Akunandaba nokuba uyindoda okanye umfazi, ngokuchanekileyo okanye umlingani. Ukuba ulala ngesondo ngaphandle kwexesha elide, ulwalamano olulodwa , ulwalamano apho bobabini abalingani beye bahlolwe i-STD , mhlawumbi ingcinga efanelekileyo yokuzibandakanya ngesondo esiphephile . Kwiimeko ezininzi, oko kuthetha ukuba umntu kufuneka athenge iikhondom . Kuyinyaniso nokuba ngaba bathenga kuphela iikhondom ukwenzela ukuba bazinqamle baze bazenze zibe ngamantombazana amazinyo .
Kubonakala ngathi inkolelo yesondo exhaphake kakhulu yokuba, kwiibini ezitshatileyo, ngumthwalo womntu ukuthenga iikhondom. Kukho izizathu ezilungileyo zokuba kutheni amadoda athile angakhetha ukuthenga iikondom zawo. Ngokomzekelo, banokuba nekhondom yokuthanda iikondom okanye abangafuni ukubeka umngcipheko beqabane elilibale ukuthenga. Nangona kunjalo, ingumxholo olungileyo kumntu ocinga ukulala ngesondo ukuthenga ikhondom.
Kutheni wonke umntu kufuneka athenge iiCondom
Esinye isizathu sokuba wonke umntu athenge iikhondom zakhe kukuba kukusoloko kulungile ukuba ulungele ukuba ucinga ngokulala ngesondo. Emva kwakho konke, iqabane lakho lingenako. Ukuba ucinga ukuba baya kuthenga iikhondom kwaye ke awanako, unokujamelana nokhetho olubi kakhulu. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhethe phakathi kokubelana ngesondo esingakhuselekanga ukuba ungagqiba ukuzisola okanye ungafani nesondo.
Abanye besetyhini banokungabaza ukuthenga iikhondom kuba kukho inkolelo yesondo yokuba ibhinqa elithwala ikhondom liyi "slut" okanye "tramp." Kukho i-subset encinci yamadoda akholelwa oku.
Nangona kunjalo, abasetyhini bangathanda ukubuza ukuba ngaba bafuna ukulala nomntu obagwebayo ngenxa yokwenza isigqibo sokulala ngesondo kunye nabo. Ukugqiba ukulala ngesini kufuneka ube yinto oyenzayo ukusuka kwindawo yokuxhobisa abantu. Oku kubandakanya ukukwazi ukunyamekela kokubili ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama.
Nabani na ongayihloneliyo akanakukuhlonela.
Ukubeka nje, akukona uxanduva lomntu ukuthenga iikhondom. Inembopheleleko yanoma ubani oceba ukulala ngesondo ukulungele ukuzikhusela ngokwabo kunye namaqabane abo. Ukuba elinye iqabane likhethe ukhetho lomkhondom, okanye ludinga uphawu olukhethekileyo lwekhondom ukujongana ne-latex okanye i- lubricant allergies, ngoko banokuthatha umthwalo omkhulu wokuthengwa kwekhondom. Nangona kunjalo, akukho sizathu sokuba elinye iqabane lingenakukwazi ukungena okanye ukugcina izicwangciso ezimbalwa kwindawo yokulala.
Ekugqibeleni, kubafazi abafuni ukuthenga iikhondom kuba bekwesaba "indlela eya kujonga ngayo," kukho iindlela. Iinkampani ezininzi sele zenza amatyala ekhondomu ... xa kubonakala ukuba kubaluleke ngaphezu kokunyamekela impilo yakho. Kwaye, ke, unako ukuyalela iikhondom kwi-intanethi. Enyanisweni, ukwenza njalo kuyindlela enhle yokuzama iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeikhondom kunye neebluegrants ukuze ubone oko uyenzayo kwaye ungakuthandi.
ILizwi
Ingcamango yokuba abesetyhini akufanele babe ngabathengi iikhondom ngobudlelwane obundlwengulanayo, ngandlela-thile, umkhiqizo wokudlwengulwa kwenkcubeko. E-US, abafazi basoloko bekulindeleke ukuba bathelelwe ngesondo kwaye bathi akukho nto xa bengayifuni.
(Ngokuchasene nabasetyhini kulindeleke ukuba bathi ewezesondo xa befuna.)
Xa abafazi bebonwa ukuba babe ngabamkeli bemigxalabo yesondo, akukho mfuneko yokuba balungiselele ngesondo ngaphambili. Ukuba ngaba abafazi babecinga ukuba ngabanye abanomdla ekufuneni ngokwesini, ukulindela kuya kwenzeka. Kuya kuba nengqiqo ukuba bathenge iikhondom ezazifunekayo ukuba babe namava abafuna. Ngethamsanqa, elo lizwe singakwazi ukuhambela ngokutshintsha iingcamango malunga nemvume kunye nesidingo sokuba wonke umntu azive anikwe igunya lokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ngesondo.