Izakhono ezikhethekileyo zokugcina iimpahla zakho zomntwana
Abazali abaninzi baselula bayakhathazeka malunga nabantwana babo bebamba iingubo zabo. Akukhona kuphela ubunqunu bomntu obunqabileyo emva kokusana, kodwa abantwana abangenabantwana abangaqeqeshelwa ngamanzi bangabangela umonakalo owonakalisayo.
Kodwa ngoxa abazali bezingane eziqhelekileyo zihlala zixazulula le ngxaki ngokukhawuleza, kuba nzima kakhulu kubazali bezingane ezizimeleyo ngenxa yokuziphatha okuqhubekayo, kwenzeka kwiindawo zoluntu, okanye kuqhubeka ixesha elide ngaphaya kwe "aw, akusiyo loo ndawo" .
Kutheni abantwana abane-Autism bengathandi iimpahla
Kutheni ukuba abantwana abane-autism banokuthi bahlubule? Kukho izizathu ezimbalwa ezinokwenzeka:
- Basenokungabonakali ngokungaqhelekanga kwiimvakalelo ezincinci ezivela kwiingubo ezikhawulezileyo kunye neetaki zokudambisa okanye ukudibanisa.
- Basenokungazi njengabanye abantwana bezilindelo ezibekwa kubo ngabantu ababajikelezile.
- Akunakunqwenela kwingcamango yokuxelisa oontanga.
- Basenokufuna uxinzelelo olunzulu lwezandla okanye ukuvakalelwa kunokuba kunikezwe iingubo ezilungeleyo.
- Basenokungakwazi ukuqonda oko kufunwa ngabo ngabazali abadangelekileyo.
Ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho nge-autism unokufumana ubunzima obunzima bokugcina loo mpahla kunye neentambo, kufuneka uphendule njani? Kukho iindlela ezimbalwa ezithathayo; qalisa ngowokuqala kwaye, ukuba awuphumelelanga, zama okulandelayo.
Isixazululo soku-1: Fumana ingxaki kunye nokuHlala
Ngaba ingxaki yomntwana wakho yokuqhawula imicimbi echaphazelekayo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, inkxalabo yakho yokuqala iya kuba kukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho akaxhamli okanye ahlaziye. Ukuba i-diaper engcolileyo ingakhathazeki kumntwana oqhelekileyo, ingaba yinto engenakunqandwa ngumntwana we-autistic. Kodwa ukuba loo nto ayiyiyo ingxaki, lixesha lokukhangela ezinye iimpendulo ezinokwenzeka kumbuzo wakho.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyathetha, unokumcela ukuba achaze izizathu zokubamba.
Ungadinga ukucaca malunga nemibandela yakho, ubuze "HAWUNGAKHULU?" Kodwa kunoko "ingubo yakho yekhati? Uphi indawo enokuthi? "Njalo njalo. Okwesibini, unokuzama ukuzama iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengubo kunye nokujonga impendulo yomntwana wakho.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyayiphendula isambatho okanye iingubo ezinqabileyo, amanyathelo okuqala alula kufuneka asuse onke amathegi kunye neqhotyoshela nayiphi na iinqununu okanye ezingenakuncipha. Yenza iminwe yakho phezu kweengubo ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ubambe yonke into. Ukuba umntanakho akanakukhathazeka kwi-diaper yakhe okanye u-pull-up, zama elinye uphawu okanye ukhethe ikotoni elincinci (nangona uya kufuna i-rubber okanye i-cover yokubambisa ukuze umise umntwana wakho).
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaphendula kwiingubo ezingaphumi kakhulu (kwaye abanye abantwana abane-autism banqwenela kakhulu iimpahla ezigqithisileyo ezibonelela ngempendulo), kuya kufuneka ukhethe iingubo ezinika "kancane". "Iimidlalo" okanye iimpahla zokubhukuda okanye iifutshane, i-leggings, okanye ezinye iifycy / spandex. Ezinye izinto zibandakanya ixabiso elininzi, "iimpahla ezinobungqina" ezinjengeempahla zokunyanzelisa ngokukhethekileyo ukwenzela ukubonelela ngokukhawuleza okanye isitya esilinganisiweyo.
Umzila wesi-2: Sebenzisa ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha
Ukuba awufumani nayiphi na ingxaki enokuyicombulula, unyathelo elilandelayo kufuneka libe yindlela yokuziphatha.
Ngokwenene, kufuneka uqeqeshe umntwana wakho ukuba agcine iimpahla zakhe. Oku kuya kufumaneka ngeendlela ezimbalwa ezintle kuquka:
- Ukufundiswa ngokusebenzisa iincwadi zemifanekiso kunye namabali asekuhlaleni
- Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha ngokujonga ingqalelo indlela ontanga abahlala begqoke ngayo kwaye basebenzise indlu yokuhlambela
- Ukuqiniswa okulungileyo ngokuziphatha kakuhle
Abanye abazali benza i-charcker isitifiketi; xa umntwana egcina iimpahla zakhe kwixesha elingu-X, ufumana inkwenkwezi okanye unyango oluncinci. Esi sixhobo esibolekwe ku- ABA (iTyhavioral Behavioral Therapy) . Usenokufuna ukusebenzisana ne-ABA okanye omnye umphathiswa wokuziphatha ukukunceda ukuba uhlakulele iindlela ezisekelwe kwisimo sengxaki.
Umzila wesi-3: Fumana isisombululo senyama
Ukuba akukho Mzila 1 okanye iNdlela 2 isebenza (okanye xa uzama kunye nokuba okanye zombini), unokufuna ukufumana indlela yokwenyama yokugcina umntwana wakho angabikho. Ngaphantsi, unokufuna ukuba kwenzeke ngokwenyama ukuba umntwana wakho aphephe iingubo zakhe. Uyenza njani loo nto? Impendulo elula kukukhetha kunye / okanye ukuguqula iimpahla ukuze kunzima okanye akunakwenzeka ukususa. Imizekelo embalwa:
- Beka zonke izinto zokukhawuleza emva, ukuze umntwana wakho angakwazi ukufikelela kuzo
- Thenga iimpahla zokuhamba ngeenyawo (ii-pajama zizona ziqhelekileyo) kwaye uzibeke emva
- Thenga isitifiketi se-suit suit phantsi kweengubo uze uzibeke ngasemva
- Ukuguqula ii-zippers ukuze zingabi lula ukuzikhupha (sebenzisa ipini yokukhusela ukufaka i-zipper kwisithuba esiphakamileyo)
- Yenza i-snaps i-snaps with more fasters
- Ugqoke umntanakho kumqolo ukuze kunzima ukuhlula
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba ininzi yabantwana, nge autism okanye ngaphandle, bafunda ukugcina iimpahla zabo. Okwangoku, yenza le mizila uzame!