Umncinci omnye ngexesha kunye nomzali unokwenza umehluko wehlabathi.
Ziyintoni Iimpawu Zogqirha Ze-Autism?
Ngaba umntwana wakho kufuneka afumane unyango lokuziphatha ? Ukudlala unyango ? Uphuhliso lwezakhono zentlalo? Unyango lo kuthetha? Unyango? Ulwaphulo olunxulumene nolwazi? Ulungiso lwenyama? Kuthiwani ngomculo unyango? Utyando? RDI? Sonrise? Kwixesha lomgangatho? SCERTS? Naliphi na zonke ezi zinto zinokuba luncedo, nangona kungekho ndlela yokukwazi ukuba yiyiphi i-MOST eyincedo kumntwana wakho.
Kodwa kukho enye into eyenzayo (kunye nabanye abaninzi) bafana. Isithako esiyimfihlelo esicacile ukuba senze into ehlukileyo kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni komntwana wakho, izakhono zentlalo, ukubandakanya kunye nokuqonda.
Esi sithako sikhululekile, sinokuqhutywa ngaliphi na ixesha, kwaye unokuzibonelela, okanye ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka kobugcisa.
Yintoni le yonyango ye-autism?
Nantsi imfihlelo: ixesha elichithisiweyo elichithwe, ngamnye ngomntu, onomntu omdala onenkathalo .
Ewe, kunjalo. Loo "unyango olungummangaliso" ngokwenene ungenza umehluko kumntwana wakho ogunyazisiweyo - kwaye, njengenzuzo yecala, unokukwazi ukuphucula izakhono zakho zomzali, ukhulise ulwalamano lwakho nomntwana wakho, kwaye unokukwazi ukuphucula impilo yakho yempilo (ukucinga ukuba ngokwenene vuka uze wenze okuthile nomntwana wakho).
Kutheni kulungile, usebenze, ngeyodwa ngexesha kunye ne-autistic child kubaluleke kangaka?
Abantwana abane-autism baneempawu ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo ezifanayo; Ezi ziquka imingeni ngokuthintana noluntu (ukuthetha ngomlomo kunye nokungabonakaliyo) kunye neentlukwano zengqondo.
Oku kuthetha ukuba kunzima ukuba bahlolisise ubudlelwane babantu, bakhe izakhono zokudlala eziqhelekileyo, okanye basebenzise iingcamango zabo. Ngokuchitha ixesha elihle, ngethuba linye nge-autistic child - nokuba udlala, uhlamba, ucula, okanye unika uhlobo oluthile lonyango - uncedisa loo mntwana ukuba asebenze kwaye aphucule abo ubuchule obubalulekileyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, akusoloko kulula ukuxhuma kunye okanye uhlale uxhulumene nomntwana we-autistic. Ngokungafani nabaninzi abakhulisa abantwana, abantwana abane-autism abanakuzibuza. Akunakuyifumana. Kungaba nzima ukukholisa umntwana ozimelayo ukudlala umdlalo othile, ukucula ingoma ethile, uze uhlale kwindawo yakho, okanye uqhubeke nencoko. Abantwana abaninzi abane-autism babonakala behlala kwilizwe labo, kwaye bambalwa bafuna ukuvunywa ngabantu abadala okanye ingxoxo.
Indlela Yokunika Umntwana Wakho Othobelekileyo Unengqiqo Ebonisa Ukunyaniseka Kwengqondo
Ngoko unokwenza njani uxhulumaniso olubalulekileyo? Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa zokuqalisa:
- Shadow wengcali yomntwana wakho, kwaye ujonge oko abakwenzayo. Xa befumana loo ntlupheko yomdla ngokusebenzisa ithoyizi ethile, umsebenzi, okanye ingoma, yenza inqaku layo. Emva kwexesha elithile, uya kuba nolulwazi olufanelekileyo lwezixhobo zokufumana nokugcina umdla wabantwana bakho.
- Jonga umntwana wakho. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kwenza nto, yonke imihla. Inga wenzantoni? Ukuba ubukele iTV, yintoni ebonisa ukuba uyayithanda? Ukuba udlala neetreni, udlala njani? Yiziphi iinjongo ezikhethayo? Umntwana othanda iStame Street angasabela kumntu okhulile ocela ukudlala nge-toy Elmo.
- Uvavanyo. Abantwana abaninzi abane-autism bathanda umdlalo, umdlalo, kunye nezinye izinto ezinomdla kodwa ezingenzi ngomlomo. Abanye bakhetha ukuhlala nokujonga imifanekiso, ukuguqula kwi-swings, okanye i-pop soap bubbles. Ngokuzama imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo uza kwakha uluhlu ukuze uqale ukusebenzisana.
- Sebenzisa iindlela zokudlala zonyango. Iiprogram ezicwangcisiweyo ezifana ne-Floortime ne-RDI, sebenzisa iifom ezakhekileyo zokudlala ukwenza izakhono kubantwana abane-autism. Eyilwe kubazali kunye neengcali, ezi zixhobo zikunika izikhokelo kunye nezixhobo zokusebenzisa ukuze ungabikho ngokupheleleyo.
Inani lemihla ngemihla yokunakekelwa okulungileyo, linyameko lenza umehluko kunoma yimuphi umntwana.
Ukufumana umntwana onogesi, unokuba ngumphambili ekuphuhliseni nasekukhuleni. Ngaba ngokwenene "ngummangaliso?" Oko kukuthi ugqibe!