Ngaba kufuneka ukuba i- autism ye- autism i-diagnostic yolwazi ibe yinto yolwazi jikelele? Ngubani omele azi? Ngubani ongafanelekanga? Ufanele uxelele njani kwaye kutheni?
Kwezinye iintsapho, le mibuzo ingase ibonakale ilungisa. Kungenxa yokuba, kwezinye iimeko, kubonakala ngathi iimpawu ze-autism zicacile ukuba akukho mntu unokuziphosa. Kubazali kule meko, kunokumangalisa ukufunda ukuba abanye ababukeleyo banokuphutha iimpawu ze-autism ngenxa yokuqeqeshwa kakubi-kwaye benze izigwebo ngokufanelekileyo.
Kwezinye iindwendwe ezininzi, umbuzo wokubhengeza ukuxilongwa kwe-autism ingaba rhoqo. Umntwana onomsebenzi ophezulu we-autism unokukwazi "ukudlula" ngokuqhelekileyo kwiimeko ezithile, ngoko kutheni uhlabe isikebhe ngokubhengeza ukuxilongwa okungaye kubangele abanye? Kwabanye abantwana abaneempawu ezinzima ngokukhawuleza bangakwazi "ukudlula" phantsi kweemeko ezifanelekileyo.
Kwizinto ezilungileyo zehlabathi, ukudalulwa kufuneka kube yinto entle. Kufuneka unikeze ootitshala, abaqeqeshi, abaqondisi, abacebisi, kunye nabanye abanezixhobo abazifuna ukukunceda umntwana wakho aphumelele kuluntu. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunjalo ngokwenene.
Kodwa abazali abanenkxalabo yokuba ukuvakaliswa kungabangela intlungu engadingekanga inokuba nephuzu: abanye abantu abadala abakhathazekiyo ngokukhubazeka nokuba ingcamango yokugulisa i-autism iba yinto enzima. Ukuba oko kuchaza umqeqeshi weLittle League oya kuqeqesha unyana wakho, ngaba kuya kuba luncedo ukuchazela ukuxilongwa kwakhe?
Kuxhomekeke kwiimeko, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokubhengezwa. Mhlawumbi enye yazo iya kuba yimeko yakho.
1. Chaza iingxaki ngaphandle kokuchazela ukuxilongwa
Ukuba ungumzali womntwana ophethe i-autism ephezulu, unokukhetha ukuba uchaze imingeni ethile yomntwana ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igama "igama" .
Oku kunokuba luncedo xa usebenzisana nabantu abadala abakhathazekile malunga nokukhubazeka. Umzekelo, unokuthi uchaze imingeni yengqondo yomntwana ngokuthi "UBilly ngezinye iinkcukacha unokuxubha xa abantwana bevakala kakhulu; Ndamnika le headphone ukuyisebenzisa xa oko kwenzeka. Ungakhathazeki: uyazi indlela yokusebenzisa ngayo-ndandisifuna ukukunika ikhanda! "
2. Chaza "ukungafani"
Ukuba iimpawu ziya kubonakala kodwa zingenako ukukhubaza kwimeko ethile, unokufuna ukuchaza umntwana wakho "ohlukileyo" okanye "ukuhamba ngokubetha kwakhe." Ngokomzekelo, "uEmily uzimisele ukuba ngumSwirl Scout, kwaye Ndiza kwenza umsebenzi omkhulu - kodwa unokwazi ukuba uthanda ukusebenza yedwa kunokuba ajoyine iqela. Ndiyathemba ukuba kunjalo; kumnceda ukuba agxilise ngakumbi. "
3. Chaza kuMntu ofanelekileyo
Kwiindlela ezininzi - esikolweni, ecaweni, okanye kuluntu - kukho abantu "abafumana" i-autism kunye nabantu abangenayo. Ngokomzekelo, umlawuli we-YMCA wendawo angenakukhathazeka xa ekhuselekileyo xa umlawuli wekampu efuna ukufumana indawo efanelekileyo yokuhlala ukuze aqinisekise impumelelo yomntwana ngamnye. Kutheni udala iingxaki wena nomntwana wakho ngokuthetha no-Y ngomlawuli malunga neemfuno zomntwana wakho xa umlawuli wekampu eya kuba ngumkhosi kumntwana wakho kwiY?
4. Chaza xa kuyimfuneko kunye / okanye uncedo
Akubona wonke umntu ehlabathini kufuneka aqonde ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo esithile - ngenxa yokuba akufanelekanga kumntu wonke odibana naye. Ewe, ugqirha omtsha wakho kufuneka awazi, kodwa hayi-akukho sizathu sokuba wabelane nabanye osebenza nabo. Ewe, isikolo sakho sidinga ukwazi, kodwa kuxhomekeka kwinqanaba elithile lomngeni, ungadingi ukuthetha igama kummelwane wakho. Ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba luncedo - kwaye ingayenza ingxaki - kutheni uhamba khona?
5. Chaza kwiimeko ezintsha
Nangona kungekho mfuneko ethile yokwenza ingxaki ye-autism yengane yakho esikolweni okanye kwiimeko apho umntwana wakho sele eyaziwayo, unokufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ukuxilongwa kwakhe kuqondwa kwiindlela ezintsha.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uphinde uchaze iimpawu ezithile zomntwana wakho ukuze ugweme iingcamango ezingalunganga malunga ne-autism .
6. Bhengeza iiCards ngokusebenzisa iiCards kunye nezambatho
Kwabanye abantu, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, kunokubaluleka ngokubalulekileyo (okanye ukukhetha nje) ukuvumela ihlabathi ukuba likwazi ngokuxilongwa kwe-autism. Abanye abazali bathenga iikhati zabo kubantwana babo be-autistic kunye nezivakalisi ezifana ne "I-Autistic - Sisiphi Isizathu Senu." Abanye bathenga amakhadi ukuba bona okanye abantwana babo banokuhambisa ukwazisa oko kuchaza iimpawu zomntwana. Ezi zingasetyenziselwa kwiimeko ezilukhuni ezivela kwiintsholongwane zoluntu ukudibana neepolisa.
Ukukhethwa malunga nokokuza kutyhila kwaye nini ukuchaza oko, kunjalo, umntu. Kubantu abaninzi, i-autism ngumthombo wokuzikhukhumeza; kwabanye, yinto eyimfihlo. Naluphi na ukhetho lwakho, kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba abantu abafuna ulwazi bafumane ulwazi.