Ngaba unomkhulu ozala, umzali, umalume okanye umngane nge- Alzheimer's disease ? Ukuba kunjalo, ungamjonga ukuba abekhohliwe ngakumbi, enenkathazo enkulu yokufumana amagama afanele ukukuxelela into ethile, okanye ezinye zeempawu ze-Alzheimer's . Kodwa, kuthekani xa umhlobo wakho eqala ukuthetha okanye enze izinto ezintle?
Xa i-Alzheimer ichaphazela ngaphezu kweCognition
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunokubangela ukuba abantu bathethe kwaye benze izinto ababengazange benze ngaphambili.
Nangona abanye abantu abane-Alzheimer okanye olunye uhlobo lwesifo sengqondo sokuhlala komzimba bahlala bumnandi kuzo zonke izigaba zesifo, abanye bafumana iimpawu ezinokuba ngumngeni kulabo abakuzungezile njenge- paranoia , ukugubha , ukuzulazula , ukuxhalaba, umsindo kunye nokunyanzela.
Yiyo le mpawu enokuba nzima ngakumbi kumalungu omndeni onothando ukubukela. Baya kuba nesineke nomusa kumntu onomdemokhrasi, kwaye banomuva wokuba unelungelo lokumnakekela. Sekunjalo, umthandana wabo unokungena ngokungaqhelekanga ngamazwi achaphazelayo kunye namangalelwa.
Imizekelo yale mibuzo engeyiyo-So-Nice:
- "Awunandityelela."
- " Udade wakho uthembe imali yam."
- "Akangakhathaleli ukuba ndihlala ekhaya yonke imini."
- "Ukutya owenzele ngokutya okubi."
- " Ukhangeleke kakhulu kuloo mabhulu ."
- " Ndiyazi ukuba umntakwabo unkohliso kum ."
- "Akumangalisi ukuba uSally akanalo nabahlobo. Udinga ukufumana ama-brace ayo mazinyo."
Ngoko, yintoni omele uyenze xa umhlobo wakho echaza izinto ezinje? Ungayisebenzisa njani? Ufanele uthini?
Iziphakamiso zokuKhuphela
Ungayithobeli loo mpendulo.
Ndiyazi, kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuyivumela ukuba ihambe kwaye inganikeli impendulo efanelekile, kodwa yona yindlela enye engcono yokuphendula. Ukuphikisana kwaye kungenza wonke umntu agqitywe . Sebenzisa i-logic enobuchule kwaye inokubuya. Ukunyamekela kungabangela impendulo enkulu ngenxa yobuncwane bakho kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi, ukuba unako ukuthatha umoya ophefumlelweyo kunye nesinyathelo sokubuya, emzimbeni nangokwengqondo okwesikhashana.
Ngoku, sicinga apha ukuba oku akuyona indlela yokuthetha yomntu, kodwa kunokuba isifo sichaphazela indlela abachazela ngayo ihlabathi elibajikelezile.
Cinga ngomthombo.
Ngaloo nto, anditsho ukuba ufanele uchithe konke into ebizwa ngu-Grandma ngenxa yokuba une- dementia . Into endiyithethayo kukuba ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe kunye namagama akuqhelekanga, cinga ukuba isifo, kunokuba u-Grandma, uxanduva lwamagama kunye nokuziphatha kakubi. Khumbuza ukuba isifo se-Alzheimer sichaphazela ubuntu kuba sithinta isakhiwo somzimba wengqondo.
Sebenzisa ukuphazamiseka.
Esikhundleni sokulwa nolwimi oluthile olubukhali, zama ukulungisa ingxoxo kunye nokuphazamiseka. "Mkhulu, ngaba unokuba nenkukhu okanye isobho ekudleni sakusihlwa? Ndiya evenkile ndize ndizibuze ukuba kukuphi okulungileyo kuwe." Okanye ... "Mkhulu, ngaba uvile ukuba uSara uhambile ngaphandle?" Okanye, ukuba ufuna ukuphuma ekamelweni ngcaciso emfutshane, ungazama, "Hamba, wandikhumbuza ukuba ndifuna ukukhangela ukuhlamba." Kungenzeka ukuba umsebenzi, akunjalo, kodwa ufanele uzame.
Mqinisekise.
Kungenzeka ukuba kufuneka nje ukuba uve ukuba wena (okanye umyeni wakhe) uyamkhathalela kwaye uyamthanda naphezu kwezenzo zakhe okanye amagama akhe. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bavavanya abanye ngokunyusa imida kwaye kufuneka baqonde ukuba nangona kunzima, baya kuthanda.
Phendula ngokufutshane uze uvumele ukuhamba.
Ukuba kukho ukuphawula ngokukrakra, unokufuna ukuphendula ngesitatimende esifutshane nje ngenxa yempilo yakho yengqondo uze uqhubeke. Zama into enjengale, "Hayi, Mkhulukazi, okunene ndibuhlungu ngokwenene ngenxa yokuba andinakuze ndiyenze loo nto. Masithethe ngenye into."
Ngaba inyaniso?
Ukuba uNogogo wenza izihlandlo eziphindaphindiweyo okanye ezinokumangalelwa ngabanye ngokumlimaza okanye ukuba imali yakhe, qaphela ukugxothwa kwamabango akhe. I-paranoia kunye neengcinga zisoloko zibonakalisa uphawu lokudemeka komzimba, kodwa ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba awuyikunyanzelisa ingxaki efana neyokusetyenziswa kakubi komdala .