Ukuba wenze isigqibo esinzima sokuhambisa umhlobo wakho kwikhaya lokunyamekela okanye kwenye indawo, kunokwenzeka ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nelo tshintsho. Kananjalo unokuba usizi iintlungu ezininzi ezibangelwa kwesi sigqibo okanye unzima ukulungelelanisa nokutshintsha kwindlela ophila kuyo.
Akungabazeki ukuba isigqibo sakho sokubeka ilungu lentsapho kwisibonelelo asizange senziwe lula.
Mhlawumbi ucinge ngezinto ezininzi. Ngamanye amaxesha, ezi zigqibo zithathwa ezandleni zethu ngeemeko eziphuthumayo okanye iinkxalabo zempilo. Ngamanye amaxesha, isigqibo sokwamkela umthandane wakho kwikhaya lokunonyamekela liyi intshi ngo-intshi enye, kunye namalungu entsapho amaninzi enzima, oogqirha banikela iingcebiso kunye nezilumkiso, kunye nabamelwane bakhuthaza ukuba uthathe isinyathelo esilandelayo.
Nangona kukho ingxubusho njengoko isigqibo senziwe, akuhlali ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenxa yokuba umntu ungeniswa kwisibonelelo. Enyanisweni, iyakwazi ukuqhubeka okanye yonyuka njengoko umncedisi kufuneka afunde ukukhulula ukubamba kwakhe kwiinkcukacha zemizuzu esetshenziselwa ukunyamekela wakhe othandekayo.
Ukuqaphela izibonakaliso zobuGwenxa, ukuxakeka nokulungiswa
Nangona kubonakala ngathi kufanelekile, kungekhona zonke iimvakalelo zetyala okanye intlungu zibukeka ngokufanayo. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa iimvakalelo ezinzima ezinokuvela emva kokubekwa kwabafundi ekhaya:
- Unokuziva unetyala xa unolwazi olumnandi.
- Unokufumana umjikelezo wecala, ngoko ukhululo, uze ube netyala.
- Unokufumana ungenelisekanga ngononophelo lwabasebenzi beziko.
- Unokuvakalelwa kukuba kufuneka ube khona rhoqo kwiziko.
- Unokuziva uzive ucinezelekile okanye uxhalabile.
- Unokuba ungafuni ukuqwalasela ukwenza izikhokelo zonyango, njenge- DNR oda .
Abaxhasi kwiMvakalelo yokuBala kunye nokuxhalaba
Ezinye izinto ezinokunyusa iimvakalelo ezinzima emva kokubekwa kwabahlengikazi ekhaya kungabandakanya ukudideka kokungakwazi ukunyamekela umlingane ekhaya njengokwakusungulwa okokuqala, ingcamango (echanekileyo okanye engekho) abanye abakulindele ukuba ube nako ukunakekela umntu ekhaya, kunye nokuvuma ukuba isifo somntu siyaqhubeka.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umntu mhlawumbi unokuthi kuwe, "Nceda ungangifaki kwikhaya lononophala!" Sekunjalo, iimfuno zakhe zenze ukuba eso sicelo singenakwenzeka.
Indlela Yokunceda Ulungelelanise le nguTshintsho
Okokuqala, qaphela ukuba uhlangabezana nokulungiswa okubalulekileyo. Nangona oku kungatshintshi imeko, kunokukunceda uzinike imvume yokumisa ixesha kwaye uqonde umngeni ojongene nawo.
Olunye uphando lufumanise ukuba abantu abanonophelo, ngokukodwa abatshatileyo abahlali bekhaya labahlengikazi, bafumana ubunzima bokudakumba kunye nokuxhalaba emva kokubekwa kwabahlengikazi ekhaya ngaphambi kokuba kubekwe ukuhlala ekhaya. Oku kubonisa ukuba nangona ukubekwa kwakufuneka ukuba kunyamekelwa ngumthandayo, akuyi kulungiswa "ngokuzenzekelayo" ngumncedisi oyintloko kwaye wenze konke kulungile.
Fumana iincinci, kwaye mhlawumbi ezintsha, iindlela zokubonisa ukunyamekela nothando lwakho. Mhlawumbi ungazisa iphephandaba okanye intyatyambo imihla ngemihla kumthande wakho.
Ukuchonga umntu onokukubonisa ukukhathazeka kwakho, kokubili ngaphandle kwendawo kunye nendawo. Ukunxibelelana kubalulekile, kwaye ezininzi izixhobo zifuna ukwazi ukuba ziziphi iingxaki zakho. Ukufunda indlela yokukhuthaza umntu obathandayo kubalulekile kwaye kuyimfuneko, ingakumbi xa unesifo sengqondo se- dementia .
Qaphela ukuba nangona wakho umthandayo engazange afune ukuhlala kwisiko, kunokubakho inzuzo ekunakekelwa kwabantwana abanonophelo. Nangona uvakalelwa kukuba akukho nto inokuthelekiswa nomgangatho wokunyamekela owawunikela umhlobo wakho ekhaya, khumbula ukuba ukunyamekela kwisiko kungase kube kuhle, ukunakekelwa kwekhwalithi, kwaye kufumaneka iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Abanye abantu bafumanisa ukuba umhlobo wabo uphucula kakuhle kwisiko kuba ufumana unonophelo rhoqo ukuba amalungu omndeni ayefuna ukubonelela kodwa akakwazi ukugcina kakuhle ekhaya.
Ncedisa wakho umthandayo ulungelelanise kwisiko . Sebenzisanani kunye nokufumana imisebenzi enenjongo kunye neendlela zokuncedisa ukulungiselela ukulungiswa.
Cinga ukuphuhlisa ibali lobomi ukuxelela abantu abalulekileyo, imicimbi kunye nolwazi kunye nabasebenzi malunga nomthandayo.
Khawukhumbule ngokwazi ngoku ukugxila, kungekhona kuphela kwiimfuno zakho zokunakekelwa komntu othandayo, kodwa kunye nokutyelela nokwakha ubuhlobo bakho naye.
Abaninzi abakhathalelayo banomuva onelungelo lokunyamekela umthandayo, kwaye abafuni ukukhululeka emsebenzini wokunyamekela, nangona kukhangela ngokomzimba nangokwenyama. Ukwamkela ukuxubusha kwimizwa equka ukuxhalaba, ukulahleka, ukuvalelwa yecala kunye nokukhululeka, kunokuvumela ukuba utshintsho oluhle emva kokubekwa kwabafundi ekhaya.
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