Amacandelo oNxibelelwano oPhuhliso
Ukuthetha nomntu ohlala nesifo sesifo okanye i- Alzheimer's disease okanye ngesinye isifo sengqondo , ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba ngumngeni. Kungenxa yokuba esinye sezibonakaliso eziphawulekayo zesifo sengqondo , kunye nokulahleka kwememori , kunzima ukuvakalisa iingcamango (njengengxaki yokufumana amagama ) okanye ukuziqonda (ngokuqhelekileyo zibizwa ngokuba lunxibelelwano olwamkelekileyo). Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa zokuphumelela xa uthetha nomntu onomdemokhali:
Musa ukutyhila umntu.
Ithetha ntoni le nto? Musa ukuthetha kumntu okanye ukumphatha njengomntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha kuthiwa " abadala " kwaye kufuneka kuhambe. Ngaba uke wambona indlela abantu bathetha ngayo iintsana? Bangasebenzisa ithoni ephakamileyo kunye nokusondela ebusweni bomntwana. Nangona oku kulungele iintsana, akufanelekanga ukuthetha nabantu abadala. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu onomdemokhrasi unakho okanye awukwazi ukuwuqonda, umphathe ngokumhlonela aze asebenzise izwi elihloniphayo.Sebenzisa amagama abo kunye nezihloko ezikhethiweyo.
Funda oko igama elikhethwa ngumntu kwaye lilisebenzise. Qaphela ngokusebenzisa "ubusi," "umthandi" okanye amagama afanayo. Unokuba uthetha ngokunyanisekileyo uthando, kodwa luza kudibana nokunyaniseka okanye ukunyanzelisa.Cinga ukusebenzisa i-touch touch ukucela ingqalelo yabo.
Nangona abanye abantu banokuzikhusela xa uphula i-bubble yabo yendawo eyakhele kuyo, abaninzi banomdla wokuthintana. Unokwenza umtshini omncinci kumagxa okanye ubambe isandla sakhe xa uthetha naye. Ukubamba komntu kubalulekile kwaye unokunxibelelana ukuba uyamkhathalela.
UNGAKHULU NGOKUPHAKHA NGOKUBA UCINGA UKUBA UMNTU UYE MSEBENZI KANYE UKUBA UKUBA UKUBA UKUBA UKUBA UKUBA UKUVAVA.
Ukuxhaswa onke amagama kwisivakalisi uvakalelwa nje ukuba ndiyamemeza kuwe, akunjalo? Unokuziva ufana nomntu onomdemokhrasi xa sisebenzisa ilizwi elikhulu. Sebenzisa ilizwi eliqhelekileyo, eliqhelekileyo lelizwi ukuqala incoko nomntu. Ukuba loo mntu akaphenduli okanye uyazi ukuba unengxaki yokuva, unokwandisa umthamo wakho. Ukuthetha kwirejista encinane kunokunceda ukuba umntu unengxaki yokuva.
Ungasebenzisi i-slang okanye imifanekiso yentetho.
Njengoko i-dementia iyaqhubeka , ingaba nzima ukuba umntu aqonde oko uzama ukubatshela. Umzekelo, ukuxelela umntu othandayo nge-Alzheimer's disease ukuba "akukho nto yokulila phezu kobisi oluchithwayo" kunokubangela ukuba akhangele ukubona apho ubisi sele uchithe khona, kunokugqitywa ukuba amthuthuzele okanye amkhuthaze ukuba angagxininisi kwingxaki edlulileyo. Enyanisweni, uvavanyo lwengcaciso yesiProverb , olucela ukuba i-test taker iguqule ingcamango engabonakaliyo njengolu hlobo lwebisi oluchanekileyo ngasentla, lunye luya kukhangela iimpawu zesifo sengqondo.Ungamnaki umntu.
Ukuba unombuzo, cela umntu kuqala ukuba amnike ithuba lokuphendula ngaphambi kokuba aphendule kwintsapho yakhe impendulo. Kwakhona, ungathethi ngomntu ngokungathi akakho. Uyakwazi ukuqonda ngaphezu kokuba uyamnika isikweletu, ngoko udibanise inhlonipho yakho ngokuthetha naye ngokuthe ngqo.Smile kwaye ukhangele amehlo.
Ngokwemvakalelo, ukunyamezela okwenene kunokunciphisa amathuba okuziphatha okucelomngeni ukususela kumntu unokuziva eqinisekisiwe ngokuthetha kwakho okungengomlomo. Ukumomotheka kwakho kunye nokujongana kwamehlo kubonisa ukuba uyakuvuyela ukuba naye kwaye zimbini izinto ezibalulekileyo ekunxibelelana nabani na.
ILizwi
Ukuxhaphaza ukuthetha kwakho ngenhlonipho kunye nokufudumala kwenene kuya kukwandisa imiphumo yempumelelo, nokuba umntu othetha naye unomdementi okanye awunayo.
Ukufumana ezinye izicwangciso zokunxibelelana, gwema la ma-peeves 10 xa uchitha ixesha nomntu ohlala ne-Alzheimer's.
I-Alzheimer's Association. NoNxibelelwano. http://www.alz.org/living_with_alzheimers_communication.asp