Ukuxinezeleka kukusabela komzimba kwishintsho esidinga ukulungiswa ngokomzimba, kwengqondo okanye yomzwelo okanye impendulo. Ukuxinezeleka kunokukunceda ukuba ukhule ngakumbi-njengokuba usebenza ngokunyanisekileyo, umzekelo-okanye unokukunciphisa amandla akho okujamelana nawo. Ukuxinezeleka kunokukukhuthaza ukuba uphumelele, okanye kunokubangela ukudandatheka, uxhalaba kunye nezinye izinto ezinxulumene nempilo.
Ukufa, kunjalo, ngumxinzelelo, njengokuba kukho imiba enxulumene nokufa.
Kuxinzeleleka kokubili umntu ofayo kunye nomnakekeli. Ngomxholo wesiseko, ukufa kubonisa utshintsho olukhulu kunoma ubani oya kuyenza. Kwakhona, kumnakekeli, ufuna ukutshintsha okukhulu ubudlelwane (umntwana uba ngumncedisi , umzekelo), ungakhankanyi utshintsho olubi kwiindlela, iimbopheleleko ezintsha kunye nokunye.
Inkxalabo ehambelana neNkqubo yokuDala
Ukufa kukuba ngamava, kwaye izinga loxinzelelo oluphathelele ekufeni luyahlukahluka ngokubanzi kumntu ngamnye. Ezinye zezinto eziza kwenza umehluko ziquka:
- Ubudala kunye nengqiqo "yokugqiba." Umdala omdala ovakalelwa kukuba uphile ubomi obuzekileyo ngamanye amaxesha (nangona kungekho njalo) ukhululekile ngakumbi ngoluvo lokuba ubomi buza kusondela.
- Inqanaba lokungahambi kakuhle. Kwezinye iimeko, idibaniso yezinto eziza kwenza ukuba kube lula ukufumana inkqubo yokufa ekhaya kwikhuseleko. Kwezinye iimeko, le nkqubo ibuhlungu ngokwenene kwaye idonsa.
- Inqanaba lokuxhalaba kwizinto zangaphandle. Ngaba kukho imali eyaneleyo yokuhlawula ukunyamekela kunye neendleko zokugqibela? Ngaba lo mntu okanye abantu abanokunyamekela baya kuhlawulwa ngaphezulu? Ngaba kukho iimbopheleleko umntu ofayo ofuna ukulawula?
- Iingqalelo zokomoya . Kwabanye abantu, ukufa kuyingxenye yendalo yobomi; kwabanye, "uya ekhaya." Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu, ithemba eliyingozi.
- Phawula ulapha kwinkqubo yokufa . Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abanikezelwa ngesifo sokuxilongwa baphumelele kwinkqubo yesigaba ezintlanu apho bafumana uluvo oluninzi lweemvakalelo. Ukuxinezeleka kuhambelana nezinye zezo zigaba de ukuba umntu akwazi ukuza kuhambelana namaqiniso.
Kuyinto yemvelo kwaye iyinto evamile kumntu oza kufa ukufumana ubuninzi bexhala kunye nokudandatheka, kwaye ukubethekisa loo mvakalelo-nokuba yimizimba okanye yimbi-ayidingi kwaye ayinobungozi. Imiba ivela xa umntu ofayo ejongene nenqanaba lokugula kunye / okanye ukuxhalabisa okwenza ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba athabathe kwaye athathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi ayithandayo. Ukongezelela, kukho imicimbi engundoqo yezinto eziphilayo ezinokudala imvakalelo kunye / okanye iingxaki zomzimba eziphazamisa ukuzonwabisa ubomi. Xa kukho imingeni, oogqirha bezengqondo kunye nezengqondo banokuthi banconywe ngamachiza okanye ezinye iindlela zokuncedisa.
Ukuxinezeleka okuxhomekeke ekunikeni ukunakekelwa
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukunyamekela kunokunyamezela ngakumbi kunokufa. Kutheni le nto inokwenzeka?
- Abanonophelo bajongana ' neentlungu zabo ' ngokufa kwabo abathandekayo ngexesha elifanayo lokuba bajamelana nokuphila kwabo abathandayo.
- Abanonophelo bajongana noxinzelelo lwezinto eziqhelekileyo zobomi bemihla ngemihla-i-traffic jams, imiba yezemali, kunye nokunye-ngexesha elifanayo lokuba banakekele umhlobo othandekayo.
- Kwezinye iimeko, abanonophelo bayeke izinto ezinkulu zobomi babo, kuquka umsebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nokunye, ukunyamekela. Akukuphela nje oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni unesizungu kunye nokunyamezela, kodwa kunokukhokelela ekudakaleni, ubunzima bezezimali kunye nentukuthelo kumntu ofayo.
- Abanakekeli abanakho ixesha okanye amandla okunyamekela izidingo zabo zomzimba, ezifana nokuzivocavoca, ukuthenga nokupheka ukutya okunempilo okanye oogqirha abavakatyelayo.
- Abanakekeli banokuthi bangene kwiqhaza lokukhathalela ngokwabo ukuba banakho "ukulungisa" imeko engenakulungiswa. Ukuphazamiseka okubangelwa "ukungenakunceda" kunokuba kunzulu.
Abaninzi abanonophelo bagxininiswe kwinqanaba apho bacinezelekile kwaye / okanye banenkxalabo, kwaye abanako ukuzonwabisa ubomi babo. Izisombululo zilula ngokulula: ukufumana ukuncedwa nokunyamekela , ukuthatha ixesha lokuzikhethela, ukufumana ukutya okwaneleyo, ukutya, nokulala , nokwamkela into yokuba ubomi kunye nokufa aziqhelaniseki kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, maxazululwa.