Ubhalisa i-autistic yakho kwiprogram yebhola lebhola ekhatywayo kwaye ubukele njengoko umntwana wakho ehamba xa abanye abantwana bekhaba ngokukhawuleza ibhola baze babalekele phambili.
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Umema umntu ofunda naye onomhlobo ngaphezu komhla wokudlala. Umntwana wakho ngokukhawuleza ushiya indawo yokudlala kwaye ebeka phezulu etaweni zakhe - iiyure ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba umhla wokudlala uphele.
Zonke ezi ziimeko eziqhelekileyo zabazali be-autism. Enyanisweni, abazali abaninzi be-autism bafumana ubunzima obukhulu kakhulu kwiimeko zentlalo: abantwana babo baxhamla ngaphandle kwegumbi, baxabela omnye umntwana, okanye bahlukana ngokwemvakalelo xa becelwa ukuba bathathe inxaxheba.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezenza ukuba imisebenzi yoluntu iyanzima kubafundi kwiinkalo - ngakumbi xa abo bantwana beselula kakhulu, banomngeni onzima, kunye / okanye ubunzima obunzima ngolwimi olwamkelekileyo nolwazileyo. Umzekelo:
- Ingxolo kunye neengxabano zesenzo somdlalo onjengebhola lebhola ingaba yindlovu yokuzilalisa umntwana wakho.
- "Ukudlala kunye" nomnye umntwana kunokufuna iinqanaba zokubandakanyeka kwezentlalo, ukunxibelelana, kunye neengqondo ezingaphaya kwamandla omntwana wakho.
- Imisebenzi eneenkcukacha eziyinkimbinkimbi, engacatshangelwayo inokuba yinto ephazamisayo, idideka, kwaye idangele umntwana wakho.
- "Yenza ukholo" kwaye wenze izinto ezinokuzenza kunokufuna ukulungiswa nokusebenza okungakumbi kunokuba abazali abaninzi bazimisele okanye banako ukubonelela.
Inyani kukuba imisebenzi eninzi yoluntu inokubonakala ibulula kwaye imnandi kumama nobaba, kodwa ayinanto engathandekiyo, engathandekiyo, okanye ibenomsindo kubantwana abane-autism.
Abazali, ngokwenene, banomdla wokuba bahambelane kunye neentsapho zabo kunye noontanga-kwaye banokholo lokuba ukuveza umntwana wabo nge-autism kwimisebenzi eqhelekileyo kunye neziganeko ziya kubakhokelela ekuwamkelekeni nasekusebenzisaneni. Basenokuvakalelwa ukunyanzelisa abantwana babo be-autistic ukuba baziphathe "ngokuqhelekileyo."
Ngaba ingcinga efanelekileyo, kodwa, ukunyusa abantwana be-autistic kwimisebenzi eqhelekileyo abayithandiyo ngokucacileyo? Phantse onke amaxesha (kunye nemibandela embalwa kakhulu engaqhelekanga equka imeko zexakeka kunye neziganeko ezikhethekileyo, iziganeko ezingenakukhunjulwa) impendulo ayikho.
Nasi isizathu:
- Imisebenzi eqhelekileyo ibandakanya abantwana abaqhelekileyo, abazali, nabaqeqeshi / abaqeqeshi. Aba bantu banqwenela ukwazi konke malunga ne-autism , kwaye banokuphelelwa ngumonde, baxineke, kwaye bahlekise xa umntwana engakwazi okanye engayi kusebenzisana okanye athathe inxaxheba.
- Imisebenzi eqhelekileyo isoloko ithatha inqanaba lolwazi lwezenhlalakahle kunye nokubandakanya ukuba abantwana abangenayo imoto. Ngokomzekelo, abaqeqeshi bebhola bebhola bebhola banomdla wokuba bonke abaneminyaka emi-3 okanye emine ubudala ubudala kwiqela labo BAKHONA ukuba badlala kumaqela, ukuba umsebenzi wabo ukukhaba ibhola ekujoliswe kuyo, ukuba "ukwenza injongo" into enhle , kwaye wonke umntu kufuneka ahlabe xa ibhola liya kwiinjongo. Abantwana abane-autism, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo, abanakho ukufumana le ngcaciso - kwaye ngoko onke amava abukeka, kwaye uvakalelwa, njengengxabano. Nangona abantwana abane-autism bahlala bekwazi ukukhaba nokusebenza, badinga ixabiso elincinane leqela elincinci okanye i-1: 1 imfundo kunye nokusebenza ukuze baqonde iingqiqo nokwakha izakhono zabo zontanga zibonakala zikhupha umoya.
- Amava amnandi kunye nemisebenzi eqhelekileyo ayinakwenzeka ukuba akhokele kumava amahle ngemisebenzi eqhelekileyo. Ewe, "uzame uzame kwakhona" yi-mantra enhle ngokubanzi-kodwa inyaniso kukuba abantwana abambalwa abane-autism bafuna ukuba yinxalenye yeqela loluntu okanye bahlanganyele kwimisebenzi yentlalontle, ngoko abanakho isizathu sokunyamezela. Enyanisweni, ukuba awanelisekanga, ukhetho lwabo olukhethekileyo kukubonisa ukungonwabi kwabo ngokukhawuleza nangokucacileyo kunokwenzeka, ukuze baphume kwimeko ngokukhawuleza!
- Uninzi lwabantwana be-autistic banemimandla enomdla kunye nokhetho lokuba bona, ngokwenene, banandipha. Ezi zinto zingenokuba zentlalo-okanye zingabandakanya umntu omnye kuphela. Akunakho ukufaneka, okanye ufanelekile ubudala . Akunako ukufumana indumiso yootatomkhulu okanye oontanga abaqhelekileyo. Nangona umntwana wakho ethanda i- egos, izitimela zokudlala , ama-Disney ama-princess, okanye ajikeleza kwi-pool yokubhukuda, ezi zinto zinokubangela isiseko sokwakha ubudlelwane, ukwakha izakhono, okanye ukuzonwabisa okulula .