Makhe sithi, njengam, unemntwana kunye ne-autism ongenakukhubazeka okanye ayikho into ekhuseleyo. Ulungile, uyazi, le nyana kunye ne-autism enamandla kunye nobuthathaka.
Ngolunye usuku, ufumanisa ukuba uyayilungele into ethile - inkqubo yekhompyutheni, okanye umzobo, okanye umculo, okanye usebenze, okanye udidi lwe-3-D, okanye ibhola. Mhlawumbi wahlabelela eshahleni, okanye wadlala waza wahlabelela ingoma ngendlebe, okanye wenza umboniso kwi-movie, okanye wakha i-robot ye-Lego Mindstorms epholile.
Ngoku, ukucaca nje: akayena umongameli okanye u-savant. Akayi kuKarnegie Hall okanye ahlaziye iBill Gates. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ulungile (okanye ungcono kunabantwana) abaqhelekileyo bakhe ubudala. Ngokuqinisekileyo ulungile ngokwaneleyo ukuba abe yinxalenye yoluntu okanye isikolo. Unobulumko bokwenene.
Kukho ingxaki enye nje: yena u-autistic. Kwaye oko kuthetha ... akakwazi ukucwangcisa ulwimi oluthethileyo ngokukhawuleza ukuqhubeka kunye neqela eliqhelekileyo, ukubonisa, okanye iqela ... akanako ukukhetha kwimigaqo ethile yenkqubo okanye umsebenzi ngaphandle kokuba efumana ngokufanayo, umyalelo othe ngqo ... unokutshatyalaliswa xa kulungile, khuthaza xa kungabonakali, okanye uphumelele ngexesha elibi. Unokubuza imibuzo engalunganga, unike iimpendulo eziphosakeleyo, okanye ufumane ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba wenze abahlobo.
Ucela malunga nokufakwa kwingingqi yomntwana wakho, kwaye uxelelwa ukuba "Sinemfuno ekhethekileyo enokuyifumana - makhe ndikunike iphephancwadana." Kodwa uyazi ukuba unetalente elaneleyo, amandla, kunye nomdla wokwenza into yakhe kwiminyaka yobudala kunye neontanga eziqhelekileyo .
Kwaye uyazi nokuba ukudlala ibhola yebhokisi kwiimfuno ezizodwa zemfuno, okanye ukucula ngeemfuno ezikhethekileyo zeyuniti, ngelixa kunokuba kumnandi, akuyi kunceda ukuba adibanise kwimisebenzi yehlabathi yangempela. Uya kubandakanywa kuzo zonke iindwendwe ezihamba phambili, ukhuphiswano, amathuba okubhalisana kunye namathuba afunyanwa yizingane eziqhelekileyo.
Ewe, kuyinyani ukuba "unelungelo" lokufumana inkxaso efanelekileyo ukuze adibaniswe "kwikharityhulam jikelele." Kodwa ukuba "okulungileyo" akuqhelekanga kwandisa ukubonelela ngomculo-savvy umntu ukuze aqiniseke ukuba ubeka umculo olungileyo kwimimiselo yomculo ngexesha elifanelekileyo ... okanye umqeqeshi we-baseball 1: 1 onokumcingela xa ephakama kwi-bat kwaye xa kufike ixesha lokuya ensimini ... okanye umqeqeshi we-choral ongaqiniseka ukuba udlala ingxenye efanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Kwaye ukuba inxaxheba kwiprogram yoluntu, njengeLittle League, akanalo amalungelo kunoma yiyiphi inkxaso kuyo yonke.
Ke ngoku wenzantoni? Nazi iindlela ezine zokwenza ukufakwa kwenyaniso - kwintsana yakho kunye / okanye kwabanye.
- Yiba ngabasebenzi benkxaso yabantwana bakho. Akukho mntu uya kukuxelela "Hayi, inkunzi yakho ayikwazi ukujoyina iqela" ukuba uya kuba khona, uthatha uxanduva kwiimfuno zakhe kwaye uqinisekise ukuba ufuna ukuba khona kwaye ulungele ukuya khona.
- Hamba umntu oncedisayo. Ewe, unako ukuqesha nokuqeqesha isikolo esiphakamileyo okanye umfundi wekholeji ukuba uhambe kunye nomntwana wakho ukuba uqhube umqhubi, iqela elisebenzayo, uhlaziya, njl, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho unenkxaso afuna ukuyiphumelela.
- Fumana iqela. Masithi umntanakho (onjengeyami) uhlelwe kakuhle kumculo . Sawusayina kwi-band, kwaye sasixhasa xa wayeselula kakhulu. Kungekudala, ootitshala bebhanki baye bamazi. Bambona ukuba wayenet talent. Emva kwexesha, bazimisele ukuxelela iqela le-IEP "Tom uyamkeleka kwi-band - wenza umsebenzi omkhulu." Namhlanje, omnye wabo titshala uqhuba ibhendi yedolophu, kwaye uTom ufakiwe (kunye nenkxaso).
- Yakha inkqubo ebandakanya. Lo ngumlomo omkhulu ukuluma, kodwa ukuba unikezelwe kwintlobo ethile yomsebenzi apho umntwana wakho eneetalente ethile, oku kungaba yindlela enzima yokubuyiselwa xa ukhonza izidingo ezithile zomntwana wakho. Umzekelo - qalisa iklasi yobugcisa obubandakanya, yakha i-choir ehlangeneyo, okanye uququze i-scout troop. Amathuba angapheliyo!