Indlela Ulungiso Olunceda Abantwana Nge-Autism
Uninzi lwabantwana, ngandlela-thile ebomini babo, bahlukumeze. Basenokubetha omnye umntwana, babambe itekethi engayifuni kubo, okanye bafune xa befuna ukubuza kakuhle. Uninzi lwabazali kunye nootitshala bayasabela ekuziphatheni okunjalo ngemiphumo, njengokuthi "ixesha lokuphuma" okanye ukulahlekelwa ngamalungelo eTV. Kule miphumo, abantwana bafunda ukuba iimpawu zabo azivumelekanga; Bafunda nokuba ukulawula iimpembelelo zabo kunokuba neziphumo ezintle.
Konke ukuba kaninzi, nangona kunjalo, xa umntwana ophethe i-autism enza into yokuba nayiphi na enye umntwana ayakufumana ixesha lokuphumla, esikhundleni sesiphumo, umntwana ophethe i-autism uthola "ukudlula," kunye neengcamango ezinjenge "nto, ndiyayiqonda , "okanye" kakuhle, wenza okusemandleni akhe. " Xa oku kwenzeka kumntwana onamandla okuqonda imithetho yokuziphatha nokulawula iimpembelelo zakhe, ufunda ukuba imigaqo ayisebenzisi kuye. Ngexesha elizayo, uya kuphinda ukuphinda ukuziphatha okulindela umphumo ofanayo.
Kutheni abantu abadala bengavumi ukuqeqesha abantwana be-Autistic
Akungabazeki ukuba abantu abadala abanikezelayo ukuziphatha kakubi kubantwana abazenzekelayo benza njalo ngenxa yobubele beentliziyo zabo. Bakholelwa ukuba umntwana akanako ukuziphatha okungcono. Baye bakholelwa ukuba iziphumo ziza kubangela uhlobo oluthile lomonakalo ngokomzwelo. Baye bakholelwa ukuba umntwana ophethe i-autism uya kukhwabanisa xa ejongene nokungavumi.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi izizathu zabo, nangona kunjalo, abantu abadala abakhetha ukungaboneleli isakhiwo kunye nokuqeqesha abantwana abane-autism benza loo bantwana ukuba baxhaswe.
Kutheni ukulungiswa kunye nokwakhiwa kubalulekile kubantwana abane-Autism
Ukuba kukho enye into yokuba abantwana (kunye okanye ngaphandle kwe-autism) bafuna ukuphucula, luyilo kunye nokuziphatha. Ukuba kukho enye into eyikrakrayo kwaye igqithise umntwana, kungabikho kokubandakanyeka kwabantu abadala ekudaleni ihlabathi elikhuselekileyo, elihlelekile nelihlelekile.
Ewe, kulula ukugwema ukuqeqesha umntwana nge- autism . Kwaye uzama ukucinga ukuba umntwana one-autism akakwazi ukuqonda okanye ukulandela imithetho. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lweziganeko, kunjalo, abantwana be-autistic bayakwazi ukuqonda nokuthobela imithetho yokuziphatha. Le mithetho ingadinga ukuba iguqulwe okanye ifakwe, kuxhomekeke kwiimeko. Kodwa umntwana okhuliswayo okanye ofundiswa ngaphandle kokuncediswa kwesakhiwo kunye nokuqeqeshwa ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nemiphumo xa ekhula kwaye akafumananga ukudibanisa noluntu okanye kwindawo yokusebenzela.
Iingoma malunga ne-autism kunye nokulungiswa
Kukho iinkolelo ezininzi malunga ne-autism eyenza kubonakale kungalungile okanye kungalunganga ukunyanzelisa imigaqo yokuziphatha. Ngelixa ezi ngqungquthela ziqulethe inkozo ye nyaniso, kubalulekile ukwahlula inyaniso kwizinto ezingengcaciso.
Inkolelo-mnye: Umntwana ongenakukwazi ukuthetha ( okanye uthetha ngokungaqhelekanga ) Akakwazi ukuqonda
Sijwayelene nembono yokuba ukuthetha ngomlomo kukuphawu lobunkokheli. Kodwa umntwana onesigama esichukumisayo akayena mnye ukwazi ukuziphatha kakuhle kunomntwana onolwazi oluncinane. Kwaye kwanomntwana ongenamagama unokukwazi ukuqonda nokuthobela ukulindela ukuziphatha, ecinga ukuba umntwana unokunxibelelana ngokusebenzisa uphawu, ibhodi yonxibelelwano, amakhadi e-PECS , okanye ezinye iindlela.
Unokudinga ukuguqula isitayela sakho soqhagamshelwano ukuze uhlangabezane neemfuno zomntwana onobuchule obunqununu okanye obungenanto. Umzekelo, unokufuna ukugcina amagama akho elula ("akukho ukubetha," ngokuchasene na "ngoku uYohnny, uyazi ukuba asiyikutshitshisa kweli klasi"), kwaye unokufuna ukusebenzisa iindlela zonxibelelwano zomntwana ezikhethiweyo . Kwabaninzi abantu abadala, ukuguqulwa okunjengalezi kufuneka kube lula ukufeza.
Iingcali ezimbini: Abantwana abane-Autism Abazange baphathe kakubi ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle
Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba abantwana abaninzi abane-autism baphendula ngokukhawuleza kwiinjongo zengqondo , kwaye bangabonakalisa ukungathandeki kwabo kwizinto ezibonakala ngathi zizinto ezimbi.
Kwaye kunyanisekileyo ukuba abantwana abane-autism banembopheleleko kunabantwana abaqhelekileyo ukuba baxhatshazwe ngokuxhatshazwa okungenakubonakala kumntu omdala kwigumbi. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha "ukuziphatha" kubangelwa iingxaki ezinokuthi zifanele ziqwalaselwe.
Nangona kunjalo, abantwana abane-autism bangabantwana. Bathukuthela baze bathabathe. Baphosa izinto ezingafanelekanga. Babeka izandla zabo ekudleni kwabo, okanye bachithe ukutya kwabo phantsi. Kwaye njengabanye abantwana, abantwana abane-autism kufuneka bafunde (1) ezo mpawu azivunyelwanga kwaye (2) zikho iindlela ezizezinye zokunxibelelana neemvakalelo zakho neemfuno zakho.
Intsomi Yintathu: Kuyinto Engalungile Ukulungisa Umntwana Ojongene Neemfuno Ezizodwa
Kakade ke, akufanelekanga ukuqeqesha umntwana into engenakuyiphepha. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukugxeka umntwana nge autism ukuze "ukuvuselela" okanye ukwenza isandi kungenangqiqo. Ezi zizinto zokuziphatha eziyingxenye kunye nenxalenye yokuba yi-autistic.
Nangona kunjalo, akunakulungile kuphela kodwa kuyimfuneko ukucacisa nayiphi na umntwana ukuba ukuziphatha kakubi kungenakuvunyelwa. Enyanisweni, ukuvumela ukuziphatha kakubi ngenxa yokuba umntwana "okhethekileyo" unokudala ulungelelaniso lweengxaki ezintsha kunye nemiba.
Iingoma ezine: Abantwana abane-Autism Awuqondi Imiphumo
Kubalulekile ukuyila imiphumo ukuze bavumelane nomntwana kunye nemeko. Ingaba nzima kakhulu kumntwana ophethe i-autism ukuqonda okanye ukuthobela "ukuphumla," kodwa loo mntwana omnye unokukwazi ukuqonda nokuthobela ixesha kwiimidlalo zevidiyo. "Ukugxotha" akunokuba ngumphumo onenjongo kumntwana okhetha ixesha elilodwa, kanti ikhefu elifutshane elivela kumabonwakude lingafumana ngokukhawuleza inqaku.
Ukugwetywa ngokucacileyo okanye ukufakwa entolongweni okanye kwikhabhinethi yinto engalunganga kuyo nayiphi na umntwana.
Eyona nto, ngamnye umntwana ufanelwe intlonipho kunye nenkxaso emele isakhiwo esicacileyo, imithetho ehambelanayo kunye noqeqesho. Ezi zixhobo, kunye kunye nokuguquguquka, umonde, nokucinga, kunokunceda umntwana nge autism ukuba aqonde ihlabathi lakhe kwaye azive ekhuselekile kwaye ethembekileyo njengoko ekhula.