Kwaye nabantwana abane-autism ephezulu kakhulu abanomsebenzi wokudibanisa
Kukho inkolelo yokuba abantwana abane-autism banemizwa embalwa okanye ayikho. Akukho nto ingaba yinyani kwi nyaniso. Abantwana abane-autism banokuvakalelwa ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo okanye baveze iimvakalelo zabo, kodwa banemvakalelo enjengeyomnye umntu. Kwezinye iimeko, abantwana abane-autism banokuvakalelwa ngakumbi kunabanye babo oontanga.
Ngako-ke iifoto ze-autistic zivumela njani iimvakalelo zabo? Ngamanye amaxesha bafuna uncedo ekufumaneni.
Kutheni iimvakalelo zinzima kakhulu kubantwana abanezikolo eziphezulu zokusebenzisa i-autism
Ukusebenza okuphezulu kwe-autism kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unalo ulwimi nolwazi lokuqonda ukuze lubekwe kwindawo ekhoyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungananto yoluntu, unxibelelwano kunye nezakhono zokusebenza ezilawulayo ukusebenza kakuhle xa utshintsho lwenzeka. Ngethuba elifanayo, unokuba uhlangabezana nokungasebenzi kakuhle, ukuxhalaba okanye ezinye izinto ezibangela izibane ezikhanyayo, izandi ezivakalayo kunye nokulindela okuphezulu kunzima ukulawula.
Xa abantwana abane-autism, kunye nezingane eziphezulu ezisebenzayo, zikhungatheke kakhulu okanye zithukuthele, zihlala zisebenza. Xa besenza, banokuziphatha ngeendlela ezothusayo okanye ezothusayo abantu abazungezile. Ngokomzekelo, banakho:
- Ukuxakeka ngendlela efanayo kumntwana omncinci kakhulu, ngezinyembezi nokumemeza
- Balekela kwimeko enzima, ngamanye amaxesha ube kwindawo enobungozi njengesitalato esityebileyo
- Yiba nobudlova okanye ukuxhaphaza
- Ukugqithiselela imeko kwaye ungakwazi ukuzinza
- Ungakwazi ukwenza inkcazelo engqiqweni yokuba, kwenye imeko, yayiza kumnceda ahlalise
- Yiba nomsindo kakhulu ukuphulaphula iziphakamiso zokucebisa ezivela kubazali, ootitshala okanye ootitshala
Iingcebiso ezivela kwiingcali zengqondo. URobert Naseef noCindy Ariel
Ngamanye amaxesha "ubumnene" i-autism ayikho. Kungaba ngumngeni omkhulu kunabantwana kunye nabazali babo. Akukho namnye kuthi ufuna ukubona umntwana wethu ebuhlungu xa into engasebenzi. Uninzi, ukuba alukho uninzi, abantwana abafunyaniswa kwisifo se- autism banzima ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo nokugcina isimo sokuzola. Basenokubambisana nezinye zeemingcele abaziziva kodwa abanakucacisa okanye baziqonde ngezinye iindlela.
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba oku kuya kutshintsha kwaye unokunceda. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso:
- Okokuqala, khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba wena xa ekhalayo kubangelwa ukuziva kwaye loo ntliziyo iya kudlula njengefu elimnyama. Ilanga liya kuphuma kwakhona nangona livakalelwa njengebhakabhaka. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba afunde ukuthabatha amancinci athile xa eqala ukuva umsindo. Yenza njalo le nto xa engacasuli. Yenza kunye naye. Mxelele ukuba sonke, abantwana kunye nabantu abadala, sithukuthele kwaye kufuneka sifunde indlela yokuzincoma.
- Ezinye iziphazamiso zingabandakanyeka iimpendulo zomntwana kunye nesidingo sakhe sokufunda ukujongana nokukhathazeka kwakhe kunye nokuzibamba; ukufumana induduzo nokukhuthazwa ngaphakathi. Unokumnceda ukuba afunde ukujongana nokunyamekela kwakhe ngokumnika indlela yokuzola okanye ukuthuthuzela ngaphambi kokuqhubeka. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwenza oku kwaye abaninzi bethu bafumana iindlela zethu kwixesha. Inceda abanye abantwana ukuba babe bodwa ixesha elifutshane; inceda abanye ukuba bahlale kwaye bathethe nomntu okanye baphinde baqondise iingcamango zabo kwenye indawo endaweni ethile.
- Ngezihlandlo ezingathathi hlangothi, xa umntwana wakho engacasuli, unokuthetha naye ngeendlela azakwazi ukulawula ngayo iimvakalelo zakhe ekukhanyeni ekhaya nasezikolweni. Unokufunda ukuba ukuxhalaba kunye nokukhungatheka kwakhe kwaye unokukwazi ukufikelela kuyo ngokunyamezela okanye ngokuthatha izinto ezinyathelo ezincinci. Unokusebenzisana naye kunye nootitshala bakhe malunga nezindlela ezilungileyo zokufunda ukuba azihlalise.
- Ngethuba lexesha owaziyo ukuphazamiseka kuya kwenzeka, ngamanye amaxesha ungayinqumla ngokuthetha naye ngaphambili kwaye uxoxe ngendlela angakuphepha ngayo ngeli xesha, kwaye ude unikeze umvuzo wokwenza njalo. Xa ekugqibeleni ufunda ukuzithobela, ukuvakalelwa kokuzithemba kuya kuba ngumvuzo wakho, kokubili kunye naye.
URobert Naseef, Ph.D., kunye noCindy Ariel, i-Ph.D., ngabaququzeleli beefowuni ezivela kwi-Spectrum: Abazali, oogogo noomkhulu, abazalwana babo, abantu abane-Autism, kunye nabaSebenzi Belana NgoBulumko Babo (2006). Zifumana kwiiNdawo ezingezinye.