Iindlela ezingama-30 zokukhumbuza othandekayo ngomhla wobulelo

Kulabo ababuhlungu ukufa komntu othandekayo, iiholide zingabonisa ubunzima . Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ilahleko yenzeke, sivame ukuvakalelwa kukuba akukho ilungu lentsapho elithandayo, umhlobo okanye intlanzi enomdla kakhulu ngexesha loKubonga ngenxa yeeholide zethu ezinkumbulo, izithethe kunye nemikhuba ebandakanyekayo. Nazi iingubo ezingama-30-enye yosuku ngalunye ngoNovemba-ukunceda uzukise kwaye ukhumbule umthandayo olahlekileyo uze ufumane uxolo ngaphambi, ngexesha nangemva kweSuku lokuBonga.

Ukuhlonela Umntu Othandayo Ngombulelo

1. Ukubhala phantsi iingcamango zakho neemvakalelo zihlala zibonisa indlela efanelekileyo yokujamelana nentlungu . Ingaba ukhetha ukusebenzisa ikhompyutheni okanye ipenethi kunye nephepha, iphephabhuku lakho eliyintandokazi lokukhumbula izinkumbulo ezizungezile umthandayo, kwaye uqhubeke ungeze iinkcukacha ngexesha leeholide ngamnye emva koko.
2. Uluntu oluninzi lubamba ukuhamba ngeengxowa-mali ngexesha leeholide lokubonga, ngoko qwalasela ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuhambeni / ukugijima ukuxhasa isizathu sokuba umthandwa wakho angenelela, okanye ukukunceda ukufumana unyango kwisifo / isifo esafa kuyo. Ukuzivocavoca kunokukunceda ukukhupha ingqondo yakho kwaye usebenze ezinye zee-calories.
3. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uya kubamba umthendeleko wokubonga ekhaya lakho, yenza ibhodi yememori kwaye uyibonise.
4. Shiya isitulo esingenalutho kunye nendawo yokubeka kwindawo yeeholide yakho yokukhunjulwa ngokukhumbula umhlobo wakho. Ukuba lo mqondiso ubonisa ingxaki enkulu kumoya, unokuyeka ukubeka iiplate kunye ne-silverware etafileni kwaye ubeke isihlalo esingenalutho ngaphandle.

1. Ngethuba lokutya kweeholide, nikela isilumkiso esikhethekileyo kwimemori yomthandayo kunye / okanye ubuze amalungu entsapho kunye nabahlobo etafileni ukuba babelane ngeemithandazo zabo zokubonga zokufa, ukuba uziva.
2. Nika ukutya okanye ukutya konke umntu onokulamba le Nkolelo yokuBonga, okanye wenze igalelo lemali kwintlangano edla abo banesidingo.

1. Ukuba imozulu kunye nexesha leemvume zakho zendawo, tshala umthi ekukhunjuleni komntu oshonile ukuba ube yisikhumbuzo esilungileyo sothando oseluthwala entliziyweni yakho-kungekhona nje kwiNkolelo yokuBonga kodwa yonke imihla yonyaka.
2. Ukuba ubamba imikhosi yeeholide, khanyisa ikhandlela ekhethekileyo okanye isibane esincane sombane ekhaya lakho, mhlawumbi ecaleni kwesithombe esithandayo, njengesikhumbuzo esicacileyo esibonisa ubukho bakho obathandayo entliziyweni yakho nangengqondo ngexesha lokuBonga.
3. Ukusebenzisa isofthiwe yekhompyutheni, yakha ividiyo yerhafu kwiifoto zakho ezizithandayo kunye / okanye ividiyo ekhoyo ekhoyo yintanda yakho, uyibeke kumculo kwaye yabelane ngayo kunye nosapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo emva kokutya.
4. Ukuba ucelwa ukuba ulethe isidlo sesidlo, lungiselela ukutya okuthandwa ngumntu oyithandayo kwaye wenze le nto yaziwe njengabantu abayidlulisa etafileni.
5. Buza amalungu omndeni kunye nabahlobo ukuba bancedise ukwenza "i-capsule yememori" ngokunikela ngezinto ezinentsingiselo ezinxulumene nomntu wakho othandekayo-njengamakhadi, iileta, iifoto, imemori, njl. Beka kwisitya esomeleleyo uze usibekele kwindawo yakho emva kokubamba umcimbi omncinane okanye ukwabelana ngememori eyintandokazi, ukuba unqwenela, emva kokuthatha isigqibo malunga nekamva "musa ukuvula kuze kube ngumhla".
6. Amavolontiya ixesha lakho lokuncedisa intlangano yenkonzo yendawo okanye indawo yakho yonqulo izalisekisa umsebenzi wayo wokunceda abo banesidingo kuMhla wokuBonga.

1. Iveki enkulu yeeholide enika ithuba elihle lokucoca i-closet okanye i-dresser yakho kwaye unikele ngempahla yakho esetyenziswayo ngobumnandi kwimemori yakho omthandayo, ingakumbi iigebengu, iingubo, iiglavu, iikhokh, njl, kwabanye abantu abanokuzuza kubo njengendlela yezulu ehamba phambili .
2. Izibhedlele, izindlu zokungcwaba, iicawa kunye nezinye iindawo zonqulo zihlala zikhunjulwa iinkonzo kwi-Thanksgiving. Ngenxa yokuba ieholide ingabangela umngeni kubafundi abathandekayo, baye kwiinkonzo zokukhunjulwa kulo nyaka, odla ngokubandakanya umculo, ukukhuthazwa kunye / okanye ukufundwa kwezenkolo, kunye nezinye iimeko ezikhethekileyo zokuncedisa isidima kunye nokukhumbula abo bathandekayo.

1. Njengoko kuphawuliwe ngasentla, uqeqesho lubonelela ngeenzuzo ezininzi, ngokukodwa emva kokutya kweSuku lokuBonga lokuBonga, ngoko uhambe ngaphandle uze ujikeleze ummelwane wakho okanye u tyelele ipaki udibanisa nelungu lentsapho elithandayo kunye / okanye isilwanyana.
2. Usuku olusisiseko loSuku lokuBonga luyikubonga ngenxa yeentsikelelo ebomini bethu, kubandakanya amalungu ethu entsapho kunye nabahlobo. Ngaloo moya, yakha uze unike izipho zesikhumbuzo kulabo bawaziyo intanda yakho, njengamakhanda e-silicone ekhethwe ngabomntu, izikhumbuzo zefestile zesikhumbuzo , iifoto ezenziwe ngeefoto, amatye engumkumbusho wesikhumbuzo, izinto ezenziwe ngesandla, njl.
3. Ngaphambili, iintsapho zivame ukukhetha ukubukela i-movie ye- movie yokubonga kwangaphambili, iiholide okanye ezinye izihlandlo. Ukuba uziva kuyo, hlawulela bonke abantu, vala umdlalo webhola kunye nezixhobo ezahlukeneyo eziphathekayo kwaye ujonge i-explosion-from-past-past in any form you have available.
4. Yenza igalelo lezemali ngenxa yokuba intanda yakho ithandeke, kungakhathaliseki egameni lakhe okanye ngokungachazwanga.
5. Ukubulela yinto yokubonga kodwa abaninzi banokufumana oku kunzima kunikwe iimeko zabo. Ngako oko, "thobela" intsapho encinci , enoba icawa okanye nenye inhlangano yenkxaso yendawo, kwaye uncedise ukwenza iholide yabo ikhumbule inkumbulo yomthandayo.
6. Emva kwesidlo seeholide, faka inqaku ebhaliweyo kumntu wakho othandekayo kwibhaluni egcwele i-helium uze uyikhulule ngaphandle kwentsapho yakho kunye nabahlobo bakho. Le nyathelo ibonisa ngokubanzi i-cathartic kunokuba ungacinga.
7. Ngexesha elide leveki yeeholide, tyelela iindawo zakho zokungcwaba okanye indawo apho wachithachitha khona i- cremated cremated , uxoxe naye ngeemvakalelo zakho uze ushiye ezinye iintyatyambo okanye i-memento ukubonisa ukuhlala kwakhe entliziyweni nasengqondweni yakho. Eli lixesha elihle lokucoca ilitye lephambili okanye uphawu lokumangalisa ukuba imozulu ivumela.
8. Emva kwesidlo sakho seeholide, jonga i-movie oyithandayo , mhlawumbi kunye namanye amalungu entsapho kunye nabahlobo okanye wena.
9. Yakha "ikhonkco leememori" ngokubhala iimpendulo zakho ezizithandayo zokubonga, iimvakalelo zakho zangoku, izichazi ezibonisa iimpawu zakho ezikhethekileyo, okanye izinto oziva uzibulela kwixesha elide, iphepha elincinci lamaphepha anemibala (malunga ne-8 "elide nge-1" phezulu). Ifom edibanisayo kunye neqhekeza ngalinye ukuze wenze ikhonkco ongayisebenzisa ukuyibeka umnyango okanye ukuxhoma eludongeni okanye ekupheleni kwetafile yakho yokutya.
10. Sivame ukudibanisa iholide yokubonga kunye nokutya okumnandi kunye nezitya ezikhethekileyo, ngoko qha ga mshelana ne-hospice, kwikhaya lononophala, indawo yokuhlala okanye enye indawo yokukhathalela ngaphambi kwexesha ukufumanisa oko unokubhaka / ukupheka uze unikezele ukukhanyisa iholide lomnye umntu, njengama-cookies, ama-candi kunye / okanye ezinye ukutya ezikhethekileyo.
11. Ukuba uya kubamba imikhosi yakho yeeholide kulo nyaka, cela amalungu akho entsapho kunye nabahlobo ngaphambi kwexesha ukuzisa i-memento encinci, ifoto eyintandokazi okanye inqaku lazo ukuba bangakwazi ukubeka ngokukhawuleza "kwitafile yeememori" ozibekayo kwikhaya lakho lomthandayo. uzuko.
12. Yakha indawo ekhethekileyo yeziko usebenzisa izinto ezivela kwindlu yakho kunye / okanye uthengiwe kwisitoreji somenzi, uze usibeke kwitafile yakho yoSuku lokuBonga.
13. Ukuba uvakalelwa kuyo, thabatha uhambo lomzila uze uchithe iveki enkulu yeeholide kwindawo ozithandayo okanye kwindawo ethile enentsingiselo, ukuya kwintlalo yakhe eyintandokazi okanye imicimbi yokuzonwabisa, okanye wenze nje umsebenzi owamthanda ukuwenza ndawonye.
14. Iintsapho ezininzi zihlobisa amakhaya abo ngenxa yoMbulelo, ukuze wenze isikhumbuzo somnyango wakho wangaphambili okanye ngaphezulu kwendawo yokubeka ngokubongeza imihlobiso, imihlobiso kunye / okanye imifanekiso yezithandwa zakho kwisithsaba sangempela.
15. Ukuba uvakalelwa kuyo, cwangcisa ixesha elithile labucala ngaphambi okanye emva kokubhiyozela iholide yakho ukubhala incwadi yothando kubathandekayo wakho uphulule iingcamango neemvakalelo oza kuzibonisa ukuba unayo. Emva koko, tyikitye kwimvulophu uze uyikhuphe kwindawo ekhethekileyo.
16. Enoba uwenza ezimbalwa iziphakamiso ezandulelayo okanye ucinge ngenye indlela enenjongo yokukhumbula umhlobo wakho oshiyekileyo lo Mnikelo wokubonga, isipho esikhulu kunazo zonke onokumnika intanda yakho kukukhumbula nje . Indlela kuphela yokungafi ekhoyo kuthi ukuhlala ezintliziyweni nasezingqondweni zabathandekayo bethu, ngoko ke themba izilwanyana zakho kwaye wenze oko kuvakalelwa kukufanele.