Ukuba uye waphuma ukuba uchithe ixesha kunye nomhlobo okanye ilungu lentsapho ophakathi kwamagatya aphakathi kwe- Alzheimer okanye enye ingqondo, qwalasela ezi ngcebiso ezilishumi njengesikhokelo sakho.
Yazi ukuba ulindele ntoni.
Ukwandisa amathuba okutyelela ngokubeka izinto ezilindelekileyo. Amanqanaba aphakathi kwesifo sengqondo somzimba anokuba nzima. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bafumana iimpawu ezinzima ezifana nokukhohlisa okanye ukuxhalaba, okanye bakucasula lula.
Basenokungakwazi ukukubona ngokukhawuleza, okanye bafike ngegama lakho. Ukwazi ukuba ezi zimpawu ziyingxenye yesifo kwaye akubonakali ulwalamano lomntu kunye nawe kunokukunceda ukuba uphendule kakuhle kubo kwaye uqinisekise ukuba ukutyelela kulungile.
Zazise.
Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba ungumntombazana wakhe oyintandokazi, kodwa kungenzeka ukuba akakwazi ukukubeka, kwaye oko kunokubandezeleka kokubili. Mgcine uhlazo olunokwenzeka okanye umzuzu onzima ngokuzizisa ngokukhawuleza.
Hlonipha.
Nangona inkumbulo yomthandayo ayikho into eyayiqhelekileyo, musa ukuthetha naye okanye ukumphatha njengomntwana. Ungumntu omdala onamava amaninzi obomi, ngoko phakathi kokudideka kwakhe, qinisekisa ukuba uyamhlonela xa uthethwa.
Nciphise iziphazamiso.
Ukuba igumbi oya kujongela kuyo lixhwele okanye lixakekile, mbuze ukuba ingafuna ukuya ngaphandle okanye phantsi kwehostela ukuhamba okuzolileyo.
Unako ukuba ube nengxoxo ecacileyo kunye naye ukuba kukho iziphazamiso ezimbalwa ezikufutshane nawe.
Sebenzisa izitatimende ezicacileyo kwaye ugweme isangqa.
Ukuqhagamshelana nomntu othandekayo onesifo sengqondo somzimba ngokuqhelekileyo uyasebenza xa usebenzisa iimpendulo eziphathekayo okanye imibuzo, kunokuba usebenzise ulwimi olungenanto okanye uluhlu oluthile.
Ngokomzekelo, kunokuthi, "Akukho nto yokulila phezu kobisi oluthileyo", uthi, "Kulungile, Unina uSara. Oku kwenzeka kwincinjana edlulileyo kwaye kulungile ngoku. "
Yenza imifanekiso ekutyeleleni kwakho.
Ukuba uneemifanekiso ezidlulileyo kwiminyaka edlulileyo, khetha abambalwa kubo, okanye bhetele kodwa i-albhamu endala, kwaye uyizise kunye nokutyelela kwakho. Ukubona imifanekiso ukususela kwiminyaka edlulileyo kunokubangela imemori egcinwe kwi- memory memory bank. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu bayakwazi ukukhumbula amagama kunye neziganeko ezithile ngokubona umfanekiso.
Nangona impendulo oyifumayo ibonakala ingancinci, abaninzi abantu bayaqinisekiswa ngokubona imifanekiso enokuyifumana, kunye ne-paging nangona i-albhamu ingakunika isikhokelo kwingxoxo yakho.
Faka into yakhe.
Ukuba umhlobo wakho unesiphelo okanye unkohliso , ungazami ukumqinisekisa ukuba oko akuva okanye ukubonayo akunjalo. Ukubonelela ngeziqinisekiso ezininzi kunye neziphazamiso endaweni yoko.
Vumani.
Andiqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni xa u tyelela uyihlo? Cinga ukucula kunye naye, ingakumbi ukuba uhlala ethanda umculo. Ukuba umculo awuyiyo into yakho, unako ukuzisa iingoma ezirekhodiweyo kunye nawe ukuze udlalele yena. Umculo unokukwazi ukukhumbuza iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, ngamanye amaxesha kubangela ukuba umntu afunde onke amazwi kwingoma nangona amandla abo okunxibelelana awanqabile.
Musa ukuphikisana.
Ukuphikisana nomntu onomdemokhrasi akunqabile, ukuba nanini, luncedo. Nangona ephosakele ngokupheleleyo ngento ethile, uya kufezekisa kakhulu ngokungavumelani naye.
Xa wakho umthandayo efuna ukuba yiLwesibini kwaye empeleni ngoMvulo, ukubheja kwakho kukugqithiseleyo ukuhamba kunye nokuhamba ngaphandle kokuba umcimbi ubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba uyaphikisana naye, mhlawumbi ukwandisa ukuphazamiseka kwakhe nokukhungatheka kodwa ungenakho ukumkholisa.
Khumbula ukuba imvakalelo ivame ukuhlala ixesha elide kuneememori.
Ngamanye amaxesha ndiva abantu bebhalela abantu abathandekayo abanomdla wokugula ngengqondo ngokuthi kuba abayi kukhumbula ukutyelela kwimizuzu embalwa ukususela ngoku, akunakunceda ukutyelela.
Uphando lubonise ukuba akuyona nje imemori ebalulekileyo apha; Kwakhona umvakalelo owenziwe ngetyelelo oluhle. Yintoni ebalulekileyo ukuba uqaphele kukuba ukuvakalisa ukuvakalisa ukuvakasha nokukhuthazela kungathatha ixesha elide kunomxholo othile wokutyelela.
Unokuba nomthelela kumhla wonke womntu ngokutshintsha iimvakalelo zakhe nokuziphatha. Nangona engenako ukukhumbula ukuba uyivakatye, iimvakalelo ozidalileyo kuye zingatshintsha indlela asebenzisana ngayo nabanye kunye nokuphucula isimo sakhe sengqondo.
Ngexesha elilandelayo ucinga ukuba akunandaba, cinga kwakhona. Inzuzo yokutyelela kwakho ingahlala ixesha elide emva kokuba uhambe.
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