Indlela Yokuthetha Ngomntu Okhuselekileyo Ngomntu Osebenza Ngomntu Omtsha
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukulala ngesondo kunye neqabane elitsha, kukho izinto ezininzi zokuthetha ngazo, kuquka:
- Ukhuseleko lwezesondo
- Uvavanyo lwe-STD
- Ukusetyenziswa kwekhondom (nangona isondo somlomo , kwakhona)
Kwaye kukho enye! Kungaba nzima ukubona indlela yokuqalisa le ngxoxo, nangona kunjalo. Nantsi enye indlela le ntetho ingahamba ngayo ...
Iskripthi seNtetho yesondo yeSampula
Umfanekiso wesithandana ngokuphandana. Elinye iqabane liyekile:
Umlingani A: "Ngaphambi kokuba sihambe ngaphezu kokunye kufuneka sikhulume ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo ."
Umlingani B: "Ngaba kufuneka?"
Umlingani A: "Akudingeki sibe nencoko ebusuku, kodwa kufuneka sibe nayo ngaphambi kokuba sihambe ngakumbi kunokumanga ... into endifuna ukuyifumana."
Umlingani B: "Kulungile. Makhe sibe nalo ngoku."
Umlingani A: "Ngexesha lokugqibela ndakhankanywa izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo , malunga neenyanga ezine ezedlulileyo. Ngaloo xesha ndandingenakucala ngenxa ye- chlamydia , i- gonorrhea , i- syphilis , i- HIV kunye ne- herpes . Ndandingavavanyelwa nje konke oku zinto. Okwangoku andinakulala nomnye umntu.
Umlingani B: "Ulungile ..."
Umlingani A: "Uvavanyo luni lokugqibela?"
Umlingani B: "Um, andiyazi. Sekuyiminyaka emibini. Andingalali nabani na okwangoku."
Umlingani A: "Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba silale ngesondo, ndiyakuyixabisa ngokwenene ukuba unokuhlaziya iimvavanyo zakho.
Kungenzeka ukuba ihlanganiswe yinshurensi yakho, kodwa ukuba akunjalo, unokuvavanywa ngeendleko eziphantsi kakhulu kwi-Clinical Parenthood okanye kwikliniki ye-STD yangaphakathi. "
I-PartnerB: "Oku kubonakala kulungile."
Umlingani A: "Ndifuna ukukhankanya ngaphambili ukuba ndikholelwa ekusebenziseni iikhondom zokulala, kodwa ndihlala ndisebenzisa iikhondom okanye ezinye izithintelo zesondo zomlomo , nazo."
Umlingani B: "Ngokwenene? Kutheni?"
Umlingani A: "ezininzi ze- STD zingasasazeka ngocansi lomlomo. Kubonakala kungcono ukukhuseleka kunokuxolisa."
Umlingani B: "Andizange ndenze oko ngaphambili. Ngaba akuthathi loo nto inokumnandi?"
Umlingani A: "Akunjalo ukuba ndiyiqaphele. Kuba mna, ubuncinane, yenza nje into endiyithandayo xa ndingenandaba nophuseleko.
Baqala ukuphinda baphinde baqabule.
Umlingani A: "Ndiza kukubonisa emva koko, emva kokuvavanywa.
Umlingani B: "Ndivile ukuba kufezekisa."
Umlingani A: "Nangona kungenjalo, ndiya kuzisa iikhondom ."
Umlingani B: "Andikwazi ukulinda."
Umlingani A: "Akufanele uhambe naliphi na, kodwa akuthethi ukuba kufuneka siyeke ukukhohlisa ngoku."
Umlingani B: "Ndazi ukuba ndithandile ngesizathu."