E-America, ootata baxhomekeke kunye noonyana babo ngokudibanisa kunye nokugxotha imidlalo, imidlalo kunye nokuqeqesha. Ukuba inkwenkwe iyakuthanda i-Boy Scouts, ubaba unceda ukwakha imoto yePinewood Derby. Ukuba inkwenkwe ithanda iLittle League, uTata ufundisa izakhono, uphonsa imida kwaye, mhlawumbi, unceda uqeqesho.
Kunokuba nzima ukuba ubone ukuba le mi sebenzi inokusebenza njani kakuhle nomntwana onenkathazo enengxaki, ubunzima ngezakhono ezithintekayo zezakhono, iingxaki zolwimi oluthethiweyo, kunye nezakhono ezimbalwa zokulinganisa.
Ngaba oko kuthetha ukuba abagadi baseMerika badinga isethi esitsha sezakhono ukudibanisa kunye ne-autistic son? Impendulo nguyebo ... kwaye akukho.
Ewe, umzali onomntwana kwi-spectrum ufuna ukucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi ukucinga , ukucinga okuncinane, ukuzimisela ukuzama, ukuhluleka, nokuzama kwakhona. Kwakhona kufuna ukuba unako ukwenza utshintsho oluthile-nangona xa utshintsho alubonakali amandla akho okanye iimfuno zakho.
Ukusebenzisa izakhono zoBawo
Kodwa hayi, umzali onomntwana nge-autism akuthethi ukuyeka amaphupha akho okuba nguyise. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko, kunokwenzeka ukuzisa iingcamango ezifanayo kwitheyibhile - kodwa ukuzibhinqa ngomntwana ocinga kwaye wenza ngendlela ehlukileyo.
Nazi iimbono ezimbalwa zokusebenzisa ezo ndlela zoMama zaseMerika zokuxhuma kunye nendodana kwi-autism :
- Roughhousing . Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba: unyana wakho onokuzikhethela unokuthanda kakhulu ! Kungenxa yokuba abaninzi abantwana abane-autism banomuva wokufuna uxinzelelo olunzulu okanye uvakalelo ukuze bazive bezolile kwaye bazibandakanya. "Ndikubambelele" imidlalo, ukutshintsha imidlalo, kunye nezinye iindlela zokuxhalaza, ngoko ke, lunokunyangwa okwenene kulutsha. Kodwa iindaba ezimbi, nokuba kunjalo, ukuba abantwana abane-autism banokufumana uxinzelelo olunzulu. Uya kufuneka uzame iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokudlala ngokomzimba ukuze ubone oko kukumnandi - kwaye kungabonakali - kumntwana wakho we-autistic.
- Chase imidlalo . Kubantwana abaninzi kwibala, ukuba ngubani umdlalo wokufanisa kunye nokuthetha ngomlomo kunzima, umdlalo wokudlala umdlalo ngowokuqala, indlela engcono kakhulu yokudlala kunye NAKUBANE nabanye abantu. Into enokuba nzima kunyana wakho, ke, ukulandelela imidlalo kunye nemithetho ethile. Kwabanye abantwana kwibala, imigaqo yemidlalo efana ne-tag okanye Ukuthwala i-Flag ingaba ivulekile kakhulu ukuba iphelelwe ingqiqo. Kwabanye, imigaqo ingaba nzima kakhulu. Yidlale ngendlebe: wena nomntwana wakho unokuvuyiswa "nje ngokuba yizilwanyana" ndawonye kunokudlala imidlalo ejoliswe kwimithetho.
- Midlalo . Akunqabile - nangona kungekho nto engayitholiyo-yokuba umntwana ene-autism abe ngumdlali wezemidlalo onomdla, onomdla. Iqela lezemidlalo linzima kakhulu kumntwana onenkathazo enzima enezakhono ezizenzekelayo, akanakukufunda ngokulula ulwimi lomzimba, kwaye akakwazi ukufumana ikhowudi yentlalo ngaphandle kokuba ichazwe ngokucacileyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantwana abaninzi abane-autism bahle kakhulu (kwaye banandipha ngokwenene) kwimidlalo eyimimandla emelekileyo njengokuhamba, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili, ukukhotha, nokubhukuda. Unokufumana unomdla olwabelwana ngawo kwimidlalo yokubukela: abantwana abane-autism bahlala beqhelaniswe ngokubanzi, kwaye banokukwazi ukuqonda ngakumbi ngeqela lakho ozithandayo kunalo!
- Coaching . Ukuba unendodana ene-autism, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuququzelela iqela lokuphumelela kwikomiti yesikolo esiphakathi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unako ukuqhubela phambili ukuqeqesha iqela lezingane ezifuna ngokwenene ubaba onokubanceda ukuba baphume apho, baphonsa ibhola, kwaye banandipha umdla ovuyo lweziseko, ukwenza iinjongo okanye nje ukuba yinxalenye iqela. Iimfuno zeemfuno zeemfuno ezizodwa zihlala zifuna abaqeqeshi babazali - kwaye umsebenzi uzalisekisa ngokumangalisa.
- Ukufumana umdla oqhelekileyo wokuzonwabisa . Mhlawumbi indlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokuba ubaba kunye nendodana ekubopheleleni ingaphezu komdla wabelana. Kwinkoliso yamatyala, abantwana abane-autism BENZA iminqweno (kunye nokuthanda). Ukuba unomdla wokuxhuma kunye nonyana wakho, inkambo engcono yokuyilandela kukufumanisa into ayithandayo - kwaye uyabelane ngayo. Hayi, usenokuba ne-fascination, yithi, izithuthi zomzekelo okanye i-Disney movie. Kodwa ngokumba ubunzulu kunye nokufumana indlela yokuzonwabisa ngokuzonwabisa okanye nomdla nomntwana wakho, uya kwakha isiseko sobomi bakho bonke.