Ngaba kufuneka utshele umntu omdala "unokuba yi-autistic?"
Umhlobo wakho omdala, isihlobo, okanye usebenza naye ubonakala ngathi uluntu "luyeke," ngokungaqhelekanga kwimidlalo ye-intanethi, kunqongophe kakhulu kwiingubo kunye nokukhetha ukutya. Ugqityiwe ukukhushulwa, ukuxhatshazwa kweentlalo okanye ukuxhatshazwa.
Kuwe, isizathu salo mcimbi sibonakala sicacile: wakho umhlobo okanye isihlobo mhlawumbi i-autistic.
Yintoni omele uyenze ngokulandelayo?
Qala ngokuPhonononga Ukuqonda kwakho kwe-Autism
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze nantoni na, kubalulekile ukwazi kabanzi malunga ne-autism kunokuba yintoni ekwabelwana ngayo kwi-media okanye phakathi kwabahlobo.
Ukuze ufanele ukufumana ukuxilongwa kwe-autism ye-autism, kufuneka umntu abe neempawu ezininzi-kwaye loo mpawu kufuneka ibe nefuthe ngokwaneleyo ukuba ithintele kakhulu amandla abo okuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Kanye ngokubalulekayo, kufuneka ukuba iimpawu kufuneka zivele kwixesha lo mntu wayemncinane kakhulu.
Ukuba wakho umhlobo okanye omaziyo unomnye-autism-like, umngeni, unengxaki engabandakanyekanga kakhulu ubomi bakhe, okanye imingeni ethile esanda kuzuza, akayiyo i-autistic.
Nazi ezinye iingcamango ezingalunganga malunga nokuba i-autism ibukeka njani:
- Umntu osebenza kunye naye uye waba neentloni xa esaqhawula umtshato. Unabangane abambalwa kuphela . Ukuba umhlobo wakho WENZALO kwaye unesihloni, i-autism ayikho imbambano. Ingakumbi, kungekhona bonke abantu abane-autism banamahloni! Abantu abane-autism banokuba neentloni okanye intlalontle-kodwa banokufumana uluntu olunxibelelwano olubucayi. Basenokungaboni ukuhlambalaza, bathethe ngezihloko "ezilungileyo", okanye bazi ixesha lokungena kunye nexesha lokunyathela kwingxoxo yabucala.
- Umntwana wam omdala uphumelele kwiikholejini kwaye ubambe umsebenzi-kodwa xa ekhaya, unomdla kakhulu ngokudlala kwi-intanethi engazange afune ukuyishiya indlu. Ukuba umntu uphumelele kwiikholejini, ubambe umsebenzi, kwaye kwenzeka ukuba athandazwe ngokudlala kwi-intanethi, akunakwenzeka ukuba yena u-autistic. Nangona abantu abane-autism bangakwazi ukunyamezela (kwi-focus-focus) kwimimandla ekhethekileyo, ukunyamezela kuphela akukwanele ukufumana ukuxilongwa. Ingakumbi, ukuba umcimbi wokunyamezela untsha, ngoko-autism ayinayo ingxaki.
- Umntakwethu ukwesaba kwiprogram yekhompyutheni, kodwa akazange akwazi ukufumana intombi. Abantu abaninzi abane-autism banetalente yeprogram, kwaye bambalwa banokukufumana kulula ukudibanisa ngothando. Kodwa oko kungathethwa kubantu abaninzi, abaninzi abantu abangenayo i-autistic.
- Udadewethu unemigangatho efana neyayimfuneko ukuba ahambe kuyo yonke imihla . Abantu abane-autism banqwenela ukukhetha iishedyuli eziqhelekileyo ngokuchasene nokuzimela. Kodwa imfuneko yokuba, umzekelo, uthinte izinto ngendlela efanayo ukuze unciphise uxhalaba, aluqhelekanga kuhambelana ne-autism. Ukuba umntu onombuzo akanayo enye impawu, kungenzeka ukuba unobungozi obufana ne-Obsessive Compulsive Disorder-kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba u-autistic.
Yintoni Okufanele Uyenze Ukuba Usenokuba Ucinga Ngomntu Okho Ebusweni Bakho Ngaba I-Autistic?
Ukuqala, ngelixa umntu omdala ebomini bakho, eneneni, unokuxilongwa nge-autism esebenzayo (i-Asperger syndrome), akunakulungele ukuba wenze nantoni na. Kungenxa yokuba (1) kunzima ukufumana ingcali onamava ekufumaneni abantu abadala abane-autism esebenzayo kunye (2) zimbalwa zonyango oluthile lwabantu abadala .
Ngaphambi kokuba sithethe nantoni na, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukwenza uvavanyo lokubiza ixabiso lentengo.
Zibuze:
- Ingaba yindawo yam yokuthetha nantoni na? Ukuba ungumhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo, impendulo ibe ngu "ewe," ngaphandle koko impendulo mhlawumbi "ayikho."
- Ngaba kuya kunceda ukusho nantoni na? Ukuba umntu obonakalayo ubonakala anelisekile ngobomi ahlala kuyo-nokuba ngaba ulinganiselwe-akukho nto inokufumana inzuzo xa uthetha. Ukuba unesizungu, udidekile, okanye uziva ehlaselwa, ukuxilongwa kunokunceda.
- Lo mntu unako ukuphendula njani? Abanye abantu baxhaswa yi-diagnostic, ngelixa abanye bacasulwa-kwaye abanye bakhanyela ukuba kungenzeka kwaye baphumele kwisithunywa.
Xa ucinga ukuba usondele kumntu ochaphazelekayo, kufuneka ukwazi ukuphendula ngokuchanekileyo le mibuzo uze kwisigqibo.
Luhlobo luni lolo unyango olutholakala kumntu omdala ophethe i-Autism?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abadala abane-autism bafumana unyango lweempawu ezithile ngokubambisana neengxaki zonyango (intetho), imigaqo ecacileyo yeemeko zentlalo, kunye neyeza ezifanelekileyo. Basenokukhetha ukufumana uncedo kumsebenzi weengxaki zeengxaki: Abantu abaninzi kwi-autism umbala okanye ngaphantsi komsindo, ukukhanya, intlungu, njalonjalo.
Inkambo efanelekileyo kakhulu yokulandela umdala omdala ngu:
- Funa umntu osebenza ngengqondo onokusebenzisana naye kwiinkxalabo zentlalo kunye neentloni (kwezinye iindawo kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane isifo sengqondo esinamava asebenzayo nabantu abadala kwi-autism, kodwa akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu);
- Khawuqwalasele nayiphina imishana i-psychiatrist ingancoma;
- Cinga ukusebenzisa amavidiyo, iincwadi kunye nezinye izixhobo ezinika umyalelo ochanekileyo wokusingatha imeko yeengxaki emsebenzini okanye kuluntu;
- Cinga ukuxhuma kunye namaqela enkxaso ye-intanethi kubantu abadala abane-Aspergers kunye neengxaki ezinxulumene nazo.
Imithombo:
Gaus, Valerie. Unyango lwe-Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment for Adult Asperger Syndrome. I-Guilford Press, ngo-2007.
Mandy, Roy et al. I-Asperger's syndrome ekudala. Dtsch Arztebl Int. 2009 uJan; 106 (5): 59-64. Ipapashwe ngo-intanethi ngo-2009 uJan 30