Ukuba ucinga ukuba kulula ukuba yinkwenkwe nge autism, cinga kwakhona. Akukuphela nje ujamelene nayo yonke imingeni ephathelene nenkinga enkulu yokuphuhliswa, kodwa uXHOBANE no-RAFE of expectations that some kids are saved.
Ufunda loo nto. Yinyani. Abantwana abane-autism badla ngokulindeleke ukuba baziphathe kakuhle, bajolise ngakumbi, kwaye badibanise neentlalo zentlalo kunabantwana abangenayo i-autism.
Yaye ukuba ayenayo imiphumo enokuba nzima. Esikhundleni sokufumana "ukudlula" njengabantwana abaqhelekileyo banokuthi ("unemihla embi," "uyintloni nje," njl njl.), Abantwana abane-autism abangabonakali ngendlela ebonwa "efanelekileyo" banokufumana imiphumo okanye ukukhawuleza ukuxhomekeka kwiindawo zokufundela "ezizodwa", amacandelo ezemidlalo ezahlukileyo, kunye nezinye iindlela ezinzulu zokwelapha.
Ziziphi izinto ezilindelekileyo ezibonakalayo? Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa ezinokumangalisa ngazo.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana abasakhulayo bahlala "banomlutha" kwiifowuni, iPads kunye nezinye izixhobo. Xa bebhekiswe, banokunika iingqungqutheliso ezigqithisileyo kwiontanga zabantu abadala. Esi sikhokelo sentlalo esweleyo ngokuqhelekileyo sinikezelwa ngokugqithisa, njengoko abadala bebona ukuba izihlandlo - kunye nokulindela - zitshintshile. Akunjalo kubantwana kwi-autism. Xa behluleka ukubheka umntu omdala okanye oontanga kwiso , banomngeni ukwenza njalo-kwaye banokufumana iimiphumo ezifana nokulahlekelwa ilungelo xa behluleka ukwenza njalo.
- I-Etiquette, masijongane nayo, ubugcisa obufa. Abambalwa kakhulu abantwana abakhulayo bacelwa ukuba baxhaphaze ngokuqinile abantu abadala ngelixa bebenxibelelana kwamehlo kwaye bathi imigca efana "kukuvuyela ukukuhlangabeza." Abantwana abane-autism, nangona kunjalo, bafundiswa nje ngezo zakhono zobuchwephesha-izakhono ezingenakudalwa nje kuphela ezingafanelekanga kodwa ezibaphawu "njengento ekhethekileyo" phakathi kwabo ontanga.
- Incoko phakathi kwabantwana, ingakumbi imakhwenkwe, ngokuqhelekileyo isisiseko. Abantwana basenokuthi bangaphantsi kwe "lookit!" "Kuhle!" "Ndingazama?" ixesha elide. Kwaye kulungile. Ngaphandle kokuba abantwana benzeke be-autistic. Kwimeko apho, becinga ukuba bathetha, bayacelwa ukuba bacele kwaye baphendule imibuzo engafanelekanga kubantwana beminyaka yabo. Uneminyaka engama-10 ubudala - ngaphandle kwe-autistic child kwinqanaba lezakhono zentlalo , eliphantse lihlala, ngabafazi abasema-middle-middle - ithi "kwenzeka njani ngeveki yakho? ? saya kuma-movie. Ndandithanda ukubona ifilimu entsha ye-Disney. "
- Ubuninzi bezingane ezikhula ngokuqhelekileyo zinamahloni okanye ziba nexesha elinzima lokufunda ulwimi lomzimba kunye neentlalo zoluntu. Xa kwenzeka loo nto, abantu abadala banokuqaphela ukuba umntwana unamahloni, kwaye angabelana nokukhetha kwabo okanye ngokukhawuleza bakhuthaze intsebenziswano yoluntu. Abantwana abasemagqabini abanalo inhlanhla. Okukhethwa kukho ukuzola kunye / okanye ukuzimela kuyabonwa njengento ekhethiweyo kwaye kunoko kubonwa njengesifo se-autistic. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka "isilungiswe" ngekhosi yoqeqesho lwezentlalo , iintlobo zeentsapho kunye nezinye iiprogram zokwelapha.
- Abaninzi abakhulisa abantwana banemiba yokuziphatha esikolweni. Baya kukhwaza iimpendulo kunokuba baphakamise izandla zabo, balahleke ingqwalasela ngexesha lokuvavanya, okanye babe nexesha elinzima lokubelana okanye ukusebenzisana. Xa oko kwenzeka, inxalenye enkulu, ootitshala bayasabela ngeengcebiso ezimfutshane ukuba "baphakamise isandla sakho," "udlale kakuhle," okanye "sebenze kunye nomlingane wakho." Abantwana abane-autism, nangona kunjalo, banomgangatho onzima kakhulu wokudibana. Xa 'bexhamla' okanye balahlekelwa ingqwalasela, baxhomekeke kwimiphumo eyahlukeneyo enokuthi bahlukane nokulahlekelwa ngamalungelo ukuze bathunyelwe kwisikolo esikheliswe.
- Xa umntwana oqhelekileyo efika ekhaya aze adlulise ixesha elithile aze aphephe umoya, abazali bavame ukuwamkela. Emva koko, wonke umntu ufuna ixesha elincinane yedwa-kunene? Xa umntwana one-autism efana, kunjalo, abazali bayakhathazeka: ngaba wenza ubungane? Ingaba ufuna uncedo olungakumbi lwezentlalo? Kukho ithuba elihle lokuba ixesha elilodwa lisoze linyamezela.