Kananjalo banamalingani amancinci amancinci, kwaye banokulibazisa ukuqala kwabo ngokwesondo.
Le nto iguqulela njani ekusebenziseni ikhondom? Kungenzeka ukuba ukuzithemba kwabantwana abatshabayo ngokukwazi ukuthetha ngokucacileyo ngesondo kunye nabazali babo kubancedisa ukuba bathethe iingxoxo ezifanayo kunye namaqabane abo.
Kutheni Ukwenza Iikondom ezithe zafikeleleka ngakumbi zinceda
Kungabonakala kungenangqondo kubantu abathile, kodwa enye yezinto ezivame ukuyeka abantu ukuba basebenzise iikhondom kukuhlazo lokuba bathenge. Ukunikezela ngokucokisekileyo iikhondom zamahhala kwiimivalo , izikolo, nakwezinye iindawo ngenye indlela ootitshala abazame ukujongisa loloyiko. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iindlela zokuncedisa.
Abantu banokufundiswa ukuba ukuthenga iikhondom akunanto enkulu.
Okona kubaluleke ngakumbi, mhlawumbi, izitolo zingakhuthazwa ukuba zibeke ikhondom kwindawo ethile ngaphandle kwendlela, kodwa kulula ukuyifumana. Ngaloo ndlela, abantu abafuna ukuzithenga ababonwa bawabheka ngokubonakalayo. Nangona kunjalo, akufanele bafihleke kakuhle. Ukuba ucele umqeshwa weevenkile apho iikhondom zikhoyo khona kunokusongela abaninzi abathengi beentlanzi. Kwirekhodi, uphando luye lwabonisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba ukubonelela iikhondom zamahhala ezikolweni akukhuthazi ukuba ulutsha lulalane. Kubakhuthaza nje ukuba benze njalo ngokukhuselekileyo.
Kutheni imfundo malunga nokusetyenziswa kweCondom kuCorical
Enye into ebalulekileyo ukukhankanya: Ngenxa yokuba abantu bazive benethemba lokuba bakwazi ukusebenzisa iikhondom akuthethi ukuba bathetha ngokuchanekileyo.
Ubuncinane uphando oluthile lufumene ukuba ukuzithemba komntu ekukwazi ukufaka ikhondom ngendlela elungileyo kuncinci kakhulu kwindlela enekhono.
Iikhondom zisebenza kakuhle xa zingasetyenziswanga kuphela kodwa ngokuchanekileyo. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ootitshala, abeendaba, kunye nabalingani bezesondo ukuba baqinisekise ukuba nabani na onokubeka ikhondom uyazi ukwenza kakuhle.
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