Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ubulili bomlomo buyisondo ekhuselekileyo . Nangona bephosakele, loo ngcamango ingenza kube nzima kakhulu kubantu abafuna ukuzenza isondo somlomo ngokukhuselekileyo ukuze baxoxisane ngokusebenza ngokukhuselekileyo . Ukuba umntu akacingi nge-blowjobs njengengozi, unokungayiqondi isizathu sokuba umntu afune ukuyenza ngesondo ngomlomo esebenzisa ikhondom . Yingakho kubalulekile ukuba ulungele ingxoxo.
> * Ndiyisebenzisa "yena" njengendlela emfutshane yokubhekisela kumlingane ophethe ipeni.
Ubunzima: Kulula
Ixesha elifunekayo: Nokuba nje kuthatha ...
Nantsi indlela:
- Qala ngokuxelela iqabane lakho ukuba unomdla ngokwenene ekumnike umsebenzi onzima (kungenjalo, kutheni uxoxisana omnye?). Emva koko mxelele ukuba wenza into yokuba usebenzise isondo somlomo ukhuselekile .
Iskripthi seSampula: "Ndicinga ukuba ungumnqweno, kwaye ndiyakuthanda kakhulu ukukunika i-blowjob. Noko ke, ndifuna ukuba wazi ukuba ndiyifumene nokuba nomzimba okhuselekile ngomzimba."
- Ukuba iqabane lakho lingazi ukuba yintoni isondo somlomo okhuselekile, uthetha ngalo. Mxelele ukuba iqala ngokumvusa ngezandla zakho, okanye enye into ekhuphayo. Emva koko ubeka ikhondom kwi-penis ngaphambi kokuba uyithathe emlonyeni wakho. Unokumthabatha ngamanyathelo oza kuwafumana kwiNqaku lokuKhusela i-Blowjob .
Isampuli seSampula: "Eyokuqala, siya kuvula. Emva koko siza kubeka ikhondom ngaphambi kokuba ndiyithathe ipilisi emlonyeni wam."
- Ukuba iqabane lakho lingacacanga ukuba kutheni ufuna ukuzenza isondo somlomo ukhuselekile, ungakhathazeki. Yilungele ukuthetha ngomngcipheko wesondo lomlomo olungakhuselekanga. Bonisa ukuba isondo somlomo sinokubeka ababini abalingani besengozini kwi-STD ezininzi. Mkhumbuze ukuba ukwenza i-fallatio ekhuselekileyo yindlela efanelekileyo yokunciphisa ingozi yakho.
Iskripthi seSampula: "ezininzi ze-STD zingasasazwa ngocansi ngomlomo, kubandakanya i- herpes kunye ne-syphilis. Enyanisweni, esinye sezizathu sokuba zombini ezo zifo ziba zixhaphake kukuba abantu abaninzi abaqhelanga ngesondo somlomo okhuselekileyo. kulula ukuba usasaze ngale ndlela. "
- Abanye abantu abanqweneli ukuvuma ukulala ngesondo ngomlomo. Basenokuthi bengafuni ukuba nesondo somlomo kubo bonke okanye bazame. Basenokuzama ukukunyanzela ukuba bavume ukungasebenzisi ikhondom. Ukuba ulwalamano olukhuselekileyo lubalulekile kuwe, hamba uye emathunjini akho. Ufanele ulungele ukuhamba kude nokuhlangana ngokwesondo ongenako ukukhusela okanye ukukhetha ezinye iinketho.
Isampuli seSampuli: "Andifuni ukulala ngesondo xa singenako ukuziphatha ngokwesondo ngokukhuselekileyo. Ukuba awufuni ukusebenzisa ikhondom kwisini somlomo, mhlawumbi sinokuzama into engaphantsi kwengozi njengento yokuhlambalaza ."
- Ukusebenzisa isondo somlomo okhuselekileyo, okanye olunye ulwabelana ngesondo olukhuselekileyo, alukho endaweni yokuhlola i-STD rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, ezininzi ze-STD ezingadluliselwa ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo, njenge- herpes azivivinywa rhoqo ngamayeza amaninzi. Ngaphandle kokuba uvavanyo olunzulu luyenziwe, kunokwenzeka ukuba uphelelwe i- STD . Ngokomzekelo, iimvavanyo zingahle ziphosakele ukuba ukusuleleka kwenzeka kakhulu kumhla wovavanyo okanye emva kokuvavanywa kwenziwe. Khumbula ukucela iqabane lakho oko wavivinywa. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba uvavanyo lwe- STD luyinxalenye yokutshekisha xa kungenjalo.
Isampuli seSampula: "Ndiyazi ukuba uthe wavavanywa kwi-STD, kodwa yiyiphi ihlolwe ngazo?"
- Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ukhuseleko akusiyo kuphela isizathu sokusebenzisa iikhondom ngexesha lokuwa. Abanye abantu abayithandi incamano yesondlo. Abanye bathanda ukuba iikhondom ziphephe ngokufanelekileyo "ukukhahlela" okanye "ukugwinya" ingxoxo. Ekugqibeleni, amanye amadoda afumanisa ukuba ukusebenzisa ikhondom ngexesha lesondo lomlomo lingenza ukuba amava ahlale ixesha elide. Ukusebenzisa iikhondom kwisini somlomo kunokukhetha okulungileyo, kungekhona nje indlela yokunciphisa ingozi ye-STD.
Iingcebiso:
- Yilungele ukuthetha ngomngcipheko wesondo lomlomo nokuba kutheni ukukhuseleka kubalulekile kuwe. Inokukunceda ukuphrinta uluhlu lwe- STD ezingasasazwa ngocansi lomlomo olufumaneka kwisiqhagamshelo sokuqala.
- Gxininisa kwinto yokuba isondo somlomo ngokukhuselekileyo sisabelana ngesondo ngomlomo. Ukuba isondo somlomo yinto into ozithandayo, ukuvuma ukuyenza ngekhondom kunokumfumana ngaphezulu.
- Musa ukuxoxisana ngesondo xa ukhathele, u-cranky, okanye phakathi kwesithuba sokusweleka kwesondo. Kulula ukuba nencoko enhle malunga nomsebenzi wesondo xa uphapheme ... kodwa ngaphambi kokuba iqalise ukutshisa kunye nobunzima.
- Khumbula ukuthenga iikhondom ezingabonakaliyo zesondo zomlomo. Awufuni ukuba ulwimi lwakho lube lukhuni kwi- N-9
- Kungaba nzima ukuthetha ngokutshintshwa kwimiqathango kunye neqabane langoku, kunokuba kuxoxisane neqabane elitsha. Thetha nomlingane wakho malunga nokuba kutheni ufuna ukwenza utshintsho. Esi sizathu sinokuba sesilula njengoko kuthatha isigqibo sokuba usebenze ngakumbi malunga nokukhusela zombini impilo yakho.
Ingaba ufuna ntoni:
- Indawo ekhululekile yokuhlala kunye nokuthetha nomlingane wakho.
- Umlingani wakho, mhlawumbi kwisimo sengqondo esivayo.
> Imithombo:
> Barbee LA, Khosropour CM, iDombrowski JC, Manhart LE, Golden MR. Uqikelelo lwenani le-gonococcal, i-chlamydial kunye non-gonococcal non-chlamydial urethritis ebonakalayo ngenxa yesondo ngomlomo phakathi kwabantu abalala ngesondo: ukufundiswa kwetyala. UkuThatshazwa ngokwesondo. Ngo-2016 uMar; 92 (2): 155-60. i-doi: 10.1136 / i-sextrans-2015-052214.