Umi elunxwemeni ukhangela emanzini. Uyazi ukuba i-tsunami iza kodwa akukho nto ongayenza ukuyiyeka kwaye akukho ndawo yokusebenza.
Yile ndlela enye ibhinqa echaza ngayo ilindele ukufa komyeni wayo. Wayenomvandalo obangelindelekanga, uhlunguzela kakhulu ukulahlekelwa ngumlingane wakhe ngaphambi kokuba afe.
Intlungu ekulindelekileyo ayifani kakhulu neentlungu ezenzeka emva kokufa.
Ingabandakanya ukudandatheka okukhulu, ukudandatheka, kunye nokuxhalabisa okuthandayo. Iimvakalelo, ukrakra kunye nokukhanyela ziqhelekile.
Ngokungafani neentlungu ezenzeka emva kokufa ngokukhawuleza, intlungu ekulindelekileyo inikeza ithuba lokufumana ukuvalwa. Ukutshintshela ngokukhawuleza ebomini ngaphandle komthandane wakho, njengoko engakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi ethile oye wayinandipha kunye kwaye ibonakale ibe ngumntu ngokupheleleyo xa esondela ekufeni, ingenza kube lula ukuvuma ukufa. Abantu abafumana ukulahlekelwa ngokukhawuleza kokufa banokuba nomsindo omkhulu kwaye banobunzima bokuvuma ukulahleka kwabo.
Intlungu yokulindela inikeza ithuba lokuthetha izinto ezintlanu ezibalulekileyo:
- Ngaba uya kundithethelela?
- Ndiyakuxolela.
- Enkosi.
- Ndiyakuthanda.
- I-Goodbye
Ukuba nethuba lokuzisa ulwalamano olupheleleyo olujikelezayo lungazisa umva wokuvalwa kwaye wenze inkqubo yokulila emva kokufa ilula.
Funda kabanzi malunga nalezi zinto ezintlanu ekuhlaziyweni kwam kwincwadi ethi "Izinto EziBine Ezibaluleke Kakhulu" ngu-Ira Byock, MD
Asiyena wonke umntu obhekene nentlungu ebangela ukufa kwakhe, nangona kunjalo. Inkxalabo yinkqubo yomntu kunye neentlungu ezilindelekileyo azifani. Kudinga ukwamukelwa kwenyaniso yokufa, kwaye kungekhona wonke umntu oza kuziva ekulungele ukwenza oko. Abanye abantu banokuvakalelwa ukuba bayamkela ukufa, ngokwenene, ukuyeka umhlobo wabo.
Esikhundleni sokubukela intlungu ekulindelekileyo njengokuba ulahliwe ngumhlobo wakho kunye nolwalamano olwabelana ngalo, unokulujonga njengethuba elikhethekileyo lokuqinisa olo dlelwane kunye nokulufezekisa.