Kukho ii-zillion iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezifo, ukuphazamiseka kunye nokulibaziseka kwihlabathi. Abanye bafanelekile, ngelixa abanye bekwesaba. Kubazali abaninzi, i-autism iphakathi kweyona ntoyikisayo-nangona kunjalo:
- I-Autism ayisongelo kwimpilo yomntwana okanye ixesha lokuphila
- I-Autism ayinakuguga (ayifuni ngakumbi ngexesha)
- I-Autism ayibangeli ezinye izifo okanye izifo (nangona zidibaniswa nabambalwa)
- I-Autism ayifumananga
- Iimpawu ze-autism, xa ziphathwe ngokufanelekileyo, zihlala zincitshiswa okanye zilawulwa ubuncinane
- Abantu abaninzi abane-autism (nangona kunjalo akunjalo bonke) bakhokelela ubomi obugcweleyo novuyo
Ngoko ... unikezwe zonke ezi zinto zithandekayo, yintoni eyoyikisayo nge autism?
Nangona kungekho zifundo ezichazwe kulo mbandela, amava achaza ukuba zezi ezinye zezizathu zokuthi i-autism ibonakala iyatshitshisa kubazali abaninzi, oogogo nomkhulu kunye nabanye:
- Uninzi lweempawu ze-autism zingaphandle kwamanye amava . Awukwazi ukuvala amehlo akho, ukuvala iindlebe zakho, okanye ukuhlala kwisihlalo sabakhubazekile ukuze ufumane ingqiqo yento efana nokuba yi-autistic. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abaninzi babona i-autism njenge "enye," kunye nabantu abane-autism (kunye nantoni na esinye isifo sengqondo okanye ingxaki yokuphuhliswa) njengento engafanelekanga. Abafokazi, njengokuba sonke siyazi, ziyingozi nje kwabanye abantu njengokuba bekhona (nokuba bavela kwelinye ilizwe!).
- Izizathu ze-autism aziqondi kakuhle . Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu bathanda ukuzivakalelwa ukuba banokuzikhusela ngokwabo kunye nabantwana babo ekuguleni nasekulimaleni. Basebenzisa izihlalo zeemoto, bathenge iziqhamo zendalo, baye kudokotela, kwaye mhlawumbi benze konke abakwaziyo ukuhlala kakuhle. Kodwa kuncinci kuncinci nabani na onokuyenza ukuphepha umngcipheko we-autism. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuphepha ukuthatha imichiza enokulimaza okanye ukusela ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kwaye unokuthi uhambe kwizityalo ezithwala imfucu enobuthi. Kodwa njengokuba i-autism ininzi yinto engaziwayo , unokuthi uqhube kunye nomntwana ogunyazisiweyo ngenxa yesizathu esicacileyo nhlobo.
- Akukho nonyango ye-autism eya "kuphazamisa" ingxaki . Kubi ngokwaneleyo ukuba unentsholongwane ye-bhakteria, kodwa ubuncinane uyazi ukuba ukuba uthatha i-antibiotiki uya kubuyiselwa ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa akukho i- ABA okanye iidlo ezikhethekileyo okanye amagumbi angxowankulu aya kuphilisa i-autism. Ingxaki ngaphandle kokunyanga (okanye kwanonyango oluya kulungiswa ngokupheleleyo).
- Abantwana (kunye nabantu abadala) abane-autism baziphatha ngokungafani kwabanye abantu . Kwaye ukuba kukho into endiyifundayo, kukuthi nayiphi na into eyahlukileyo-nokuba yinto encinci - ingaba yimbangela yokwesaba. Abantwana abane-autism bafundiswa ukuba baphephe iimpendulo "ezingalindelekanga" kwabanye - kungekhona ngenxa yokuba bangayingozi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba "abangalindelekanga" (ukukhwaza, ukubuza, ukubuza umbuzo ongafanelekanga, ukuphindaphinda amagama afanayo, njl.). .
- Abazali kunye nootatomkhulu bahlala bekotyiswa yi-autism kuba besaba kakhulu umntwana wabo . Bacinga ukuba umntwana wabo uya kushiywa ngaphandle, ukuxhatshazwa, ukunyanzelwa okanye ukuphathwa kakubi. Bakholelwa ukuba emva kokufa umntwana wabo uya kuba yintambo engenakunceda kwihlabathi likarhulumente karhulumente. Kwaye, ngokubanzi, kubonakala bekholelwa ukuba banokuyiphepha le ngxaki enokuyilungiselela.
- Abanye abazali kunye nootata-ntombi bayethusa yi-autism kuba balindele (okanye bafumana) izigwebo ezingekho emthethweni kwi-gene pool yabo, ukubeletha kwabo, okanye ukukwazi ukuqeqesha umntwana wabo. Ezi nkxalabo ziqikelelwa: abantu bayamgweba, kwaye baya kwenza izizathu ezingenakufaneleka. Ingaba oku kubangele ukuxhalabisa okukhulu kuxhomekeke, kumbe, kumntu ogwetywayo kunye nendlela ukugwetywa ngayo.