Autism yinkimbinkimbi. Kukho ii-zillion zonyango lwe-autism, iinkqubo, izikolo, amaqela enkxaso, imisebenzi kwaye, kuxhomekeka apho uhlala khona, kunokukho ubuncinane be-gazillion ngabanye abachaphazelekayo ukubonelela ngolwimi lwabo lwe-autism unyango lomntwana wakho.
Yongeza kule mithetho emininzi, izikhokelo ze-inshorensi, i-arhente, kunye ne-tape ebomvu oza kuba nakho xa usebenza kwiminyaka yesikolo, iinkqubo zasehlotyeni, nangaphezulu.
Kuthiwani ngokucwangcisa iimfuno zabantu abadala, izimo zokuhlala, imisebenzi kunye nenkxaso?
Ngubani onokukukhokelela ekukhethweni kwezinto ozikhethileyo, ama-blind alleys, kunye namathuba?
Isizathu sokuba Abazali Bamele Babe neengcali zabo ze-Autism
Ewe, kukho umntu onokukukhokela kwiinkalo ezithile zobomi bentsapho-iimfuno ezizodwa, abagqirha, ootitshala ngabanye, njl njl. Kwaye kukho "abaqeqeshi bokuphila be-autism" abancedayo nabaxhasa abantu abadala kwimingeni ngemingeni yemihla ngemihla.
Kodwa inyaniko kukuba awukho kuphela ummeli wakho omncinci kuphela kodwa kunye nomntu (okanye abantu) abaya kufuneka ukuba bafunde ngaye, baphumelele, bakhethe, baxhamle, babeke iliso kwaye baphathe ukhetho lwabantwana bakho.
Kutheni kunjalo? Nazi zimbalwa zezizathu zokuba abazali bephefumula bathatha iindlela zabo ezahlukileyo kwihlathi le-autism:
1. I-Autism Ihlukile Kubantu Bonke
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufumene ukuba unesifo sezempilo kunye nesizathu esaziwayo, iimpawu eziqikelelweyo, kunye nonyango olusisiseko okulindele ukuba iingcali zikukhokele ngokufanelekileyo.
Kodwa i-autism yintlupheko enezizathu ezimbalwa eziyaziwayo , iimpawu ze-idiosyncratic kunye neendlela eziphambukayo, kunye neentlobo zonyango ezinokuthi okanye ezingenakulungeleka okanye ezincedo kumntwana wakho.
Ukongeza koko ukuba inyaniso yokuba abantwana abahlukeneyo baphendula ngokungafaniyo kwiindlela ezihlukeneyo kwiimviwo ezahlukahlukeneyo ebomini babo, ukuba iinkqubo zesikolo zihluke kakhulu kwiindawo kunye neziphumo ...
kwaye uyabona ukuba kutheni kungekho mntu ngaphandle koko ububanzi bolwazi olufunekayo ukukhokela indlela yakho ukusuka kwi-diagnostic ngokusebenzisa umntu omdala.
2. Iinketho kunye neNkxaso-mboleko evela kwiNgingqi ukuya kwindawo
INew Jersey icebile kwiinkqubo zophuhliso kunye nezikolo zezingane ezine-autism. IFlorida ineenkqubo ezithile zokuziphatha. I-California i-MIND Institute, enika uluhlu lweenkonzo kunye neeprogram, ngelixa iNew York iyindawo echithisayo kwiinkonzo zabantu abadala kunye nenkxaso. Kwizikolo, i-SCERTS inkulu kwiRhode Island, ngelixa iiprogram ze-TEACCH zithandwa kwiNorth Carolina.
Amanye amazwe, amaphondo, kunye namazwe anika inkxaso-mali ngokubanzi kwiindlela ezininzi zokwelapha, ngelixa abanye baqinisa iintambo zabo.
Akukho mntu unokukuxelela ngokuchanekileyo zeziphi iinkonzo kunye neeprogram ezinikwe apho, ngeyiphi intengo, ngabaphi iiprogram, phantsi kweziphi iimeko. Kwaye nokuba ngaba bayakwazi - abayi kuba nako ukunitshela ukuba ezo zinkonzo ziya kuba zilungele umntwana wakho okanye usapho lwakho. Kuye kuwe ukwenza uphando kwaye wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo kwiimfuno zakho ezithile.
3. Akhokho "Eyona nto ibhetele" iTransmatic Therapies
Esemngciphekweni wokumema ukugxeka, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ndichanekile xa ndithi akukho "mgangatho wegolide" we-autism unyango olufanelekileyo kuwo wonke umntwana.
Ewe, abanye abantu baya kukuxelela ukuba unyango lwezolawulo ( olubizwa ngokuba yi-ABA ) luyi "standard standard" yokuphatha i-autism. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba ngelixa i-ABA yiprogram ephando ngokuphandle (mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba iziphumo zayo zilinganiselwa lula), akuyona into efanelekileyo (okanye ifanelekileyo) kunoma yimuphi umntwana onikwe.
Kwaye nokuba uyakholelwa ukuba i-ABA ibheji elungileyo kumntwana wakho, kukho "iintlobo" ezihlukeneyo ze-ABA , nganye ziveliswe ngumphandi ohlukeneyo okanye iqela. Impendulo ephawulekayo, "Iimvavanyo eziCacile," kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamanyathelo amaninzi onke asebenzisa iindlela zokuziphatha kwinqanaba elithile-kodwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Yiyiphi efanelekileyo? Ngokuqhelekileyo kuxhomekeke ekufumanekeni, indleko, kunye nekhono lomlobi ngamnye ukuba axhumane ngokufanelekileyo nomntwana wakho ngamnye!
Ukubeka eceleni i-ABA, kukho ezinye iindlela ezininzi zokwelapha ezisisiseko ezifanelekileyo okanye ezinokufumaneka, ezifanelekileyo, okanye ezisebenzayo kumntwana wakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntwana wakho kufuneka abe neyonyango yokusebenza, kodwa kuthethani ngonyango lwentsebenziswano yokuzibandakanya (isebe lonyango olusebenzayo oluhlala luncedo kwiintsana ze-autistic)? Ingaba umntwana wakho uza kuxhamla kwiinkqubo zobuchwephesha ? Ukudlala unyango? I-Hippotherapy (ukugibela ihashe)? Unyango lo lonwabo? Kuya kuba kuwe ukufumanisa iinketho kwaye unqume ukuba ngaba ufanelekile ukuhlolisisa.
Emva koko kukho ezininzi iindlela zokuphucula ezithandwa kakhulu kwaye zijongwa kakuhle. Ixesha leMigangatho, i-RDI, i-TEACCH, kunye ne-SCERTS zizinto ezimbalwa zeendlela ezinokufumaneka ngasese okanye ngesikolo sakho.
Emva kokuba uhlolisise ukungenelela kwezinto ezingezizo ze-biological, ezingekho zonyango kwi-autism, mhlawumbi ufuna ukujonga ezinye iindlela. Ingaba umntwana wakho unokufumana inzuzo kumachiza afana neziyobisi ezixhatshazayo okanye amayeza anciphisa ukuxhatshazwa? Kuthiwani ngoncedo lwezondlo? Kukho oogqirha kunye nabasondlo abanobuchwephesha kulezi zifundo - kodwa, ngokwenene, ziingcali, kwaye abanakukuxelela kakhulu malunga, bathi, ukuxuba amayeza kunye neyeza le drama!
Ngaphantsi, zonke iindlela zokwelapha kunye nokungenelela okubhaliweyo ngasentla (kunye nakwimibalwa emininzi) kunokunceda, kwaye nayiphi na into inokukhetha. Kodwa akukho mntu kodwa unokwenza isigqibo sokugqibela malunga nokuba yintoni efanelekileyo kumntwana wakho kunoma iyiphi na into ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe.
4. Iimali zoNtsapho kunye nezinto eziPhambili
Ugqirha wakho, umcebisi-ncedisi okanye umphathiswa angancoma unyango lobugcisa, i-RDI, okanye olunye unyango oluvakalayo (kwaye mhlawumbi lu) luhle. Amacandelo enkxaso angabonisa ukuba izikolo ezizimeleyo zingabakho "ukuguqula ubomi" kumntwana wakho.
Kodwa ukuba isikolo sakho okanye inkampani yakho yomshuwalense ayiyi kuxhaswa ngonyango othile okanye kwisikolo (njengokuba kunjalo njalo), ngaba ufanele ugqibe kwi-savings yakho ukuyihlawula?
Kukho iintsapho ezineendlela zokuqalisa izikolo ezipheleleyo ukwenzela ukuba zenze uhlobo oluthile lweyeza olufumanekayo kumntwana. Kukho iintsapho ezichitha imali yazo yokugcina imali kunye nemali yomhlalaphantsi ukuhlawula izibonelelo kunye nezikolo ezizodwa. Kwaye kukho iintsapho ezikhethiweyo kwaye zikhethe phakathi kokukhetha ngokucophelela ukuze ugweme ukuqhuba iingxaki zemali njengoko zilungiselela iimfuno zabo zomntwana.
Akukho mntu onokukuxelela ukuba uninzi kangakanani unyango, umphathiswa, isikolo, okanye ithuba lokuphuma esikolweni okanye inkqubo ifanele wena okanye umntwana wakho. Yintoni ebaluleke nakakhulu ukuba akukho mntu unokukuxelela "ukuba uhlawula epokothini ye-X, umntwana wakho akayi kuyidinga uY iminyaka elishumi."
Ngokuqinisekileyo, eso sikolo esibiza kakhulu singenza yonke impazamo kumntwana wakho-kodwa kwakhona, mhlawumbi ngeke. Kwaye kunokwenzeka kakhulu, unamandla kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba yi-autistic kulo lonke ubomi bakhe. Oko kuthetha ukuba unokuphelisa imali kakhulu kwiindlela zokungenelela kwangaphambili ongeke ube nazo iimali ozidingayo ukuze uxhase umntwana wakho omdala njengomntu omdala-makungabikho nithumele abantakwabo ekolishi kwaye unemivuzo yokuthatha umhlalaphantsi!
Ufanele ubeke phi imali yakho? Unokufumana iingcebiso, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, isigqibo somntu siqu.
5. Iingcamango malunga neMfundo kunye nokukhuliselwa
Yintoni enhle kumntwana wakho?
- Isikolo sabucala esijolise ekukhonzeni iimfuno zabantwana abane-autism?
- Ukubandakanywa ngokugcwele kwiiklasi zokufunda eziqhelekileyo kwisikolo sikarhulumente sasekuhlaleni?
- Ukubandakanywa ngokukodwa kwimfundo jikelele ngokungezelela kwiiprogram ezizodwa kunye neendlela zokwelapha?
- Igumbi lokufundela i-ABA? Igumbi lokufundela i-SCERTS? Igumbi lokufundela i-TEACCH?
Yonke inketho echazwe ngasentla ingaba yinto engcono kumntwana wakho-okanye ayikho. Kwaye akukho ndlela elula yokukwazi, ngaphambi kwexesha, okuya kusebenza ngempumelelo. Ngenxa yoko, isigqibo sisoloko sisekelwe ekufumanekeni nasekukhethweni kwabazali.
Ingaba umntwana wakho omele afuneke afakwe kwiinkqubo zokuzonwabisa zonxibelelwano, iinkonzo zecawa kunye neentlalo zentlalo? Ngaba kufuneka abe nenxaxheba kwiinkqubo ezifanelekileyo okanye ezizodwa? Kwezinye iimeko, isigqibo siya kunikwa ngenxa yesimo sengqondo somntwana kunye nezikhono. Kodwa ekucingeni ukuba ukhetho luyakwenzeka, luya kuba lenu. Akukho nto efanelekileyo okanye engalunganga xa kufikelelwe ekufakweni.
6. Iinkolelo malunga ne-Autism Vary
Yintoni, ngokuqinisekileyo, yi-autism? Ingaba ngumkhuhlane okanye amandla? Ingaba enye indlela yokucinga kunye nokuqonda ihlabathi-okanye ingxaki yokucinga kunye nokuqonda? Impendulo yaloo mibuzo ixhomekeke kwinqanaba le-autistic kunye nefilosofi yabantu abathile kunye neentsapho zabo.
Ngokusekelwe kwiimvakalelo zakho-kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho-unokuthi uthandekele ukukhutshwa kwezixhobo ezithile okanye ukhethe abanye. Unokukhetha iintlobo ezithile zezikolo ezisekelwe kwifilosofi yakho. Unokugqiba ukuchitha imali yakho ngeendlela zokuziphatha kodwa kunokuba usebenzise izixhobo zomculo, izifundo ze-chess, okanye i-camp gear ukuze uxhase iminqweno yomntwana kunye namandla akho kunokuba "uphathe" imingeni yakhe kunye nokungafani.
Funa amacebiso uze wenze izigqibo zakho
Oogqirha, ootitshala, ootitshala, abacebisi abacebisi kunye nabanye abazali banokubonelela ngeengqiqo kunye nokukhokelwa malunga ne-autism. Iincwadi, iividiyo kunye neentetho zibaluleke kakhulu.
Ekugqibeleni, ke, nganye indlela iya kuba yodwa. Kuya kukhokelwa ngabazali kunye nabantu abazithembekileyo abaneenkolelo, iimfuno, iinketho, iitalente kunye neminqweno iya kudlala indima ekwenzeni izigqibo. Kwaye kulungile. Ngenxa yokuba ubomi bonke buhlukile.