Uninzi lwabantwana abane-autism banomdla onzima kunye neontanga zabo. Enyanisweni, ngenxa yeempawu eziphambili ze-autism zibandakanya ubunzima kunye noonxibelelwano loluntu, iingxaki zentlalo zikhawuleka. Kodwa ngelixa umntwana wakho ene-autism engasayi kuba yinkosi okanye inkosikazi (ngaphandle kokuba akukho nto ingenakwenzeka), kukho amanyathelo angqiniswanga ongayithatha njengomzali ukuncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba abe nengqiqo yezilindelo zabantu abakuzungezile.
Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuba Athethe Njengomntwana
Intetho kunye neengcali zentlalo zithetha kakuhle, kwaye zihlala ziqhuba kakuhle. Kodwa ezininzi iingcali ziyabasetyhini. Kwaye abaninzi abantwana abane-autism bangamadoda amancinci. Ngenxa yoko, akuqhelekanga ukuva abafana abancinci be-autism bathetha ngokungenanto njengabasetyhini abadala. "Unjani namhlanje?" "Kuvuyiswa kukuhlangabeza." "Ibinjani impelaveki yakho?"
Nangona iibinzana ezifana nalezi ziza kumisa umntwana wakho kakuhle xa ekhula, kuya kumisa kwindawo engadlalayo kwindawo yokudlala. Ngoko laphula kwiiseshoni zonyango, yenza iziphakamiso, kwaye, xa kunokwenzeka, ncedisa umntwana wakho ngokumfundisa (okanye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba nabanye abantwana bamfundise) bathethe intsapho. Abantwana abatshoyo "Ndiyabonga kakhulu ngesipho esithandekayo," bathi "wow, oku kupholile-mbulela!"
Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukudlala
Njengomzali, uza kuphawula ukuba umntwana wakho ukhetha umdlalo wecala, kwaye akafanekanga ukuba ukhetha ukwenza udlala . Ukudlala kweSolo akuyona ingxaki ngokwayo, kunjalo, kodwa ukuze umntwana wakho athathe inxaxheba kuyo nayiphi na indima yeqela leqela, uya kufuna izakhono ukwenza njalo.
Kutheni umdlalo osebenzayo unzima kangaka kubantwana abane-autism? Okokuqala, bambalwa abantwana abane-autism abagcina kwaye balingise oontanga okanye ngabazali okanye nakwiimvumi zabo ezizithandayo. Nangona abanye abantwana bedlala "indlu," okanye babe yizinto eziphezulu, abantwana abane-autism bakhela iinqaba ze-legos. Nangona abanye abantwana "banondla" iidodoli zabo okanye izilwanyana ezifakiwe, abantwana abane-autism benza iipuzzle ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Ukukhethwa komntwana wakho msebenzi we-solo akubi okanye kakubi, kodwa kunzima. Kwaye ngaphandle kwezakhono zokudlala, umntwana wakho akayi kuba nako ukukhetha ukufakwa xa kulungile kuye.
Unokuba ngumfundisi wengane yakho ngokumfundisa ngokufanelekileyo kwimidlalo yokudlala. Ixesha lomgangatho kunye ne-RDI ziindlela ezimbini zokwelapha abazali abazisebenzisayo ukukhuthaza umdlalo wokufanisa; Ngenye indlela, unokulandela nje ukucinga kwakho. Ngayiphi na indlela, umgomo wakho ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba azenzele, njani ukudlala, kwaye-njengokuba kubalulekile - indlela yokunxibelelana nabanye ngokudlala, nokuba ngumlomo okanye ngegama.
Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ubungcali Nezemigangatho
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abane-autism bachithe iintsuku zabo esikolweni kunye neentsuku zabo kunye nobusuku bonyango. Ngokungafani nabanye abantwana, banethuba elithile lokufunda izakhono zemidlalo ezisiseko okanye imigangatho. Ngeveki-ntsuku, xa abanye abantwana besenokujikijela ibhola kunye nooyise okanye abantakwabo, abantwana abane-autism bahlala becala - nokuba babandakanyeka kwimisebenzi yokwelapha okanye abakwazi ukuqhubeka behlala kunye neontanga zabo.
Isiphumo, eqinisweni kukuba abantwana abane-autism bashiywe emva xa kufikelele kunolwazi olusisiseko olunjenge "ibhola elincinci kunebhola yebhola," okanye imigomo enjengeinjongo, ukuchukumisa, ukuqhuma okanye ukudubula.
Ngethuba umntwana ophethe i-autism undala ngokwaneleyo ukuba afakwe kwizemidlalo yeqela - nokuba "yezemidlalo" yezemidlalo - yena usekude emva koontanga bakhe akukho phantse indlela yokufumana. Khawucinge ngomntu oneminyaka ezisibhozo ongayiqondi into emdlalweni webhola lebhola, okanye umntu oneminyaka elithoba ubudala engazange ave nge "hoops zokudubula." Ewe, unokukwazi ukugijima ngapha nangapha, kodwa apho abanye abantwana bebukele khona, bathatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo ye-pee, kwaye basebenzela ekhaya, umntwana ophethe i-autism akazange abe nezo nzuzo. Kwaye kwongezelela kwimicimbi ye-autistic evela kwi-tone ye-muscle embi ukuya kunzima ekusebenziseni imiyalelo yomqeqeshi.
Wena, njengomzali, unokulungisa le meko ngokuthatha uxanduva lokufundisa ngokusemgangathweni izakhono zemidlalo ezisisiseko kumntwana wakho. Unokugqiba ukumfundisa ukuphatha ibhola kunye nemigangatho yezemidlalo, okanye unokugqiba ekubeni ukhethe umdlalo owenwabileyo ongekhoxhomekeke kwiqela (ukuhamba, ukuloba, ukubhukuda, njl.). Naluphi na uhlobo, nangona kunjalo, unako ukunika umntwana wakho isihloko sokuqala kwaye umlungiselele ukubandakanyeka kwentlalo ngaphandle kwesikolo.
Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuhamba Ngeendawo Zokudlala
Akukho mntu ukhuselekile kwizopolitiko zendawo yokudlala, angabi nanye umntwana ophethe i-autism. Kodwa unokunceda umntwana wakho nge-autism ukuhamba ngeendlela ezisemgangathweni zendawo yokudlala ngokutyelela iindawo zokudlala kunye kunye nabantakwabo kunye nabahlobo, kwaye wenze ezinye iziganeko ezilindelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba abaphathi beendawo zokudlala abanakuze bafundise ezi zakhono, njengoko bacinga "abantwana bazazi ezi zinto." Izakhono ezimbalwa eziphambili ziquka:
- Fundisa umntanakho ukuba ahlale kumgca (slayula phantsi kwesilayidi, uze ukuya kumva kwesilayidi uze ulinde ukujika)
- Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ajike (funda ukupompa kunokuba ulinde umntu omdala ukuba aqhube)
- Fundisa umntanakho ukhuseleko kunye nokuzihlaziya okuhle (rhoqo unesandla ezimbini kunye neenyawo okanye iinyawo ezimbini kunye nesandla kwisakhiwo sokunyuka, njl.)
- Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba acele umntu omdala uncedo xa kufuneka.
I-TV yobudala obufanelekileyo ne-Movie kunye ne-Child yakho
Njengabantwana abadala, abantwana babelana ngokubonakalisa iifilimu kunye neTV kunye neontanga zabo. Ukuba umntwana wakho nge-autism akabukeli - okanye ukhangelelanisa kuphela abantwana abancinci - akayi kuba nolwazi ngento abaontanga bakhe bathetha ngayo. Ingaba uphumelela kwiDora i-Explorer ukuya kwi-Sponge Bob, okanye ukusuka ku-Sponge Bob ukuya kwi-Avengers, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho abandakanye nabalinganiswa abafana noontanga bakhe . Ukuze aqonde kwaye adibanise kunye nabalinganiswa kunye nezicwangciso, nangona kunjalo, uya kulufuna uncedo lwakho. Ewe, kuya kufuneka uhlale phantsi ukhangele iSponge Bob. Kwaye ngokumangalisayo ungabona ukuba uyayithanda.
Ewe, ukufundisa umntwana wakho nge autism izakhono ezichazwe apha aziyi kuthatha i-autism. Kodwa baya kumnika izakhono ezibalulekileyo zokungena kunye nokuxhuma nabanye abantwana.