Abantwana abane-Autism bangaba nzima ukuhlala nabo
Abantwana abane-autism banamathele ekuziphatheni okungaqhelekanga . Bangenza imisindo ephakamileyo, benze ngokugqithiseleyo, baleke okanye baqhube xa bengakufanelekanga. Basenokuba ngabadlayo ngokungaqhelekanga, banqabe ukugqoka impahla ethile okanye babe nexesha elinzima lokuwa kwaye bahlale belele. Basenokungena iingcango, bahluthe izindlu zangasese ngokungenasidingo, baphume ngaphandle kwindlu, bebahlasele abantwana babo.
Basenokungayithobeli, baphazamiseke, okanye badibanise kakhulu, ngokukhawuleza bambiza ngokuthi " ukulahla ."
Zonke ezi ziphathayo azivumelekanga kuluntu. Kwaye akukho namnye kubo ohlukileyo kubantwana abane-autism. Enyanisweni, abaninzi abantu abadala, bebona umntwana ngaphezu kobudala beziphatha ngale ndlela, bacinga ukuba babukele umntwana "owonakele owonakele" - okungumntwana ovuzwa ngokuziphatha kakubi ngabazali engafuni ukuthi "cha."
Akusoloko kulula ukwenza i-Autism Autism
Kukho iimeko ezimbini kuphela apho umntu oqhelekileyo uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza xa ebona iziphathamandla ze-autistic kunokuziphatha okungenanto.
Isimo sokuqala esinjalo sichaza umntwana ongeyena umlomo kunye neentetho ezibonakalayo ezingaqhelekanga ukuba zicacile zi-autistic. Oku kuya kubandakanya, umzekelo, umntwana osetsheni osebenzisa izandi ezisemgangathweni endaweni yentetho yokuthetha, okanye umntwana ozama ukubetha izandla.
Ezi ziphatha zanele ngokwaneleyo ukuthumela umyalezo "lo ngumntu onemfuno ezizodwa."
Okwesibini imeko enjalo, akumangalisi kukuba, xa umntu omdala (okanye usebenza) nomntwana kwi-autism. Abazali be-Autism, ngenxa yokuba nabantu abaninzi kwibala kwiiofisi zoogqirha, amaqela okwelapha, kunye neeklasi ezizodwa zemfundo, bayazi iimpawu ze-autism njengezandla zabo.
Kuthiwani Ukuba Awuyi-Experism? Iingcebiso zokuQaphela iimpawu
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba awuyena umzali we-autism - kodwa ukhangelelanisa okanye udibana nomntwana obonakala engenzi kakuhle. Mhlawumbi ungumqeqeshi, umcebisi wenkampu, umqeqeshi wokubhukuda, okanye umyuzi wemyuziyam. Unokuyichazela njani ukuba umntwana u-autistic - okanye ubolile nje? Okanye, mhlawumbi, zombini i-autistic NE-spoiled ebolile?
Nazi izikhombisi ezimbalwa zokukunceda ukuba unqume ukuba umntwana osebenza naye okanye ukujonga iimfuno zokuziphatha okanye ukuhlala. Xa ezi zinto zenzeka, qwa lasela incedo kunye neendawo zokuhlala endaweni yokuhlala!
- Ukuziphatha kubonakala ngathi kuvela kwi-blue . Ngelixa abantwana abaqhelekileyo bangenza njengendlela abasabela ngayo xa benqatshelwe into abayifunayo okanye bayicasulayo yontanga, abantwana abane-autism banokuthi basebenze njengemiphumo yemiqobo (ukukhanya okukhulu, isandi, ukushisa; izambatho ezingenakuthenjwa; ) esingaba "singabonakali" kuthi sonke.
- Indlela yokuziphatha iphindaphinda kodwa ayikho injongo . Umntwana ovula nokuvala umnyango ngokuphindaphindiweyo, mhlawumbi ukubeka amehlo akhe ukuba abukele ukunyakaza komnyango, akunakwenzeka ukuba enze njalo ukuze "abe nehlazo." Mhlawumbi ujabulela amava kwaye akanakuqonda ukuba ukuziphatha kuyafaneleka.
- Ukuziphatha kwakhe kudala kakubi . Xa umntu oneminyaka eli-12 oqaqambileyo akakwazi ukuyeka ukuphazamisa iimpendulo eklasini okanye ufune ukuthetha ngokungapheliyo ngokuthi "uzalise" iividiyo okanye abalinganiswa, akunakwenzeka ukuba enze oko nje ukuqhubela i-classmates crazy. Ezi zizinto zokuziphatha ezingachukumanga kunye neemfuno ezingenakulungelelaniso ezihlala zihambelana ne-autism.
- Umntwana akabukeli ukuphendula. Ngelixa abantwana abafana "baya kwenza" ukufumana impendulo kubaontanga okanye kubantu abadala, abantwana abane-autism "bazama" ngenxa yabo, izizathu zangaphakathi. Ukuba ubona umntwana wenza into enokuthi ithathwa njengento "engenangqondo" (ehleli phantsi kwedesksi, ekhwela kwibhentshi, egijima apho ayifanele khona), kodwa abanomdla kwindlela abasabela ngayo nabani na ukuziphatha kwabo, banokuba bonisa iimpawu ze-autism.
- Umntwana ubonakala engenakucaluleka koluntu. Abantwana abane-autism banokuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu ukufunda iimpendulo zabanye, ngokukodwa xa bekhohlise. Ngenxa yoko, banokuthi baqhube abaqhubi beentlanzi ngokungabonakaliyo ngokuthetha ngokusisigxina malunga nesihloko esizithandayo, ukuhlasela isikhala somntu siqu, okanye ukucinga ukuba bamkelekile xa bengabikho.
Nangona akukho nanye yale miqondiso ibonisa ubungqina bokuba umntwana u-autistic, ngokuqinisekileyo zibonakalisa ukuba umntwana akangabangeli ukuzonwabisa okanye ukuzifumana ngendlela. Ingaba i-autistic okanye ayikho, bayabantwana abafuna uncedo olungakumbi lokulawula ubunzima bemihla ngemihla!
> Imithombo:
> URyan, uSara.'Iimithombo, ukujonga nokulawula iimvakalelo; ukuphuma kunye nabantwana abane-autism. Indawo yezeMpilo. 2010 Septemba; 16 (5): 868-875.