Gcina Ucocekile kwaye Ukhumbule i-Autism yiMarathon, ayiyi-Sprint
Ukuba unjengabazali abaninzi, ihlabathi lakho litshintshile xa uqala ukuva igama elithi "autism" elisetyenziswe ukuchaza umntwana wakho. Kwaye, njengawuphi na umzali omhle, ukuthanda kwakho kuqala kunokufunda ukufunda konke okusemandleni akho, fumana oogqirha abakhulu, kwaye uthathe isenzo esinobudlova ukulungisa ingxaki. Ngaphambi kokuba uzenzele isenzo, nangona kunjalo, unokufuna ukujonga ngokukhawuleza oko kuthanda ukuba ngumzali we-autism.
Ngolwazi oluncinane, unokwenza iinqununu ezifanelekileyo malunga nendlela ongayiphendula ngayo kwaye unokubeka ixesha lakho, amandla, ithemba, nothando.
Gwema ulwazi olugqithisiweyo
Ucinga ukuba ufunde nge autism ngemihla embalwa nje? Inyaniso kukuba, abaninzi abantu baqhelisela ukuchitha iiveki ezingapheliyo kunye neenyanga ukufunda yonke iwebhusayithi, iblogi, kunye nencwadi ... eya kuyo yonke inkomfa ... kwaye ekugqibeleni, badidekile ngakumbi xa beqala. Ewe, yinto efanelekileyo yokuzixelela malunga nokukhetha. Kodwa enye incwadi okanye ezimbini ezintle (ezifana ne- Autism Guide ye-Autism Guide ye-Dummies ngu-Steven Shore) ziya kukunika inqaku elincinane ngaphandle kokukukhulula ngolwazi kunye nemibono malunga nezinto ezivela kwizizathu zonyango kubantu abadala kunye ne-autism.
Musa ukukhathazeka kakhulu malunga ne "Whys" ye-Autism
Ipesenti encinci yabazali ngokwenene bayazi ukuba kutheni umntwana wabo u-autistic. Ba nokuba ne-autism kwiintsapho zabo. Bayazi ukuba umntwana wabo unesifo esithile sezinto eziphilayo ezibangelwa yi-autism.
Okanye umama usenokuba uthatha enye yeyeza ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezaziwa ukuba zenze i-autism xa ekhulelwe.
Ukuba awuyi kulawo mahlelo, amathuba awunakukwazi ukuba yintoni imbangela yengqondo yomntwana wakho.
Kukho ezininzi iintsholongwane zezizathu ezibangelwa yi-autism . Uninzi luxhaswa ubuncinane ngophando olunye.
Ezinye ezimbalwa zezi ziquka iifowuni, i-WiFi, i-Pitocin (iyeza elisetyenziselwa ukukhawuleza inkqubo yokuzalwa), utyhefu weruba, ootata asebekhulile, idayi yokufakelwa kunye ne-sweeteners, kunye ne-ultrasound machines. Ngamafutshane, ukukhupha iimbangela ze-autism mhlawumbi kunokuqhubezela ukuphosa-kwaye kukuphazamise emsebenzini obaluleke ngakumbi wokunceda umntwana wakho asebenze kwizinga eliphezulu kakhulu.
Ukunciphisa ukusebenzisana kwakho kunye nabanye "Abazali be-Autism"
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ingcinga efanelekileyo yokufikelela kunye nokwazi abanye abazali abasemgangathweni yakho ngokukodwa njengoko ubheka kwiingcali zengingqi, izikolo, inkxaso-mali, njalonjalo. Qaphela, nokuba kunjalo, ukuba abazali abanezingane ezizimeleyo bahlala bexhalabele ngabagqirha kunye nezo unyango abazikhethileyo. Kwaye kulula ukuphazamiseka njengoko abazali befuna ukuba indlela yabo yindlela kuphela. Inyaniso kukuba akukho mntu owaziyo indlela engcono kumntwana wakho.
Ungakhethi unyango phantsi koxinzelelo
Njengoko ungena kwilizwe le-autism, uya kudibana nootitshala, abazali, oogqirha kunye nabagqirha abaqinisekileyo ukuba bayazi into enhle kumntwana wakho. Ngomnqophiso ongcono kwihlabathi, baya kugxininisa ukuba uthathe umntwana wakho kwiDkt X, okanye uhambe ngamakhulu eekhilomitha ukuya kunyango olunikezwa nguDkt. Z.
Nod ngokuzithoba, thabatha amanqaku uze wenze uphando lwakho. Ukuba unyango luvakala kakhulu ukuba luyinyaniso, iindleko ezininzi kakhulu, zineengozi ezingahambelaniyo ezinxulumene nazo, okanye zingenakho uphando emva kwayo, awunyanzelekile ukuba uthi "ewe." Akunakubo nawuphi na umbopheleleko wokubuyela kumntu omelele ebomini bakho.
Yazi ukuba ezinye iindawo ezikhuselekile, unyango oluncedo alunakucingwa "Igolide leMigangatho"
Eyona nto ihamba phambili kuyo yonke ihlabathi, unyango lukhethwa ngenxa yezifundo ezininzi ezizimeleyo eziziimfama ezizimbini. Ukuba kuphela oko kwakwenzeka kwihlabathi le-autism! Enyanisweni, unyango oluthile lwe-autism luye lwavavanywa ngale ndlela.
Kuphela kuphando oluCwangcisiweyo lokuHlaliswa koBuchule, luye lwaphandwa ngokubanzi kwaye ke lwafumana "ileta yegolide". Kodwa i-ABA ayilona yonyango olungcono kumntwana ngamnye. Uninzi lwezokwelapha, ezifana ne-Floortime, RDI, SCERTS, kunye nokunye kusekelwe kwisayensi esomeleleyo, ayinayo ingozi, kwaye inokuba luncedo kumntwana wakho. Kufuneka ixesha lakho likhangele kwiqela elithile elibonakala lifumaneka kwaye lifanelekileyo kumntwana wakho.
Musa Ukugubungela Nge-Autism
Kulula ukukhathazeka malunga ne-autism. Enyanisweni, kuyamangalisa kubazali ukuba bagxininise phantse kwi-autism yengane yabo. Ngelishwa, ukugqithisa kungabangela iingxaki ezininzi kunokusombulula. Umtshato ongaphezu komnye uwile njengoko umphumo weqabane elinye ligxininise kakhulu kwi-autism ukuya kumlingane wakhe. Amakhaya amaninzi sele aphule kwizame zokubonelela zonke iinkonzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zibiza okanye zifihlakele. Kwaye kuqhelekile ukuba abazalwana kunye noodade babantwana abane-autism bazive bengenakunyanzeliswa ngabazali abonakala bekhathalele kuphela malunga nokuxhasa umntwana okhubazekile.
Musa ukucinga ukuba Uhlala Uyazi kakuhle
Abazali bahlala bekulungele ukugcina, ukuchaza nokuqonda abantwana babo. Abazali nabo bafuna ukukhuthaza abantwana babo esikolweni nakwezinye iindawo. Kodwa nangona oomama abahlali besazi ukuba ngubani oya kumsebenzela umntwana wabo kwaye kaninzi utitshala okanye umgqirha uya kufumana italente, imfuno, amandla, okanye umngeni onokumangalisa yona. Ngamafutshane, isiko soomama sisimangalisa, kodwa sinemida yaso. Yaye ngokugxininisa ukuba uhlala uyazi into eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho, unganciphisa ukhetho olukhoyo kuye.
Musa ukulayithisa umntwana wakho (okanye uqobo lwakho)
Kukhona umnqweno oqondakalayo wokubona iziphumo zakho. Kwaye ngokugxininiswa kakhulu kwindlela yokungenelela kwangaphambili, abazali bahlala befuna ukubona abantwana babo "baxhomekeke" ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa kulunge ukuphepha isilingo sokunyuka kwiindawo ezininzi zokwelapha nethemba lokuba into iya kusebenza. Akuyikuphela nje wena kunye nomntwana wakho ukuphelelwa amandla, kodwa kungenakwenzeka ukuba ukwazi oko kusebenza ngokwenene. Khumbula ukuba akukho "ithuba lokufumana ithuba," kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuqhubeka nokufunda nokukhula ebomini bakhe.
Musa ukulibala ukuphefumla
Nangona i-media hype iphikisana noko, kuyinto engavamile kakhulu ukuba umntwana aqinisekiswe ngokuchanekileyo nge-autism aze "aphinde abuye" ngokuqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha elininzi, ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana unyango olusisigxina 1: 1, inkxaso kunye nothando, uya kuphuhlisa izakhono kunye nobudlelwane kwaye aqhubeke ekwenza ebomini.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukuphathwa kwe-autism akukona ngokukhawuleza ukunyanga. Endaweni yoko, ngokuphathelele ukufumana isethi sezinto ezixhasa kunye nendlela yokuphila eya kusebenza, kunye ne-tweaks kunye nokulungiswa kwexesha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uhamba ngokukhawuleza kangakanani, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungakanani imali oyichithayo, umntwana wakho nge-autism unokuhlala e-autistic nayo yonke i-ups kunye ne-down (kwaye ewe, kukho "i-ups" ) ehamba kunye nokuxilongwa.
Ukuba unako, kuthatha ixesha lokunandipha umntwana wakho, lakho iqabane, intsapho yakho, ubomi bakho. Fumana umoya omtsha. Khumbula, ukuba unako, ukuba umntwana wakho akasemngciphekweni wobomi okanye isigxina, nokuba usengumntu ofanayo owake wamthanda.
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