Xa unyana wam uneminyaka emithathu ubudala, wayemthanda iStraame Street. Uneminyaka eyi-19. Usayithanda iStraame Street, "I-Little Mermaid," iincwadi zezithombe kunye noTomas kwiYinjini yeTanki. Uyakwazi ukubukela ii-movie ze-Disney ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye uyazi igama lezithuthi zonke kwi "Isiqithi saseSodor". Uthanda ukudala imodeli kunye ne "ihlabathi" kunye ne-legos, ukuphulaphula umculo we-Disney, nokufumana imifanekiso enomdla kwihlabathi lemvelo (imingxo, umzekelo) kwikhompyutheni yakhe.
Ezi ntlonelo azilimazi mntu. Kwaye ngelixa "bengakufanelekanga" kumfana osemncinci, ngokuqinisekileyo bahlala bekhuselekileyo kwaye banempilo kunokuba, bathi, imidlalo yevidiyo kunye namafilimu malunga nokubulala nokuphanga okanye ukuqhuba ngokukhawuleza okanye amaqela e-keg okanye isondo esingaqhelekanga - konke okuza kuqwalaselwa " ngokuqhelekileyo "inxaxheba kwimveli yethu.
Ngoko kutheni abantu beziva bengakhululekile kubantu abathandayo abanomdla?
Impendulo ilula kakhulu. Abantu ababonisa ukudala iimfuno ezingafaniyo ezahlukeneyo. Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zisetyenzisiwe. Abantu abaqathayo bayesabisa . Iintsapho ezothusayo zichithwa, zixhatshazwa kwaye zixhatshazwa. Abantu abadala bayesabisa kwaye banelisekile, kwaye banomsebenzi onzima kakhulu wokwakha ubudlelwane, ukufumana nokugcina imisebenzi, okanye nokuba bamkelwe njengamavolontiya asekuhlaleni.
Abantu abane-autism banomngeni omkhulu kunxibelelwano loluntu . Yongeza izihloko ezingenakulungelelaniso zomdla kunye nencoko, kwaye loo mingeni ingaba yimingcipheko engapheliyo.
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Singazihlonela njani iimimandla ze-autistic ezithakazelisayo ngelixa zixhasa ukubandakanywa kwenyaniso yoluntu kunye nentlonipho? Akusoloko kunzima njengoko kuzwakala!
- Chaza kwaye uxoxe ngombandela. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakwazi ukuxoxa nokuqonda ukunyaniseka kwabanye abantu, kutheni ungayincoko nje? Tshela umntwana wakho inyaniso: Abantu abanomdlavuza abanangxaki. Bathi baxabisa unobundlobongela, amajelo amnandi - kwaye uxhalabise xa umntwana omdala okanye umntu omdala ethi "Ndiyathanda kakhulu ukubukela i-Disney movie, akunjalo?" Kulungile ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba, nangona izinto zakhe zilungele kakuhle, abanye abantu baya kubafumana bedideka - kwaye ngoko kukulungele ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuxoxa ngezinto ezinomdla ekhaya okanye nabangani ababelana nabo.
- Yakha kwiindawo ezikhoyo zomdla. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ujabulele uTomas kwiYinjini yeTanki kwaye ujabulele ukufunda malunga nokuhamba ngeetriki zangempela. Ukuba umntwana wakho unako ukuvelisa kwi-TV yakhe eyintandokazi, ungambonisa ihlabathi elipheleleyo lezinto ezinxulumene nazo ezinokuthi zihlangane kunye nokwamkelwa kwihlabathi le-neurotypical.
- Yongeza amava amatsha namathuba ngaphandle kokukrazula iimfuno ezikhoyo . Umntu othanda u-Elmo unokuthanda ukuhamba, i-moviebusbuster movie, i-rocketry yomzekelo, okanye ukuqokelela i-rock. Endaweni yokugxila kwizinto "ezingalunganga" kunye no-Elmo, cinga ukunceda umntwana wakho wandise ihlabathi lakhe. Njengoko iimfuno ezintsha ziba zibaluleke ngakumbi, ukuthabatha kwangaphambili kunokuqala ukugqithisa.
- Fumana iimeko apho iimfuno "ezingalunganga" zifanelekileyo. Ingaba "yinqaba" kumntwana omdala ukuba afundele iincwadi zemifanekiso kuye - kodwa kulungile ukuba afunde ezo ncwadi ezifanayo kubantwana abancinci esikolweni okanye kwilayibrari. Kungaba "engaqhelekanga" kumntu omdala ukuba ahambe ebonise ifilimu entsha yePixar, kodwa kulungile ukwenza njalo kwiqela lentsapho elibandakanya abantwana abancinci. Ngangoko kunokwenzeka, unako ukukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba afumane ixesha elifanelekileyo nendawo ukuze anandiphe umdla othile.
- Fumana izinto ezifanayo kodwa ezingaphezulu "ezamkelekileyo kuluntu". Ngenqabileyo, ngelixa umntwana osemtsha othanda iStraame Street "uyinqaba," umfana othanda i-Muppets inokuthi ithathwa njenge-geeky kwaye (kwezinye iindidi) i-cool kinda. Umntu omdala odlala ngeebhloko uyinqabileyo, kodwa umntu omdala owakha izakhiwo zeGego eziyinkcazo ngumculi (kwaye izakhiwo ezinjalo zifunwa kakhulu!). Ibhinqa eligqoka njenge-Snow White nje ukuzonwabisa lingenangalisa, kodwa umfazi oya kwiComicon (intlanganiso yencwadi yamahlaya) egqoke njenge-Wonder Woman iyamangalisa.