Ngolunye ulwazi olukhoyo ngaphandle kwesihloko se-autism, uyacinga ukuba abantu babe neengcamango ezintle zokuthi i-autism yintoni ... kwaye ayikho. Kodwa ke, akunjalo. Enyanisweni, "ukuqonda kwe-autism" kubonakala ngathi uyeke ukuqhuma kweentsingiselo ezintle kodwa kungengombuzo obangelisayo malunga ne-autism. Ukuba awuzange ungene kulo naluphi na olu, lithuba unako - ngokukhawuleza kungekudala!
- Oo, umntwanakho une-autism - kufuneka abe ngumntu ohlakaniphile, akunjalo? Kukho ezimbalwa kakhulu ezicacileyo, zichazela abantu abavakalisa i-autism, kwaye ewe ngokwenene - abo bantu bahlakaniphile. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ipesenteji ebalulekileyo yabantu abane-autism empeleni bayinselele ingqondo. Nangona kukuvuyisa ukwazi ukuba abantu abaninzi banombono ochanekileyo kwi-autism, kuphazamiseka ukuba kufuneka ujamelane neengcamango eziphosakeleyo.
- Ingaba umntanami angabamba i-autism kumntwana wakho? I-Autism idla ngokubizwa ngokuthi "isifo," kwaye abantu abaninzi banxulumene nesifo sesifo kunye neengxaki ezichaphazelayo ezifana nomkhuhlane ... inkukhu inkukhu ... ne-ebola. Hayi, i- autism ayithelelanga , kwaye hayi, akukho mntu uya kubamba "ngenxa yokokuba ubekwe kwisimo esibandakanya umntu kumbindi.
- Ngoko ... ukuba i-autistic yengane yakho, ngaba uya kukwazi ukuya kwikolishi kwaye ahlale yedwa? Lo mbuzo ogqithiseleyo kodwa owaziwayo ukhangeleka ukuba abazali bezingane abane-autism bahamba ngokufihlakeleyo. Uninzi lwabantu abane-autism baya kwikholeji, kwaye baninzi bahlala bodwa. Kwaye a baninzi. Oko kunjalo, kunjalo, kwimeko kunye nabantu abangenayo i-autism, kodwa akukho bani ucele abazali ukuba baneminyaka engama-6 ubudala ukuba ngaba umntwana uya kuba yiklasi ye-12 apha!
- Ngaba abantwana abane-autism bafana noMnu Spock? Ngenxa yezizathu ezincinci, abantu abaninzi banxulumanisa i-autism kunye nengqiqo engapheliyo kunye nokungakwazi (okanye ukungathandi) ukubonisa iimvakalelo. Le ngcamango ayigcini ngokupheleleyo eludongeni. Abantu abane-autism bahlala becala kwaye balawulwa ngokucinga kwabo, kwaye, ngelixa abantu abane-autism bahlala becinezeleka kakhulu, banokuveza iimvakalelo zabo ngendlela ezingavamile. Konke okutshoyo, nangona kunjalo, kubonakala kunzima ukuthelekisa inkwenkwe ne-autism kumntu ohlaza okomhlaza, ohlaza okomhlaza ovela kwelinye iplanethi ...
- Iyiphi italente ekhethekileyo yengane yakho? Ithelevishini, iifilimu, iincwadi kunye namaphephancwadi bathanda amabali malunga nama- "savants" ase-autistic - umntu ngamakhono amangalisayo kwiindawo ezithile zomdla. Yaye yinyaniso: kukho abantu abangabonakaliyo kwiindawo ezibonakalayo abanetalente emasimini avela kwizinto zobugcisa ezibonakalayo ukuya kwi-coding ukukhumbula ngeemathematika. Kungenokuba kunjalo, ukuba uchaze ukuba bambalwa abantu abane-autism banokukwazi ukuphindaphinda kwiindawo eziliwaka ezi-3 kwaye mhlawumbi zilungile.
- Ngaba kunzima ukuba nomntwana onemfuno ezizodwa? Lo mbuzo, ngokuqhelekileyo uceliwe ngabantu abanentsingiselo kunye neentlonipho, kunokuba kunzima ukuphendula, uthi "cha," kwaye uthi, ngokwenene, "Ndiyathanda, umntanami unemingeni enzima eyamkelekisa amathuba kunye nekamva lakhe. " Yithi "ewe," kwaye ukhononda ngomntwana omthandayo kumntu ongaqhelekanga-into eninzi inokukhetha ukuyiphepha. Ewe, impendulo iphinda ibe njalo "ewe kwaye hayi, kuxhomekeke kwizinto eziliwaka ezitshintsha lonke ixesha." Ukuba, ngendlela, impendulo efanayo abazali abaninzi bayayiphendula xa bephendula umbuzo othi "kunzima ukukhulisa abantwana?"
- Ingaba umntwana wakho nge-autism uya kukwazi ukuthandana aze atshate? Thetha ngombuzo ongenakwenzeka ukuphendula! Akukho mntu ongayiphendula loo mbuzo ngokwabo, makungabi yedwa kumnye umntu-kodwa oko akuyeki abantu ukuba bangazibuza. Impendulo yodwa eyanceda ngokwenene ndiyifumene kumbuzo onjengeyo ... "Ewe, ndiyazi abantu abane-autism banako ukuthanda."