Abadala begama elibhekiselele kwindlela abanye abantu abathetha ngayo abantu abadala, ngakumbi abo abane- Alzheimer's disease okanye olunye uhlobo lwesifo sengqondo sokugula komzimba. Abadala babebandakanya ukuthetha ngokuthe ngcembe, besetyenziswe ilizwi eliphakamileyo, basebenzisa imimiselo yothando njengobusi "okanye" othandekayo, "kunye nokuthetha nomntu omdala njengokungumntwana okanye umntwana omncinci. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, i-elderspeak iphinda ichazwe njengokusebenzisa uxhulumaniso "olusondeza" umntu omdala.
U mzekelo
"Oh Honey Bun, ufuna ukulala, akunjalo?"
"Sweetie, uhle kakhulu!"
"Ngaba i-tummy yethu ilambile i-foodie?"
Ngoko yintoni into embi ngayo?
Kubuhlungu, Ukuhlambalaza nokuPhepha
Lowo mntu uthetha naye ngumntu omdala onamava amaninzi ebomini. Unokuba wakhulisa abantwana, uqhuba inkampani, wakhonza ilizwe lethu emkhosini, walela intlanganiso yebhodi, wapheka ukutya okumangalisayo, waza wagijima ibhola. Phatha abantu abadala njengabantu abadala.
Igalelo lokuThengiswa koLuntu
Ukusebenzisa imilinganiselo engathandekiyo yothando esikhundleni samagama kunokubangela ukuba ucinge ngendlela engacacileyo ngomntu othetha naye kunye nokwenza kube lula ukulibala ukuba ungumntu onobomi kunye nokukhetha okukhethiweyo. Sifanele sisondele ekunakekelweni komntu , kungekhona kude nayo. Khumbula ukuba lo mntu unalo igama. Mbuze into afuna ukubizwa ngayo kwaye yenze. Umzekelo: "Ngaba ukhetha uMnu Smith okanye uFred?"
Ibonisa amandla
Nangona umntu enesifo sengqondo somzimba (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, ngokubhekiselele ekudemeni kwengqondo), ukuthetha kwethu okungabonakaliyo ngomlomo njengetoni, ukuma kwezwi, kunye nokuziphatha kunokuthetha ngokukhululekileyo kwabanye. Abadala bangabonakala bethetha, "Ndingumphathi wakho ngenxa yokuba udala kwaye ungancedi."
Ibonisa ukuba kungenakunqandwa koMdala
Uphononongo olutshanje lufumene ukuba abadala abadala bekunokwenzeka kakhulu xa behamba nomntu onesifo sengqondo sokugula.
Ithenda yokunyamezela ibonisa ukuba umdala unesidingo esinzulu senkqubela kuba ufana nomntwana. Akayena umntwana, kwaye ukulahleka kweememori kuye kufuna imfesane, kungekhona inceba.
Iyakwandisa amaxesha anzima
Izifundo ezininzi ziye zafumanisa ukuba i-elderspeak yandisa amathuba okuziphatha okucelomngeni njengokumelana nokunyamekela kubantu abaneengqondo. Kuye kwachazwa ukuba kwandezelekile , ukukhungatheka nokubiza . Ukongezelela, ngokweYunivesithi yaseMiami, abadala abadala bangenza iimpendulo ezinobungozi , ixesha lokuphendula ngokukhawuleza kwintsebenziswano eqhelekileyo, njengokwenkqangaza okukhulu okanye isenzo somsindo kumntu onomnakekeli.
Oko Ukwenza Endaweni
Qaphela ukuthetha kunye nentlonipho. Khumbula ukuthambekela (kuwe okanye kwabanye) ukuthetha kubantu abadala. Qonda ukuba i-elderspeak inokuthi ilandelelwe kumntu oyisebenzisayo, kwaye unokufuna isikhumbuzo esifanelekileyo esithetha naye.
Imithombo:
I-American Journal ye-Alzheimer kunye nezinye i-Dementias. NgoFebruwari / Matshi 2009 vol. 24, akukho. 1, 11-20. AbaPhezulu beNtsebenziswano: Impembelelo yokuNakekelwa kweDementia.
Umbhalo we-Nursing Gerontological Nursing. 2014 Nov; 40 (11): 44-52. Ngaba i-elderspeak ifanelekile?: Uphando lwabahlengikazi abaqinisekisiweyo.
Uphando kunye neNkcazo yoLondolozo lwabahlengikazi. 2007; 21 (1): 45-56. Uphononongo lwenkohlakalo yokunyamekela ukunyamekela kunye ne-elderspeak.
KwiYunivesithi yaseMiami. Kwiziko lokuguga. Ukuqhagamshelana nabadala: Abadala kunye nangaphezulu .