Ihlobo elonwabileyo wena nomntwana wakho nge-Autism

Iintsapho ezininzi ezinama-autistic ziyesaba ihlobo. Utshintsho kwixesha eliqhelekileyo, ixesha elininzi lokukhulula, kunye nexhala malunga nokuziphatha kwe-autistic bonke bangena endleleni yohlobo lwentsapho oluhle. Nangona yonke imoto ene-autism iyahluke, nganye yale mi sebenzi ingatshintshwa ukuze ihambelane neemfuno zabantwana abanomngeni okanye izinto ezinqwenelekayo, imiba kunye neenguqu eziqhelekileyo, kunye nemingeni yokuziphatha. Kungcono, banokuzonwabisa kunye nabantakwabo!

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Yiya niyoqubha

Okokuqala kuloluhlu - kwaye malunga naluphi na uluhlu lwe-summer fun - lubhukuda. Abantwana abaninzi kunye nentsha ebudeni bemigca ibamba amanzi, njengabantakwabo kunye nabazali. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokubhukuda nomntwana wakho we-autistic; Nazi zimbalwa nje. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungenakuthi amanzi ayenokuba yingozi, ngoko ungathathi incwadi uze udibanise xa umntwana wakho ophazamisayo ejikeleza.

• Fumana i-echibi okanye ulwandle oluzolileyo kunye ne-paddle ejikeleze kufuphi nxweme. Vumela umntwana wakho nge-autism ukuba ahlolisise amanzi ngexesha lakhe. Abanye abantwana baya kuhluma, ngelixa abanye baya kuhlala bodwa. Njengomncinci, unyana wethu wayekuhlala ehlabathini elunxwemeni elwandle kwaye ebona intlanzi encinci kunye neentaka. Akubonakali ukuziphatha kwentombazana encinane, kodwa amava amnandi kuye.
• Yiya echibini, ngokufanelekileyo kwi-YMCA. Ixesha le-Y lihlala lizisa amaxesha akhethekileyo okubhukuda iimfuno ezizodwa, kwaye abaninzi banokuba nabafundi ababhadayo ngoqeqesho olukhethekileyo. Nangona azinjalo, abaninzi abantwana abane-autism banokudlala ixesha elide bedlala ngezinto ezimanzi!
• Ngena kwi-surf. Abantwana abaninzi abane-autism banqwenela ukuvalelwa ngokomzimba, kwaye akukho nto inokubethelela ukuphazamiseka kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Indodana yethu imthanda kakhulu amaza echwebeni laseNew Jersey naseDelaware! Kwakhona, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlale uqaphile; Sazibamba zombini izandla zezingane zethu kwi-surf kwaze kwaba zikhulu kwaye zinamandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba zihlale ezinyaweni njengokuba kugxininkulu olukhulu.

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Thatha iHito

Wonke umntu unokuhamba, kwaye abantwana abane-autism bahlala behamba phambili okanye bahambahamba nabo. Abanye banomdla wokumangalisa; abanye (njengonyana wam) baqaphele ngokungaqhelekanga iinkcukacha ezibajikelezile. Ukuba ukhathazekile ngomntwana wakho ukhathala, ushushu, okanye u-antsy nje, qalisa ngokuhamba ngokufutshane kwendawo. Uninzi lwamaziko oluntu lunemizila emfutshane yembambano ekhoyo kufuphi neziko leendwendwe-eligqibeleleyo ngokulula, kumnandi, intsapho.

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Joyina iMyuziyam yaBantwana okanye i-Zoo

Ungeke ucinge ngomntwana wakho nge-autism ngokumalunga nemyuziyam okanye i-zoo, kodwa xa ujoyina - ngokuqhelekileyo ngeendleko eziphantsi ngokumangalisayo - ungaya kwaye uhambe njengoko uthandayo, kuba ixesha elide okanye elifutshane njengokuba uthanda. Oku kukunika ithuba lokuzisa umntwana wakho nge-autism (kunye nabanye abantwana bakho ngcaciso emfutshane), "ufunde indawo" ukutyelelwa kwiiyure xa ezinye iintsapho zingenakwenzeka ukutyelela (ngeCawa kusasa zilungile). Iimyuziyamu ezininzi zabantwana zinika indawo epholileyo, indawo yokudlala yangaphakathi ngaphakathi apho abantwana bakho banokunyuka baze baqhube kwindawo edibeneyo, ngelixa iindawo ezininzi zendawo zibandakanya indawo ezinjengeendawo zokudlala. Ngexesha oye watyelela ezimbini okanye kathathu, umntwana wakho nge-autism uyazi isiqhelo, kwaye uzive ekhaya ekhaleni elityebileyo lemfundo!

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Thenga i-Pass Pass to a Park of Amusement

Iipaki ezininzi zokuzonwabisa zinikeza iipasiti zokunciphisa ixesha. Oku kuthetha ukuba unako ukuzisa umntwana wakho nge-autism (kunye nabantakwabo) ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengoko uthanda, zonke ngeendleko ezifanayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, qaphela oko uza kukwenza, uphinde ukhangele amava kunye nomntwana wakho. Ngenyameko ukhetha ukukhwela kunye namava oyaziyo ukuba uya kuthanda, kwaye ugcine uhambo olufutshane. Ukuba uthanda, unokwakha isimiso malunga nokutyelelwa kwepaki, ngoko umntwana wakho uyazi nje oko kuza kwenzeka, kwaye nini ukulindela utshintsho kwixesha eliqhelekileyo. I-HINT: hamba xa abanye bengenzi - kusasa ekuseni, ngeveki kunye neeCawa, ukunciphisa umngcipheko lwezihlwele, ukudideka, kunye nokudibanisa.

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Fumana amaqhinga

Abanye abantwana abane-autism bangabalingisi abangabonakaliyo; a baninzi. Esikolweni, ixesha elininzi lichithwa kwizonyango, izifundo kunye nezakhono zentlalo apho abantwana abakwiindawo abahlala bephosakele kwiiklasi zobugcisa. Ngoko ihlobo lixesha elikhulu lokuvula loo mnyango. Ungasayinela umntwana wakho kwiklasi kunye nomfundisi, kodwa kunokuba nzima ukuba ufumane iklasi eligqibeleleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukhetho olungcono kukudala ikona yobugcisa ekhaya, lizaliswe ngoluhlu lweendaba kunye ne-tarp enkulu emgangathweni. Qaphela ukuba abantwana abaninzi kwimiba enemiba enomdla eyenza izinto ezinqongqo, i-gooey ezinzima ukulawula; abanye bangafaka izinto ezingezizo ukutya emilonyeni yabo. Ngoko qalisa ngempahla elula, engeyona inetyhefu efana neekrayoni, iphepha, kunye nesikhephe sokukhusela kunye nenkqubela ukusuka apho. Futhi ungakhathazeki ukuba umntwana wakho akayiyo ingcali: bambalwa bethu!

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Hlola umculo

Abantwana abaninzi abane-autism baneetalente zomculo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bexakekeke kakhulu kwezinye izinto eziphambili esikolweni, abanokuba nethuba lokujoyina i-choir okanye bathathe isandi somculo. Ihlobo lixesha elihle lokuthabatha abantwana kwiikonsathi zangaphandle apho bahamba khona, badonsa okanye benze umsindo ngaphandle kokudala i-ruckus. Ungaphinda ufune ukuzisa abantwana bakho kunye ngaphandle kwe-autism kwiindidi ezahlukahlukeneyo zomculo kunye nokwenza umculo, ngokuzithatha kwiimvumi zomculo, ukudlala "umculo womdaniso" kumakhaya, okanye ubenike ithuba lokuzama isandi somculo okanye ukucula.

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Fumana ngokomzimba

Ukubaluleka kubalulekile kubo bonke abantu, kodwa abantwana abane-autism bahlala belahlekelwa xa kufike ngexesha lokuzivocavoca, imidlalo ehleliweyo, okanye imihla yokudlala yamandla aphezulu. Ihlobo lixesha elifanelekileyo lokufumana umzimba njengentsapho. Ngokuxhomekeka kumandla omntwana kunye nobuthakathaka bakho, unokufuna ukuzama izinto ezinjenge-backyard water slide okanye i-sprinkler, ibhayisikili okanye i-trike ukugibela, ukunyuka kwamatye (ndandimangaliswe kakhulu kukuba unyana wam ukwesaba novuyo xa ekwazi ukukhwela udonga ukukhonta!), okanye ukuxhuma kwi-trampoline ephantsi, ephephile. Indawo yokudlala yasekhaya yindawo enomdla - kungekhona nje ngokuba iyonwabile, ibe yimizimba, kwaye ihlala ihlanganiswe ukukhusela, kodwa ngenxa yokuba inika amathuba amaninzi okufundisa izakhono zentlalo.

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Hamba ngeTeyesi

Abantu abaninzi abane-autism bathandwa izitimela; Akukho mntu uyazi isizathu sokuba Ukukhwela uqeqesho lwangempela kungaba yinto eveleleyo yehlobo, kwaye kukho amathuba amaninzi okukwenza loo nto kwiindawo ezininzi zeeholide. Kukho izitimela ezenyuka ezintabeni; ukukhwela kwezitima; qeqesha iimyuziyamu ezinika ukukhwela. Kukho izitimela zangasese, izitimela zetroliwe, kunye neetreni ezithatha kwiindawo ezixhamlayo. Kukho iitishi ezincinane kwiipaki zokuzonwabisa ezingaba mnandi kumntu wonke.

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Tyelela iDisneyworld

Kulungile, kunikezelwe, oku akuwona umsebenzi ophantsi okanye olula, kwaye iDisney ifunyenwe ishushu ehlobo. Kodwa ukuba ufuna indawo ekuya kuyo yonke intsapho yakho-kuquka umntwana wakho we-autistic - unokuziva ukhululekile kwaye uncedwa, awukwazi ukubetha iDisney. Banikela ngeemfuno ezizodwa ukuze umntwana wakho angadingi ukulinda kumigca ende. Zibamba ngokuqinisekileyo zonke iintsuku zokutya. Banikela ngeendlela eziphezulu kunye ne-energy-down, amava okubhukuda amaninzi kunye amaninzi, kunye neendawo ezininzi zokungcebelekanga ezikhethiweyo ukusuka kwiindawo zokuhamba ngeenqanawa ukuya kwindawo yokudoba ukuya kumahhashi. Thatha ityelele kwaye ilula, cwangcisa kwaye ukhangele imisebenzi yonke yemihla, kwaye ukhethe kwiindawo ezininzi zokuphuka kunye nokutya. Futhi usebenzise inkonzo ye-Disney apho kwaye nanini na xa ufuna khona: yingakho balapho!