Akusoloko kulula ukumazi ukuba okanye xa ixesha lifikile
Ngokuqondakalayo, amalungu amaninzi entsapho afuna ukunyamekela umthandwa wabo ekhaya ixesha elide kunokwenzeka. Kodwa, kuthiwa "ixesha elide kunokwenzeka" lithetha ntoni? Abanakekeli abaninzi baye bacela ukuba kukho impawu ekuboniseni ukuba ixesha lichanekile okanye ukuba kukho izinto ezicacileyo ukuba ziqwalaselwe kwisigqibo sokubeka umntu kwikhaya lokunakekelwa ngononophelo olungakumbi. Umbuzo wabo: " Uyazi njani ukuba lixesha?"
Ukuba ungumlondolozi womntu othandekayo kunye ne- Alzheimer okanye enye ingqondo , mhlawumbi uye wazibuza into efanayo. Mhlawumbi unakekela ilungu lentsapho ekhaya kwaye imeko yakho isebenza kakuhle. Okanye, mhlawumbi unjalo kuloo meko yokufuna ngamandla ukugcina ilungu lentsapho yakho ekhaya, kodwa uqala ukucinga ukuba umngeni wokulinganisa yonke into ebomini inokuba yinto eninzi ngamanye amaxesha.
Izizathu zokuhlala izindlu zabasetyhini ziphephelwa
Iintsapho zisoloko zivakalelwa unetyala kunye nokuxhalaxana kunye neengcamango zokuhlala ekhaya. Basenokuba benze isithembiso kwiminyaka edlulileyo kumthande wabo ukuba abaze bawafaka kwikhaya lokunyamekela. Basenokuvakalelwa kukuba kunomsebenzi wabo ukunyamekela iqabane okanye iqabane labo ekhaya.
Abanye babenokuba namava ambi (okanye beva omnye) kunye nekhaya labahlengikazi kwaye besoyika ukwenza olo khetho. Baxhalabele ukuba othandekayo wabo akayi kunyangwa nakwiziko njengoko bekhaya, okanye ukhathazekile ukuba ukufakwa kwisiko kuya kubangela ukuncipha kokusebenza kunye nomgangatho wobomi .
Xa Unonophelo lweKhaya loLondolozo lwabaNakekeli luya kwenzeka ngokungafi
Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho imeko apho kucacile ukuba ixesha lifikile lononophelo lwezindlu. Ezi ziquka ukugula, ukulimala, okanye ukulaliswa esibhedlele somnakekeli okanye umntu onomdla wokugula komntu, okanye ukufa komnakekeli. Lezo zinguqu zenzeke ngokukhawuleza zifuna ukuba kubekho ukuhlala ekhaya kwasekuhlaleni kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abantu baphela kwizibonelelo malunga nobusuku, baninzi ixesha lokuphanda izixhobo ezahlukeneyo.
Iimpawu zokuba ixesha loKhathalelo lweKhaya laseKhaya elikuNyango li kufuphi
Ngaphandle kwezo tshintsho ngokukhawuleza, nini ixesha? Ziziphi iimpawu zokuqwalasela? Uyazi njani ukuba kufuneka uhambe nini kwikhaya labahlengikazi, okanye ukuba unako ukuqhubeka ukwenza izinto zisebenze ekhaya?
Nazi ezinye iimpawu ukuba lixesha lokuqwalasela ukunakekelwa ekhaya ngononophelo:
- Uphumele umva wakho okanye uwile xa uzama ukuphakamisa okanye ukuhambisa othandekayo wakho.
- I-Alzheimer yakho ethandekayo iye yaqhubela phambili apho izama ukukulimaza okanye ibonise ezinye iimpawu ezinzima , ezifana ne- paranoia okanye ukuvutha komsindo.
- Ilungu lentsapho yakho liye lahleka ngaphandle kwaye lahleka.
- Ulahla ibhola nezinye iimbopheleleko.
- Ubonisa imiqondiso emininzi yomnakekeli wokunyamekela . Umzekelo, mhlawumbi ulahlekelwe ngumsindo xa usandul 'umhlobo wakho enqaba ukugqoka okanye ekulandela kwakho yonke indawo ungena ngaphakathi kwindlu.
- Impilo yakho (mhlawumbi emzimbeni okanye ngokomzwelo) iyahla. Oku kunokubandakanya iimeko ezifana nokunyuka kwengcinezelo yegazi, i-arrhythmia, intloko, iingxaki zesisu, ukuxhalaba nokuxinezeleka.
- Ubuhlobo bakho obubaluleke kakhulu bunzima.
- Utyando okanye enye inkqubo yonyango ehleliweyo ezayo ngokukhawuleza.
- Ugqirha wakho uthe ixesha lokubekwa kwabahlengikazi ekhaya.
- Umthandana wakho unemfuno yokhathalela ukuba akunakukwazi ukuphatha kakuhle, nangona uzama ukuzama.
- Unabangane okanye amalungu omndeni abonisa ukukhathalela ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye akhuthaze ukuba ukhangele ukhetho lwekhaya labahlengikazi.
- Usuvele uzame ezinye iinketho kunye nezixhobo zokugcina umhlobo wakho ekhaya kwaye ababancedisi nje ngokwaneleyo uncedo.
- Imali, ukunakekelwa kwekhaya lokunonyamekela kunokwenzeka kakhulu kunokuba uhlawule inani lemisebenzi yekhaya eyofunekayo ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakho zomntu ozithandayo.
Ukuba enye okanye eminye yale miqondiso ibonakala iqhelekileyo, ingaba ixesha lokuqhubela phambili kunye nokucwangcisa ukufuduka kwikhaya lokunakekelwa.
Qiniseka ukuba uthetha nabanye abasondelene nawe abaqhelana nezibonelelo kwindawo yakho kwaye ngubani ongenza isincomo. Ukungena kwiindawo zokutyelela kunokukunceda uzivelele kuloo ndawo. Ukuphanda iinketho zakho kukubalulekileyo ekukhetheni ikhaya elinobuhlengikazi elithandayo.
ILizwi
Ukucinga malunga nokunyamekela umhlobo wakho kunokuxinzelela. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha uvakalelwa kukuba unako ukuyiphatha, kunokubakho amanye amaxesha apho uvakalelwa kukuba awukwazi ukukwenza konke. Abanye abantu bachaza indlela abavakalelwa ngayo xa benzela umthwalo kunye nobunzima bale ndima. Ukwamkela le mizwa ayithathi nantoni na uthando olunalo kulo mntu.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ukuba impilo yakho okanye impilo yakho imvakalela kakhulu, awuyi kukwazi ukunceda ngoncedo lwakho lonke. Ukucwangciswa kakuhle kunokukunceda uqhubeke ukhona kumntu wakho othandekayo, ngoko unako ukuqhubeka unikela uthando kunye nenkxaso ayifunayo ngexesha lomngeni lolu hambo.
Umthombo:
I-Pacific Northwest Extension. Ukwenza izigqibo malunga neKhaya loLondolozi.