Into ongayithethi kumntu onomdlavuza we-STD

Ukufunyaniswa ukuba une- STD yinkxalabo. Kungaba nzima ukucinga ukuba uxoxa nabalingane malunga neemeko zakho, ungazixubusha ngokuxoxa nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo.

Oku kuyinyaniso kuba abantu bahlala benemibono engalunganga malunga nezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo kwaye banokuthetha izinto ezintle kakhulu. Nazi ezintlanu izinto ongathethi kumntu onesifo se-STD:

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I-Ew, Yinyulu kakhulu

Kukho ukungaqondi kakuhle okukuphela kweentlobo zabantu abafumana izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo okanye ukuba ii-STD zenza umntu "angcolile." Nangona kunjalo, loo nto ikhohlakele, ibuhlungu kwaye ayiyinyaniso. Nabani na onokufumana i-STD. Ezi zifo azikhetheli ukuba ngaba "ucocekile" okanye umntu "ulungile." Zithinta wonke umntu.

Ingqungquthela kule nkcazo kukuba, "Ungazi njani ukuba ulala nomntu osulelekileyo?" Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba abantu abane-STD babonakala bengcolile kwaye kufuneka kube lula ukuxelela ukuba abagula ngokubheka ngokukhawuleza. Akusebenzi nje loo ndlela. Uninzi lwabantu abane-STD alubonakalisi kwaye yodwa indlela yokwazi ukuba umntu unomnye ukubuza ukuba bavavanyiwe .

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Andizange Ndicinge Ukuba Unqabile Ngelo xesha

Akufanele ulale nabalingani abaninzi ukuze uthole i-STD. Kufuneka ulale kunye nomntu osulelekileyo kwaye unenhlanhla yokusuleleka. Abanye abantu bafumana i-STD ngokokuqala ngqa balala ngesondo. Abanye balala bephela iminyaka engenazo iziphumo ezingapheliyo-ngokubakho inkolo ekhuselekileyo yokuziphatha ngokwesondo , nokuba nelinen inceba, okanye zombini.

Xa wenza isigwebo malunga nembali yesondo yomntu esekelwe kwinto yokuba bane-STD, ubonisa nje ukungazi. Unokuba usenokubonisa ukuba usengozini, ukuba ucinga ukuba abantu kuphela abalala "ngeyona nto" kufuneka bakhathazeke ngama-STD.

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Kufuneka Uzuze Kulo [Igama] -Nazi ukuba Babengendawo

Njengoko kuthethwe, awukwazi ukuxelela ukuba umntu unesifo se-STD esekelwe ukuba ngaba ulungile okanye akunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abaninzi abaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqileyo baye balawula ngokuqinisekileyo ngesondo esilondekileyo. Kwaye kunokuba mnandi, abantu abangenacala abangazange bacinge ukuba bakhathazeke ngezinto ezenzeka kwigumbi lokulala.

Uninzi lwabantu, enyanisweni, lunentsholongwane ngama-STD ngabantu abathandayo, ababesoloko bebengayazi ukuba banesifo. Esi sizathu esinye sokuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha malunga nokuvavanya ngaphambi kokuba ube nobuhlobo besikhathi eside .

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Kutheni Ubungekho Uninzi Onyamekelayo

Ukusebenzisa isondo ekhuselekileyo, ngokufanelekileyo nangokuchanekileyo, kunciphisa kakhulu umngcipheko wokufumana i-STD. Nangona kunjalo, akuphelelanga. Isifo esasasazeka ngoqhagamshelwano lwesikhumba sikhonkco singasasazeka nangona usebenzisa iziphazamiso ngokuchanekileyo rhoqo rhoqo ngesondo.

Kwakhona, maxa wambi iikhondom ziphuka okanye ezinye iindlela zenzeke ngengozi. Kungenxa yokuba umntu une-STD ayithethi ukuba ayenzanga yonke into ngokufanelekileyo. Kuthetha nje ukuba into ayiphumelekanga.

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Andive Ndiziva Ndiduduziwe Ngaphandle Kwakho

Le nto inokuba yinto enyanyekayo kakhulu ongayithetha kumntu onesifo se-STD. Inyaniso kukuba, ngaphandle kokuba usondelene kakhulu nomntu, amathuba okuba uya kubamba i-STD evela kubo iphantsi ngokuqhelekileyo.

Ukufungela ubuhlobo ngenxa yesifo se-STD sinobukhohlakali kwaye asikho mfuneko. Cinga ngendlela ovakalelwa ngayo ukuba umntu uthe loo nto kuwe emva kokubhengeza into eyimfihlo, kwaye mhlawumbi ubuhlungu, malunga nobomi bakho. Ukuba umntu ekuxelela ukuba bane-STD, badinga inkxaso, kungekhona isigwebo.