Elopement ligama elisetyenziswe ukuchaza isiganeko apho umntu onomdemokhrasi ushiya indawo ephephile. Oku kubandakanya ukuba ahambe ekhaya okanye kwindawo ahlala kuyo.
I-Elopement ingaba yinjongo ("Ndiphuma apha!") Okanye engenziyo ("Ndimele ndiyolule imilenze ndicinga ukuba ndiya kuhamba apha.")
Xa umntu onomdemokhrasi ephazamisayo, kubangela ukukhathazeka okukhulu ngokukhusela kwakhe.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwimozulu, indawo kunye nomntu omde angaphandle, kukho umngcipheko wokulahleka, ukulimala okanye ukugqithisa. Ngokomzekelo, kukho iziganeko zokufa ezibangelwa ukutyhila ixesha elide kwimozulu ebanda.
Ukongeza kwezi nkxalabo ezikhuselekileyo zokukhusela, ukuchithwa kweziphumo kunemiphumo emibi kwiindawo zokunakekela abanezakhono ezikhutshwe ngu-rhu lumente kuba kufuneka zibike naziphi na izikhalazo zokuhlala. Baya kujongana nophando kunye neentlawulo ezingenakho, nokuba ngaba umntu uphandle ngaphandle kwemizuzu embalwa kwaye akalimele. Oku kuya kuxhomekeka ekubeni ngaba umphenyi ophandayo uqikelele ukuba kwenzeke ingozi ekhoyo, ukuba yintoni kuphela inokulimaza eyenzekayo, okanye ukuba yonke into yokuthintela yayisendaweni kwaye kwenzeka isiganeko ngaphandle kokuvavanya nokuhlola okuchanekileyo.
Izinto Zingozi Ze-Elopement
Ngoxa ungeke uhlale uqikelele ukuba ngubani oza kuzama ukuphuma kwiindawo ezikhuselekileyo, kukho izinto ezinobungozi ezinokunyusa kakhulu amathuba oku kwenzeka.
Ziquka:
- Imbali yokuzama ukuhlenga
- Imbali yokuduka
- Iingxelo zokufuna ukushiya isikhungo, "uye emsebenzini" okanye uye ekhaya .
- Ukungabi nantlupheko nokukhathazeka
- Ukuxilongwa komzimba (okanye iimpawu kunye neempawu zomqondo weengqondo )
- Ukukwazi ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo, mhlawumbi okanye kungekho sihlalo sabakhubazekile okanye uhambahamba
- Imizamo yokuvula iingcango
- Kubonakala enamandla kakhulu kwaye ingahle iphosakele ngendwendwe.
Amanyathelo okuVimbela ukuSungulwa
- Ukuqhuba uvavanyo oluchanekileyo ngokuvavanya ingozi engentla ingozi. Phinda uhlaziywe rhoqo ubuncinane nganye kwikota, kunye nokuba kukho utshintsho oluthile kwimpilo, ukuziphatha okanye iimvakalelo ezenzekayo.
- Cinga ukusebenzisa i- alamu ukukhusela ukukhupha. Amanye amaziko afake i-alamu kwinkqubo ekuphumeni kwayo. Umntu osemngciphekweni wokuloba unikwe isongo okanye i-anklet eshukumisa i-alamu ukuba azama ukuphuma kuloo minyango leyo ize iwazise abasebenzi ukuze bancede umntu.
- Qinisekisa ukuba kukho umzekelo wendlela yokuziphatha yokunyuka komntu. Ingaba ihlala ijikeleze ngexesha elifanayo lemihla? Ngaba ulambile, kufuneka usebenzise indlu yokuhlambela, utyhafile, ukhathele ukuhlala okanye ukuphumla emva kokuba utyelele umfazi kwaye ushiye?
- Ukunikela ngemisebenzi enomdla njengomlinganiselo wokuthintela.
- Cinga ukuseta ishedyuli yokubhala apho uhlala kuyo yonke imizuzu eyi-15.
- Xoxa nomngcipheko womntu wokubamba abantu abanonophelo. Mhlawumbi inqaku kunye nomfanekiso womntu unokufakwa kwindawo eyimfihlo apho abasebenzi bayakubona khona kwaye baqaphele ingozi yokulolonga.
- Nika abantu abanonophelo xa bekunokwenzeka ukuba baqinisekise ukuba bayazi ingozi ye-elopment kwaye baqhelanise nokuthambekela komhlali ukuzulazula okanye ukuzama ukuthetha.
- Cinga ukufakwa kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yengqondo ngokukhusela kwakhe xa ezama ukuphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunye nemizamo eyahlukeneyo yokufumanisa iimfuno zayo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamanyathelo afanelekileyo.
Umthombo:
IBhunga leSizwe labaSebenzi beDementia abaqinisekisiweyo. Ukuthungula kunye neZibonelelo zoLondolozo. Uvavanyo lweengozi ye-Elopement. http://www.nccdp.org/wandering.htm