Ukuba kukho umba omnye owabelwana ngawo bonke abantwana abancinci nge-autism, kunzima ngezakhono zokudlala eziqhelekileyo . Abancinci abane-autism banganqamanisa okanye batyekele amathoyizi, badlale ngokwabo baze baxhathise ukusebenzisana neontanga zabo, okanye bavele baxhamle, badla okanye bachithe ixesha kwilizwe labo.
Yiyo yokuzibamba okwenza kube nzima ukuba abantwana be-autistic bafunde ukuxelisa, ukuxhamla nabanye abantwana, okanye ukudibanisa nabantu abadala ebomini babo.
Ngokweqhinga, abazali banokudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekufundiseni abantwana babo be-autistic ukuba badlale. Kodwa ngelixa "ukudlala nomntwana wakho" kubonakala ngathi akukho-brainer, kunokuba kunzima kakhulu, kumzali womntwana we-autistic.
Kutheni Kubunzima Ukudlala Nezingane Ezizimeleyo
Nangona abanye abantu abadala bebona kulula ukudlala nabantwana ngokubanzi, abaninzi abaqinisekanga ukuba bangabandakanyeka njani ncinane. Abantwana abaqhelekileyo banceda abantu abadala ngokuzibuza ukuba "badlale i-horsey," okanye "baphonsa ibhola," okanye bathathe inxaxheba ekudlaleni. I-Autistic children, nangona kunjalo, ayiyi kuzisa nto kumntu omdala. Enyanisweni, kuya kumntu omdala ukufumanisa indlela yokudibanisa kunye nokuthetha nomntwana ongenakho umdla onomdla wokudlala. Nje ngeziphumo:
- Akusoloko kunzima ukubethelela ingqalelo yomntwana we-autistic okanye ukubamba ingqalelo ngaphezu kweminithi okanye njalo
- Emva kokubandakanyeka, umntwana ophethe i-autism uya kukhetha ukwenza izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukuphula umzekelo
- Abantwana abane-autism abanakuze bazise iingcamango zabo okanye amandla kumdlalo wokusebenzisana, ngoko ke zonke iimbono namandla kufuneka zivela kumzali. Oku kunokuba nzima kwaye kuphazamise.
- Izixhobo eziqhelekileyo esizisebenzisayo ukubandakanya abantwana, njengokubuza imibuzo, ukunika iziphakamiso, ukuqala umsebenzi othakazelisayo, unokuhamba ngqo nomntwana nge autism.
Kodwa yonke le micimbi ayikho into ekuthelekiswa ngayo nabazali abanengqondo ngokwenene kunye nentlungu xa umntwana wabo engabakhathaleli ukuthanda ihlabathi langaphakathi okanye into. Ewe, uninzi lwabazali banokudlula umva wokugatywa ukuzama iindlela ezintsha zokubandakanya nokuxhuma. Kodwa xa sifika kumntwana wethu kwaye uyasikhathalela, xa sikhathaza umntwana wethu kwaye uyasuka, xa sibambisana nomntwana kwaye ubonakala engenakunqanda, kunzima kakhulu ukufumana amandla omzwelo wokuzama ukuzama.
Enye impembelelo enkulu yinto ebuhlungu kukuba abazali abaninzi belibale ukudlala nje. Ngokuqinisekileyo, banokudlala imidlalo yebhodi okanye imidlalo, kodwa imbono yokuzenza njengomntu okanye into abangenayo ayinakuchukumisa. Uninzi lwabazali banokwenza nje amalungiselelo omdlalo wokudlala kunye nokuma emva koonyana babo begijima bedlala. Kodwa abazali abanezingane ezizimeleyo abanaloo nto yokunethezeka.
Ngaphandle kwenkxaso kunye nolwazi malunga "nendlela yokudlala nomntwana wakho we-autistic," abaninzi abazali baziva bexineke ngumngeni. Kukho iindlela ezilula zokuqalisa ukudlala nomntwana wakho we-autistic, kunye neengcebiso ezikhokelwa ngabazali ukunceda uncede umntwana wakho akhe izakhono zokudlala.
Iingcebiso zokudlala kunye ne-Child Autistic yakho
Nangona umdlalo ungaveli ngokwemvelo kuwe, ungasebenzisa ezinye zezixhobo ezizamile kunye nezinyaniso zokubamba ingqalelo yomntwana wakho kwaye uzidibanise kunye.
- Ukuba unenkathazo ekunakekeleni ingqalelo yomntwana wakho kwimisebenzi "ekhethiweyo" (ukuvula nokuvala umnyango, ukucwangcisa izinto, njl.), Isisombululo esihle kakhulu kukujoyina umntwana wakho kumsebenzi. Emva kokuba unengqalelo yabo, zama ukuhlukana nomsebenzi ngoku (umzekelo) ukongeza umngeni omncinci okanye ukuhambisa into ngaphandle komgca. Umntwana wakho uya kufuneka eze kuwe ukuze aqhubeke ekwenza oko akuthandayo, kwaye oko kukuqala kokunxibelelana .
- Ukukhangela kunye nemidlalo ye-tickle ngokuqhelekileyo inokubambisana nentombazana enqabileyo engaqinisekanga ukuba uthetha njani ngomlomo okanye uphendule ngendlela enomdla kwizentlalo.
- Bubbles zixhobo ezihle zokubandakanya nokudlala. Vulela amaninzi amabhulo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ke enye ibhola elikhulu lihamba kancane. Tshintshisana.
- Iidonti zihlala zidibanisa nabantwana xa abantu bengakwazi. Ukusebenzisa iipopu zabalinganiswa abathandayo ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenza izimpendulo ezimangalisayo.
- Ukudlala kwamanzi kunokuba yindlela edibeneyo yokuzonwabisa kunye nomdlali ongenakuzimela. Enoba udlala nephayipu okanye echibini, okanye uhamba nje kwisibhaka okanye kwibhakethi yamanzi, unokufumana umonakalo omnandi ngaphandle kokufuna incoko okanye ukhuphiswano.
- Nangona abantwana abane-autism banokuba nexesha elinzima kwindawo yokudlala yamahhala, bafumana kulula ukukhumbula ngeempendulo. Unokwakha kulo mbono ngokufunda okanye ukucula kunye kunye nomboniso weTV ozithandayo. Nangona 'ungadlala' ngomqondo oqhelekileyo, unokujika, wenze izigcawu, uze ulungise kunye kunye.
> Imithombo:
> Freeman S., et al. Ukusebenzisana komzali nomntwana kwi-autism: iimpawu zokudlala. Autism. 2013 Mar; 17 (2): 147-61. i-doi: 10.1177 / 1362361312469269.
> Strid, K, et al. Ukuzenza umdlalo, ukunyanzelisa ukulandelelana kunye nomntwana nomntwana ekukhulumeni nasebantwini abangathethi nge autism. Scand J Psychol. 2013 Feb; 54 (1): 26-32. i-doi: 10.1111 / sjop.12003.