Ngaba Ezi zibonakaliso Zenene Zisayina ze-Autism? Mhlawumbi akunjalo!

Emva kwexesha ukuthetha kukho uphawu olulodwa olunokuba nolwazi oluninzi.

Umntwana wam akasathethi okwamanje. Ngaba i autism ? Andikwazi ukufumana umntwana wam ukuba adibanise amehlo . Ngaba i autism?

Imibuzo enjengaleyo ayinakukunceda nawuphi na umzali, kwaye ubacela ukuba bacacise ukuba ubeka ingqwalaselo ekufutshane nophuhliso lomntwana wakho. Kodwa ngelixa u-autism eendaba, kwaye unokuba ubone iincwadana ezibonisa ukuba yi-autism " ingqungquthela ," amathuba okubonakalisa ukuba iifowuni ezibomvu zibonakalisa ukuba uyakhula kwixesha lakhe, isantya sakhe. Nangona kukho imbambano, amathuba kukuba kakhulu ukuba ingxaki ayi-autism.

Iziphazamiso ze- Autism zibonakaliswa, kungekhona ngokulibaziseka okanye ukuzibandakanya, kodwa kunokuba kubekho "ngeenkwenkwezi" zeempawu. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, ezo zimpawu akumele zibe khona kuphela kodwa kufuneka zibe zizinto ezibalulekileyo ukwenzela ukuphazamisa umsebenzi. Kwaye akufanele bachazwe ngomnye umzimba, wengqondo, okanye ingqondo yengqondo.

Ukuba umntwana wakho unomnye weempawu ezilapha ngezantsi, amathuba ukuba awanakuxilongwa nge-autism. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuphuhliswa kwazo, kunjalo, kuyisoloko ilungileyo ukubonisana nodokotela wezilwanyana.

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Umntwana wakho akaphenduli kwifowuni yakho

Umntwana wakho uyazibandakanya, uyasabela, unemikhono yokudlala eqhelekileyo kunye nezimpendulo zengqondo, kodwa akaphenduli ilizwi lakho xa umva wakhe uphendukile. Nangona abantwana abane-autism bengayithobeli ilizwi lakho, banezinye iimpawu ezininzi - zibandakanya, kodwa azikhawulelwanga ukungabikho kokubamba okanye ukusetyenziswa kwamagama, ukungabikho kokuthintana kwamehlo, ukungabikho kokubandakanyeka, kunye nokuvakalelwa okanye ukuthanda . Ukuba umntwana wakho akayikukuva, kunethuba elihle lokuba unomdla kakhulu kumdlalo wakhe okanye unezinga lokulahlekelwa kwindlebe. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba le ngxaki eqhubekayo, kubalulekile ukubangela ingxaki ngodokotela wakho wezingane - kodwa ngelo xesha, akukho mfuneko yokuba ukhathazeke ukuba umntwana wakho u-autistic.

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Iimpawu Zakho Eziphuhliswa Ngabantwana Emva kobuntwana bokuqala

Umntwana wakho wakhula kwaye waziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo ade afikelele kwiminyaka emithandathu, okanye ishumi, okanye elishumi elinesihlanu. Emva koko, ngaphandle kwemisonto eluhlaza, iimpawu ezifana nokungahloniphi, ukunyanzeliswa, okanye ukuxhalabisa. Ukuze ufumane i- autism, umntwana wakho kufuneka abe neempawu ezisemncinci, nangona ukuba loo mpawu ibe yinkinga kwiminyaka kamva. Isibonakaliso esitsha sogqirha kwi-12 okanye 14 engama-14 singabonakala ngathi sifana ne-autism, kodwa mhlawumbi sisenokuxilongwa njengento enye.

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Umntwana wakho Ukhetha izinto zeGeeky

Unyana wakho akanako ukufumana ngokwaneleyo ugqirha . Intombi yakho inenkqubo yemidlalo yekhompyutheni eneminyaka elishumi. Ngaba ezi zinto zizodwa zenza umntanakho abe nemoto? Nangona abantu abaninzi abane-autism bethanda inzululwazi eqingqiweyo-kwaye abaninzi banetalente ezikhethekileyo kwindawo ye-teknoloji kunye neematriki-ezi zinto zinomdla we- autism . Enyanisweni, zinokuba zizibonakaliso zobuqili kunye nobuchule!

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Umntwana Wakho Ungumkhulumi Odelayo

Kuyinyani ukuba abaninzi (kodwa kungekhona bonke!) Abantwana abane-autism baxoxwa ngokukhawuleza. Abanye abazange bafunde ukuthetha nonke. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphandle kokuba asebenzise amagama athethayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ingxaki yi-autism. Ukulibaziseka kweentetho kungabangela iziganeko ezininzi, ukususela kwiintlukwano ezilula ekuphuculeni ukukhawuleza kwimiba yokuvalelwa kwimiba ye-neurological ezifana ne- aphasia . Uninzi lwemiba inokuphathwa okanye yonyango. Okwangoku, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba intetho yomntwana wakho iya kuphuhliswa kakuhle, ngexesha layo. Ukuba unenkxalabo, kuyaqinisekileyo ukuba uqhagamshelane nodokotela wakho, njengoko uya kufuna ukujongana nayiphi na ingxaki yophuhliso.

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Umntwana wakho Ukhetha iNkampani Yakhe

Uvile ukuba abantwana abane-autism bangeniswa, kwaye ngokubanzi, kunjalo. Kodwa kunjalo baninzi, abanye abantu abaninzi. Ukuba umntwana wakho akayiyo ibhentshi yentlalontle, kunokukho izizathu ezininzi-ezinye zazo ziyimicimbi yangempela, kodwa ezininzi ezingekho. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantwana (kunye nabantu abadala) banokugqithiswa ngokukhawuleza ngxolo, ukukhanya, okanye ukuvumba okunamandla. Abanye abantwana (kunye nabantu abadala) banomdla kakhulu ekudwebeni, ekufundeni, okanye kwisakhiwo kunokuba bajikeleze kunye neontanga zabo.

Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo (ukujonga ubuso, ukubetha okanye ukusebenzisa amagama, ukuhamba, ukubandakanyeka nawe) kodwa ukhetha nje inkampani yakhe, amathuba okuba yintloni nje. Kodwa ukuba uziva ukuba kukhona into eyenzekayo, ngeendlela zonke, cela uvavanyo. Unokudinga ukujongana nemiba yokucubungula izinto okanye ezinye iingxaki ukuze wenze lula ukuhlalisana.

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Umntwana Wakho Unenkinga Ngezifundo Zama-Academics

Bonke abanye abantwana bafunda iileta kunye namanani, kodwa umntwana wakho ubonakala esele. Ngaba lo ngumqondiso we-autism? Hayi! Enyanisweni, abantwana abaninzi abane-autism banomdla kunobumba kunye namanani, kwaye abaninzi bafunda beselula kakhulu. Ukuba umntwana wakho ube nexesha elinzima kunye nesikolo, unokuthi aphuculwe ngokucotha ngakumbi kunontanga yakhe. Kodwa ukuba ucinga ukuba kukho umbandela wangempela, kunokuba kunengqiqo ukuba ahlolisise ukukhubazeka kokufunda.

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Umntwana Wakho Ulungelelanisa Izinto Eziphezulu

Abantwana abane-autism banqwenela ukudibanisa, ukubeka okanye ukuququzelela izinto kunye namathoyizi. Enyanisweni, le mi sebenzi ihlala ithatha indawo yokwenene, yokudlala. Kodwa umnqweno wokuba umyalelo awukho, uqobo, uphawu lwe-autism . Ukuba umgca wakho womntwana udlala izinto kodwa naye udlala ngokuqhelekileyo, amathuba okuthanda nje ukudala umyalelo ovela kwiingxabano.

Ukuba unenkxalabo, gcina iliso elihle kumntwana wakho ukuba abone ukuba ulungele izinto ngenxa yesizathu, okanye ukuba kubonakala ngathi kuyimpoqo. Fumana ukuba udlala nje ngathi okanye enye imidlalo kunye nawe okanye oontanga bakhe. Ukuba uhlala ekhula ngezinye iindlela, unganakho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Ukuba unenkxalabo, kulungele ixesha lakho ukubonisana nodokotela wezilwanyana.

> Imithombo:

> Amaziko okuLawula izifo. I-Autism i-disorder disorder: iimpawu kunye neempawu. KwiWebhu. 2016.

> Harstad, Liz et al. Izibonakaliso zokuqala ze-autism. Amaziko okuLawula izifo.Web. 2017.