Kukho abazali kunye nemithetho-mthetho abazongqongileyo ukuba baqonde i-autism kwaye benze ubomi bube lula kwaye bukholisise abantwana babo nabazukulu kwibala. Kukho oodade kunye nabazalwana abaqonda ngokupheleleyo ukuba ubomi kunye ne-autism bunzima kwaye bunzima-kwaye banikela ngokunyanisekileyo ukufumana abantwana, ukunyamekela, nokuxhasa ngokwenene.
Emva koko, kukho ezo ntsapho ezongeziweyo ezi ...
"akukho nto."
Akunzima ukuqonda ukuba kutheni intsapho eyongezelelweyo ingaba nexesha elinzima kunye ne-autism, ingakumbi ukuba ingazange ikwazi ukuyenza ngaphambili. Umzekelo --
- Abantu abaninzi abaqhelekileyo abanakukhathazeka kakhulu nakubonkcenkceshe obuncinane bezonxibelelwano zoluntu. Siqeqeshwe ngokucophelela ukulindela iimpendulo ezithile, kwaye xa singazifumani, siyaxhatshazwa. Ukwahlukana okubaluleke ngakumbi (umntwana ongengomlomo, umzekelo) unokudala ukuxhalabisa okwenene.
- Iingcamango kunye neengcamango ezingalunganga malunga ne-autism zinokukhubazeka. Abanye abantu bangaphantsi kokungaqondakali ukuba abantu abane-autism baxhaphaze, abakwazi ukufunda, njalonjalo.
- Abantwana abavakalayo abanobundlobongela banokwenkqisa intsapho eyongeziweyo, abanoyikayo ukhuseleko lwabo kunye nokhuseleko lwabantwana babo.
- Amanye amalungu entsapho enwebileyo aduduzwa kukuba unelungu leentsapho ezikhubazekileyo. Oku kunokuba "kakubi," kodwa akuqhelekanga. Ukukhubazeka kwengqondo kunye nokugula kwengqondo ngokuqhelekileyo (ukuba ngokungafanelekanga) kuthathwa njengobuthathaka, kwaye abantu abane-autism banokukhubazeka kwengqondo kwaye bahlala bekholelwa ngokusesikweni.
- Kwamanye amaxesha, amalungu entsapho enwetshiwe aziva 'agqunywa' xa ecelwa ukuba enze indawo yokuhlala kwiintsapho ezikhubazekileyo. Zinendlela zabo, kunye nezithethe zabo, kwaye - ngokufanelekileyo okanye ngokungafanelekanga - abanqwenela ukutshintsha.
Kulungile ukuthi "kakuhle, bayiphutha: umntwana wam nge-autism ngumntu othukayo kwaye kufuneka abone oko, ngakumbi kuba kufuneka babe yintsapho!" Kodwa ukuthetha into engenzi nto.
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene intsapho yakho ukuxhasa umntwana wakho nge-autism, okanye ubuncinane uzive ukhululekile kubo, uya kufuneka ubeke ezinye iisondlo endaweni - zombini wakho nakwentsapho yakho. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ufune ukwenza ezinye izigqibo ezinzima malunga nokuba ufuna umsebenzi onjani ufuna ukufaka kwinkqubo.
Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa zokukhumbula:
- Cinga imeko oya kuyo . Ngaba kuyafaneleka ukuba uvelise umntwana nge-autism kumtshato wentsapho okanye kumngcwabo? Ukuba umntwana wakho unokwenza okuthile, unyibilike , uvuselele , okanye ubeke ingqwalasela engamkelekanga, oku kungabi yiindawo ezifanelekileyo zokufakwa. Ewe, ilungu lentsapho, kwaye ngamalungelo kufuneka amkelwe ngabo bonke - kodwa ukwazi ukuba akuyi kwenzeka, unokukhetha ukunqanda iimbopho ezingenako.
- Ukunika uqeqesho lwe-autism . Akuyena wonke umntu omdala kwintsapho yakho onokunyamekela ukuxelelwa nayiphi na into malunga nokuba yi-autism okanye yintoni umntwana wakho ayifunayo. Abambalwa, nangona kunjalo, baya kuba noxabiso ngalunye na uncedo onokukubonelela malunga naluphi uhlobo lokusebenzisana emsebenzini, olungenayo, indlela yokuphendula ukunyamezela, njalonjalo. Kwabo bantu bazimisele ukufunda, kubalulekile ukufumana ixesha lokufundisa .
- Yazi intsapho yakho kwaye wenze ukhetho ngokufanelekileyo . Umama wakho angazama ukucinezela ukuba uhlale naye kwieholide, kodwa uyazi ukuba uya kuphuma xa umntwana wakho wenza into ayengayilindele. Ukuxhotyiswe ngolwazi, unokufuna ukuhlala ehotele kufuphi nawe kwaye unciphise ukusebenzisana phakathi komama nomntwana wakho. Akunakukuthanda, kodwa kungcono kunokuba akubonanga nonke!
- Cwangcisa ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza . Uninzi lwabantu abane-autism lukhawuleza lugxininiswe ngxolo, izibane, ukuthunga, kunye nezidingo zokusebenzisana nentlalo. Ukwazi oku, kunengqiqo ukubeka isiteji sokubaleka xa umntanakho ebonisa iimpawu zoxinzelelo. Ewe, yiza kwi-barbecue-kodwa mazazise amalungu entsapho "singadinga ukuba siphume kusasa." Ukuba izinto zihamba kangcono kunokuba zilindelwe unako "ukutshintsha izicwangciso" kwaye unamathele.
- Yazi ukuba uza kuthatha njani umzuzu onzima . Uvakatye kunye nosapho olwandisiweyo kwieholide, kwaye umntwana wakho obalaseleyo ubonisa iimpawu zokuthi uya kuziqhayisa. Ingaba wenza ntoni? Ndiyathemba ukuba uthethe nomphathi wakho ngaphambi kwexesha malunga nesithuba esicacileyo ongasisebenzisa kulolu hlobo lwesimo. Ngaloo ndlela, wena nomntwana wakho unako ukukhawuleza njengoko kufuneka - kwaye ubuyele xa ulungele.
- Nika inkxaso esandleni . Kukho iimeko, ezifana nokutyelela kwindawo yokutyela, ipaki yemidlalo, njl., Apho kungenakwenzeka ukunceda umntwana ophethwe yi-autistic ukuba akwazi ukujamelana nokuxinezeleka ngelixa naye "intle" intombi, unyana, udade, umzalwana, okanye umzali kubantakwabo . Ukwazi ukuba kunjalo, kubulumko ukuba ubuncinane omnye umntu omdala ongakwazi ukuthatha, mhlawumbi ngokuncedisa umntwana wakho okanye ngokunyamekela abanye abantwana (okanye abantu abadala) kwiqela lakho.
- Yiba nesicwangciso sokunciphisa izinga lakho lokuxhalabisa. Ukuba unabantu abaninzi, ufuna ukuba usapho lwakho olwandisiweyo luvuyiswe nawe, luqhayisa kuwe, kwaye lukhululekile kunye nawe kunye neqabane lakho nabantwana. Xa unomntwana one-autism, kunjalo, akunjalo. Usenokuvakalelwa, udidekile, okanye udabuke ngenxa yoko. Uza kuwuyeka njani umqhubi? Ukwazi ukuba uye kwindawo ethile yokuhamba kunye nemizwa yakho engonwabileyo inokwenza okanye udilize intsapho.