UMarianne Ehlert weeNkcukacha eziKhuselekileyo usebenza kunye neentsapho zabantu kwi-autism umbala ukucwangcisa abantu abadala. Izinketho ezifumanekayo kubantu abakwisigxina se- autism ziyahluka ukusuka kummandla ukuya kummandla ngamnye kumntu ngamnye. Iimpawu ezivela ekuzimeleyo ngokupheleleyo kwiindawo zokuphila. Ukulinganisa oko kufuneke umntu othile, apho unokufumana khona, nendlela yokuxhaswa ngayo, ingaba inkqubo enzima.
U-Ehlert uphawula ukuba kubalulekile ukuqala ukucinga ngokuphila kwabantu abadala xa umntwana wakho ene-autism usemncinci. Ngokwengxenye, kuba abantwana abane-autism bavame ukufumana iimfuno ezizodwa kunye neenkqubo zokutshintshwa ezikolweni zabo , oko kuthetha ukuba inkqubo yezemfundo yomntwana inokwenziwa ukuxhasa izicwangciso zakho ngekamva. Kwakhona kuba inkqubo yokucinga, ukucwangcisa, kunye nokudala imeko efanelekileyo yokuphila kumntu kwi-autism i-spectrum ingathatha ixesha elide.
Inyathelo lokuqala: Cinga indlela efanelekileyo yokubeka umntwana wakho omdala nge-Autism
Bonke abazali, u-Ehlert uthi, bafuna ukuba abantwana babo "baphephe kwaye banwabe" njengabantu abadala. Kodwa wonke umzali unombono ohlukileyo wezinto "ezikhuselekileyo nezonwabileyo" ezinokubonakala ngathi. Loo mbono, uthi, kuxhomekeka kakhulu kumava nomzali kunye neengqondo njengoko kubonakala kumakhono omntwana kunye nezinto ezithandayo. Sekunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqale ukucinga ngombono wabo kwikamva lomntwana ngaphambi kokuba benze nantoni na.
Ingaphi umntwana wakho uya kukhula? Kwi sixeko? Kwifama? Yakhe? Ngeqela? Ekhaya nabazali? Ngokwenene, u-Ehlert uthi, kukho iindlela ezinhlanu eziphilayo ezikhoyo:
- Ekhaya kunye nosapho-Iiplati kunye neenkonzo ezingenayo kwaye zikhangele abahlali (qiniseka ukuba zihlawula iibhili, ukucoca, njl.) Ezi ziinkonzo zenkxaso yokuphila, kwaye zingaba ngasese okanye zixhaswa ngemali.
- Iprogram yunithi yezindlu / umntu ohlala naye-umntu uhlala kwindlu okanye isakhiwo sezindlu esesigqeba senkxaso esakhiweyo; Umnakekeli uyaqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu ulungile ebusuku, iiprogram zokuqhuba, njl njl.
- Iqela lasekhaya (ilungiselelo lokuhlalisana noluntu oluhlangeneyo) -nonophelo lomncedi uhlala kwindawo
- "Isitayela semvula," izixhobo ezinkulu (izicwangciso zeziko, iindawo zokuhlala eziphantsi kakhulu)
Inyathelo Elibini: Qinisekisa ukuba Ukubekwa Kwakho Okuhle Kukhona
Xa abazali (okanye abazali kunye nezingane zabo ezisakhulayo nge-autism) baye bafumanisa imeko efanelekileyo yokuphila, isinyathelo esilandelayo kukunyanzela ukuba ngaba ulungiselelo lukhona okanye ukuba intsapho iya kufuneka yenze imimiselo. Inani elimangalisayo labazali libandakanyeka okanye liqwalasele ukubandakanyeka ekudalweni kwendawo yokuhlala yomntwana nge autism. Abanye baxhasa inkxaso okanye bahlakulela iimeko zokuphila ezixhasa; abanye bacinga kunye nokudala izicwangciso zomsebenzi / zasekhaya kwiidolophu, izixeko kunye neendawo zasemaphandleni.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ulwazi malunga nezimo zabantu abadala abakwiimeko okanye kwiphondo lifumaneka kwimithombo yesithili yesikolo. Ukuba akunjalo, unokufuna ukujonga kwiSebe leZakhono zokuPhuhlisa, iSebe leNtlalontlalontle, okanye enye i-arhente efanele. Yenza umsebenzi wesikolo ukuba uqinisekise ukuba uphi na apho.
Inyathelo lesithathu: Ukuchonga iimfuno zakho zeemfuno kunye neZakhono zakho
Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukufumanisa izakhono zobomi bomntwana ukuba ufumanise ukuba zeziphi izibonelelo eziya kufuneka ukuze wenze imeko ephilileyo isebenzayo. Okubalulekileyo phakathi kwezakhono eziselula abantu abaya kufuna ukuzimela ngokuzimela zikwazi ukulawula iimali, ukuthenga, ukupheka, ukucoceka nokulawula ucoceko lomntu. Khawukhumbule, ke, ukuba bambalwa abantu abadala abaqhelekileyo balungiselele ngokupheleleyo ubomi babo. Ngaba unokuba ukhathazeka ukuba umntu oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala uhlala e-pizza aze athathe ukutya, okanye agqoke ijeans efanayo ngokuphindwe kabini ngaphambi kokuwahlamba? Ukuba akunjalo, mhlawumbi akufanele ukhathazeke kakhulu malunga nomntu oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala kunye ne-autism ukwenza okufanayo.
U-Ehlert uchaza oku kakuhle:
"Abazali banokuba nethemba eliphezulu kubafundi be-autistic kunabantwana abaqhelekileyo kuba bazive benembopheleleko yengane yomntwana." Kunzima ukuvumela abantwana be-autistic ukuba bangaphumeleli. Ngandlela-thile, kulula ukulawula ukungaphumeleli kwezingane eziqhelekileyo kuba abazali baziva beyingxenye Inkqubo yokufunda - kanti nabazali bahlala befuna ukukhusela abantwana babo nge-autism ekuhlulekeni. Kunzima kakhulu ukwazi indlela oya kuyo ukukhusela umntwana wakho omdala nge-autism. Ngamanye amaxesha ukungaphumeleli kunokususa ukuziphatha, okanye kunokuba kunzima ukubuyisela Ukungaphumeleli. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali abaselula bayayiqonda into efunwa ngumntwana. "
Isinyathelo sesine: Fumana i-Right Setting for Your Child
Ngokuxhomekeka apho uhlala khona, kukho ii-arhente ezahlukahlukeneyo ezilawula izilwanyana zokuhlala kubantu abadala abakhubazekileyo. Ukongeza kwii-arhente eziqhutyelwa ngurhulumente, ungaphinda ufuna ukufuna amaziko ohlala ozimeleyo ngurhulumente, kwingingqi okanye kwindawo. Unokufuna ukuqala uphando lwakho nesithili sakho sasekuhlaleni okanye i-agency yombuso. Ukongeza, kunjalo, mhlawumbi ufuna ukujonga kunye namaqela enkxaso yendawo ye-autism kunye neenkcukacha zokukhangela ezifana ne-AutismLink ukufumana uluhlu olubanzi lwezinketho.
Ukuba uhamba nge-arhente karhulumente, utsho uEhlert, cela umsebenzisi wezeta oza kunika uluhlu lweendawo zokujonga. Uthi: "Abazali kufuneka bahambe baphinde bajonge kwaye beyintoni na ngaphandle." Thatha ityelelo 'yegosa', unciphise ukhetho lwakho, uze uphendule ngokungalindelekanga. U-Ehlert uncoma ukuba uphando ngalunye ukhetho, ukhangela ngenyameko:
- Ukubuyiswa kwabasebenzi
- Naziphi na iingxelo zokusetyenziswa kakubi
- Umgangatho wabanonophelo ngabanye (ngokuchasene nokukhangisa okubonakalayo)
- Ukufumaneka kwinqanaba le-clock kwaye "ukuxhaswa ngokufanelekileyo" kwenkxaso
- Ubude beluhlu lokulinda
Emva kokuba unenkqutyana ezimbini ozithandayo, lixesha lokubandakanya umntwana wakho nge-autism kwinkqubo yokwenza izigqibo. U-Ehlert uthi amanqanaba aphezulu asebenzayo angeniswa ngaphambili, kuxhomekeke kwiimeko zakho.
Inyathelo lesithandathu: Funa inkxaso-mali
Ekuqaleni, uthi uEhlert, buza malunga neenketho zezimali . Ukuba imali ikhona, ngaba ufanelekile? Ukuba unayo ukhuseleko loluntu kunye ne-Medicare, kufuneka ufanele ukufumana nayiphi na inkxaso-mali. Enye inkxalabo, nangona kunjalo, nayiphi na imali kumntwana wakho. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, loo mali ifanele ibekwe kwiimfuno ezizodwa zokuzithemba.
Yinyani, u-Ehlert, ukuba ukufumanisa ukuba imeko efanelekileyo yezindlu ingathetha ukuhamba ulwandle olubomvu tape. Ukongeza, kuya kufuneka usebenze ngokulungiselela izidingo zabantu abadala. Ukuba awufumani oko ufunayo ngendlela yezindlu, ucebisa, qwaba usebenza kunye neqela labazali ukudala kunye / okanye ukuxhasa imali efanelekileyo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uye wazi indawo efanelekileyo, zibandakanye nabo. Yiba ngumdlali oyintloko. Yiya kwibhodi.
Ukufumana nokuxhaswa kwekhaya elifanelekileyo kumntwana omdala kunye ne-autism akulula, kwaye akunakwenziwa ngobusuku. Kodwa ngokucwangcisa ngokucopheleleyo, uphando, kunye nobuchule, abazali bafumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukufumana-okanye ukudala-ngokuqinisekileyo ukuxhasa, indawo ephilayo yokuhlala kubantwana babo abane-autism.