Sichaza njani isikolo "esihle" okanye "sihle" kubantwana abane-autism? Inyani yinto yokuba akukho nto "njengesikolo" esikolo kubantwana abane-autism. Kungenxa yokuba wonke umntu unengcamango eyahlukileyo malunga nento "eyona nto" engcono kumntwana ophethe i-autism, kwaye ngamnye umntwana ono-autism uhlukile.
Imiba eyahlukileyo phakathi kwabazali
Abazali babantwana abane-autism baneengcamango ezahlukileyo malunga nokuba zeziphi izikolo ezifanelekileyo ezifanele zibonelele abantwana babo.
Ezi ntlukwano zikhoyo ukuba ngaba abantwana banempawu ezinobumnene, ezinzima okanye ezicwangcisiweyo. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa zembono:
- Bonke abantwana abane-autism kufuneka bafakwe ngokupheleleyo kwiiklasi zezemfundo eziqhelekileyo- ixesha. Inkxaso, ngohlobo lwe- 1: 1 , kufuneka lunikezelwe njengoko lufunekayo.
- Akunabantwana abane-autism kufuneka bahlanganiswe ngokupheleleyo kwii-classroom zokufundela, kuba banesidingo esithile esingazaliseka kuphela kwizicwangciso ezincinci ngabantu abaqeqeshekileyo.
- Abantwana abane-autism kufuneka bafumane unyango olunzulu lokuziphatha (ABA) njengonyango oluphambili kwinkqubo yesikolo yabo.
- Abantwana abane-autism akufanele bafumane unyango lokuziphatha, kodwa kunoko kufuneka bathathe unyango lophuhliso.
- Abantwana abane-autism mababe nezikolo ezizimeleyo ezizenzelwe iimfuno zabo ezithile.
- Abantwana abane-autism kufuneka baxhaswe kwizikolo zikarhulumente ezifunwa ngumthetho ukuba zinikeze "indawo encinci yokukhusela."
Abantwana abane-Autism bahluke kakhulu
Ukongeza kwinyaniso yokuba abazali bahluke ngokubanzi malunga nokuba benzani okanye bafanele basebenzele kakuhle umntwana wabo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba abantwana abane-autism bahluke kakhulu. Akunabantwana kuphela abanempawu ezahlukileyo kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo obukhulu, kodwa nabo bahlukile abantu abaphendula ngendlela yabo kwiimeko ezithile.
Ngoko, umzekelo:
- Umntwana oqaqambileyo, ophakamileyo ophezulu unokufumana amava amahle kakhulu kwisikolo esibandakanyekayo kuba uyabakhathalela kakhulu izibane ezikhanyayo kunye nezandi ezivakalayo ezenza ubomi bemihla ngemihla bukhulu kakhulu.
- Umntwana onomngeni onomngeni onempawu ezinzima kakhulu unokufumana ubunzima obukhulu kwisikolo esifanayo kuba unemiba emininzi kwaye ikhululekile kwisimo senyama.
- Umntwana omnye unokusabela ngokuthe ngqo kwiyeza lokuziphatha kwaye ufunde ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, ngelixa omnye umntwana onempawu ezifanayo akanakho ukuphendula okanye unokufumana ukuba unyango lube lubi.
- Abanye abantwana abane-autism bafuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimicimbi yentlalontle, kanti abanye abanqweneli ukwenza njalo-oko kufakwa kungabikho okulungileyo okanye okungalunganga kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno yomntwana.
- Umgqirha othile unokuba "ngummangaliso" kumntwana omnye kodwa kukufumanisa kunzima ukufikelela nokunceda omnye umntwana.
Ukukhetha iSikole esona siGqibeleleyo soMntwanakho oBodwa nge-Autism
Njengomphumo woxinzelelo lwabazali, uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, izibonelelo zendawo kunye nefilosofi yesithili, izikolo ziyahlukahluka kakhulu kwizinto abazenzayo-kwaye abazali bahluka ngendlela abaphendula ngayo. Ezinye izikolo ziyikrakra kubantwana abane-Aspergers (i-autism esebenzayo), ngelixa abanye baneenkqubo zobunzima bokuphila.
Ezinye zi-gung-ho zokufakwa, ngelixa abanye bazive beenkqubo ezizodwa zindlela yokuhamba. Kwaye kunjalo, abanye banomdla ngemali yabo kwisetyenziselwano sabucala. Abanye banamaqela e-ABA; ezinye zisebenzisa i-RDI okanye i-Floortime okanye i-TEACCH (zonke ezo zifundo zentuthuko yabantwana kwi-spectrum).
Ukufumana isikolo esilungile kumntwana wakho, khetha kwiindawo ezimbalwa ezikhangelelisayo, uze udibanise nabazali kule mimandla nge-Autism Society ye-America izahluko kunye namaqela akhethekileyo omzali. Fumana oko abazali bacinga, oko kunikelwayo, njl. Bese utyelele.
Xa u tyelela, khumbula ukuba mhlawumbi ubona nje umbandela omncinci wamava epheleleyo esikolweni.
Khumbula kwakhona, ukuba ubona amava ngamehlo akho, kungekhona umntwana wakho. Unokuba ufuna ukucinga ngomntwana wakho kwisilungiselelo esifanelekileyo - kodwa ngaba ngowona khetho olukhethekileyo lwenyana okanye intombi yakho? Buza imibuzo eninzi, kwaye, ukuba unako, gcina ngaphezu kweyodwa.
Emva kokuba ukhethe i-setting, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlale phezulu kwimeko ukuze uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana iinkonzo kunye namathuba athembiswa ngulawulo. Ukuba izinto azisebenzi kakuhle, zenza ukuba ukwazi ukuxhalabisa kwakho. Njengomzali, unamandla - njengoko unikezwe ngawe ngabanye abasemthethweni abasemthethweni wezeMpilo!