Yintoni esiyayiyazi nge-autism nangokomoya? Incwadi ethi Bill Billman, Autism kunye no-God Connection, ngokuyininzi iqoqo le-anecdotes evela kubazali abavakalelwa kukuba abantwana babo abane-autism banxibelelwano olukhethekileyo nehlabathi elingokomoya. Le ncwadi ifumene uvavanyo oluhle kakhulu - kunye nomdla omkhulu womzali. UMthetho uYilwayo wavuma ngokuvakalayo ukuphendula uchungechunge lwemibuzo, eminye ebangelwa yindoda kunye nabanye bathunyelwe kuye ngqo ngabafundi.
Njengelungu lombutho we-autism ngokwakhe (ufunyaniswa ukuba ne-Asperger Syndrome), uBill uletha umbono ongavamile kwingxoxo.
Umbuzo: Unokugqiba njani ukuba isiganeko esichaziweyo sivumelekile, ubuqhetseba okanye umphumo we-hallucination okanye enye ingxaki yempilo?
Impendulo: Ekuqondeni inyaniso yento echazwe ngayo, ndisebenzisa imiqathango emibini. Okokuqala, ngaba kukho intetho yenyaniso kumntu obikayo? Ngamanye amazwi, ahlambululi nam ukuba umntu obikayo uya kuba yingubo yoshiza ngokupheleleyo kwaye azukise amava e-autistic ngokuthi "iingelosi zikaThixo ezincinci" ngenxa yokuba engekho ubomi boqobo; kwaye ndicinga ukuba ingaba ngumdla mngeni omkhulu kumntu ngamnye kwibala kunye nabazali bakhe, abanonophelo kunye nootitshala. Oko akuthethi ukuba izipho ezingokomoya azikwazi ukubonakalisa, kodwa xa zenza phakathi kwezilingo zemihla ngemihla kunye nokusebenza kokufunda kunye nokuphila.
Kwaye, okwesibini, yintoni into eyenziwa ngumntu "efanelekileyo" kwiingqungquthela eziye zavela kum msebenzi wam, okanye zihambelana nophando lwabanye abalobi bokomoya?
Ukuba kwintsimi yengqondo yengqondo kwiminyaka engama-20 ubudala, ndiyazi ngokwaneleyo malunga nokusebenza kwangaphakathi kwesifo sengqondo ukubona "iiflegi ezibomvu" okanye iimpawu zokuxhamla kwinto endixelela yona; apho uphando lwalo lubandakanyeka khona, oku kwenzeke kakhulu kuncinci, iziganeko ezimbalwa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu banokuziva bekhululekile ukuba bayazi ukuba bahlanyela, kungekhona yedwa kumava, kwaye bafumene umntu oqondayo.
Umbuzo: Ngaba kukho uphando olwaluxhasa ngcamango yokuba abantu abangenazo izakhono zetetho bangabandakanywa ngakumbi kwezinye iintlobo zengeniso?
Impendulo: Nguyedwa uphando lwam, kodwa, kum, lenza ingqiqo. Ingqiqo yonke "uxoxiswano lukaThixo" lisekho kakhulu, kwaye, njengoko abafundi bakho beyazi kakuhle, abantu abanokukhubazeka okuphuhliswayo kubandakanya i-autism, baye baphazamiseka ngokwembali, bahlaziywa, bahlaziywa kwaye baphathwe kakubi. Njengenkcubeko yaseNtshona, asikho "apha" ngokubhekiselele kwembono yokuba abantu abanjalo baxabisa "ububomi" babo, kwaye banokubamba ubunzulu obusondeleyo, ubulumko kunye nobuchule; nangona inkcubeko yaseNamerica ibhalisa kule ngcamango.
Kwimi, ekhoyo ngokuthula, njengenani lezithuthi, ayikho into eyahlukileyo kunomntu ophakamileyo wenkolo owenza isifungo soxolo-kuba kuya kuba yintoni? Ngako-ke kukho umgangatho ophindwe kabini kubani kunye nento esiyixabisa ngayo: abantu abacamngayo, bathandaza, basebenzise i-yoga bafuna ukufikelela kwinqanawa elifanayo lokomoya ukuba ezinye izixhobo zifumaneke ngokwemvelo ngokuhlala ngokuthula, zijolise ekuqhubekeni okuphindaphindiweyo okanye ukubizwa ngokuqhubekayo (i-mantra) , kwaye uqonda zonke izinto ezibonwayo ezingabonakaliyo.
Kwaye kukho uphando lwezenzululwazi ukuxhasa le nto, njengoko ndibhalela kwi-Autism kunye no-God Connection.
Ukongezelela, siyazi ukuba iimvakalelo ezininzi zengqondo ziba nzima kwaye zibuhlungu kakhulu ukunyamezela; kodwa le nto ingakhokhelela kwiinkcukacha ezininzi zokuqonda ngendlela indlela umntu ongenalumfama ephuculwe ngayo, ephosakeleyo. Ubuchule bokomoya bubhekiselele kwindlela esifumana ngayo ulwazi kwizinga eliphezulu eliqhelekileyo, inzululatory ehambelana nomqondo wethu; akuzona zonke igalelo ezithethayo. Izihlandlo ezininzi zokunxibelelana zidinga ukudibanisa ezinye, njengendoda ye-autistic edlala ngeloli yebhola eluhlaza; Abanye bacinga ukuba kungenxa yezinto ezikhohlakeleyo-ukuba wayeyi-autistic, wayilindela, kwaye uyisimungulu.
Kodwa ngokucacisa i-hieroglyphics yoqhagamshelwano, kwaye ndithatha ukuba ingqondo yendoda leyo, ndafumanisa ukuba wayesondelene kakhulu noyise oshonile kwaye wayesebenzisa ixesha elininzi elonwabileyo ehamba noyise eloli lakhe-iloli elifana nomdlalo wokudlala. Njengoko le ndoda yayingenazo ezinye izikhumbuzo ezibonakalayo zikayise (njengezithombe okanye i-mementoes yomntu), ngokucacileyo itekisi yokudlala yayiyiyona nto eyenza ingqondo ibonakale-iifilimu zale mihlali evuyayo.
Umbuzo: Ngaba ucinga ukuba kukho naziphi na iingcamango "ezinokuthathwa," nokuba ngaba unyango okanye ukuqonda okungcono, okungavela kuphando lwakho?Impendulo: Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye okokuqala kwaye yintloko kukuba: "yinto engqondweni." Ndiye ndandithandana nabantu abaninzi abaneminyaka engaphezu kweyodwa kwiminyaka edlulayo, abangaphandle, abangenakuthembeka, abangabonakaliyo, kwaye babhalwe "Nangona kunjalo, kwakhona, kukho imilinganiselo ephindwe kabini kwinto esivame ukuzenzekela ngayo ingqiqo yabantu ababonisa ngezindlela ezifanayo, njengalezo ezineCerebral Palsy, i-ALS okanye isifo sikaLou Gehrig, i-Parkinson, i-Tourette, i-Hodgkin, kunye njalo njalo.
Abanye abahlobo bam basebenzise ezinye iindlela zokuthetha, baze batyhila ingqiqo egcweleyo imfesane kunye nombono ongaphezu kwezinto ezinokuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo ngenxa yokubandezeleka (ubukho abanye baxolelanise nabo). Umngeni wethu njengabazali, abanonophelo, kunye nootitshala kufuneka baqhekeze iinkolelo kunye namaqhinga ukuze bahlasele izikhala ekuqondeni. Sinezinto ezininzi esinokufunda kuzo.
Ingqungquthela yesibini, eyakhayo kwisiseko esisisiseko sokuthi "yinto engqondweni", iimanyathelo ezintathu (okanye "imimangaliso njengoko ndibhekisela kubo kwi-Autism kunye no-God Connection) ukuba yenze into enokubangela ukuguquka kwenguqu. Amanyathelo amathathu athetha ityala ngenhlonipho kunye nentlonipho, kwaye asincede sibe ngabameli beenguqu kwiintsebenziswano zethu kunye nomntu ozimelayo kunye nabanye abazungezile.
Umbuzo: Ngaba ucinga ukuba enye inomdla kwincwadi yakho kunye neengcamango zakho zivela kwiimfuno zabazali ukufumana iitalente ezikhethekileyo kumntwana obonakala ngathi unamakhono akhethekileyo?
Impendulo: Masiqonde ukuba abazali bomntu abane-autism banakho ubomi obunzima kakhulu. Akukho mntu undiqhagamshelane naye ucele nantoni na ngaphandle kwamathuba okuva, ngoko akukho nzuzo yokuzibandakanya. Kwaye andiyihlolisise nayiphi na into engaziwa kakuhle kwiintsapho ezininzi; Ndiza nje ndikhanyisa, ndilethe imbonakalo ye-autism ekukhanyeni "ngaphambili." Ngoko andizange "ndenze" le nto yonke "i-autism kunye nokuxhamla kukaThixo" ukunyakaza, bekusekhona kakade, kubonakala ngokukhawuleza kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Bonke abantwana banqabileyo kwaye, njengabantu, sonke sibasikelelwe ngezipho kunye neetalente kungakhathaliseki ukuba singobani.
Umbuzo: Ngaba kukho na uphando olwenzileyo olubonisa ukuba abantu abane-autistic banako ukufumana amava okomoya okanye ama-paranormal kunezinye abantu?Impendulo: Ndiyakholwa ukuba sonke sinamandla okuthintela isipho sethu esingokomoya esinokusikelela ngayo sonke isintu; kwaye into efanelekileyo malunga nokuba ngumntu yinto eya kubonakala ngokuhlukileyo kuwo wonke umntu, kuba sonke sinabantu abodwa.
Inkathazo yabantu abaninzi abanomdla "bavinjiwe" ekubeni baqonde le ngongoma yabo ngokwabo kuba baxininiswe kwiingxaki zemihla ngemihla; okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, bazincama, banomdla, balambile amandla, banomdla kuphela ngokuthokoza iminqweno yabo. Abantu abachitha ixesha bebucala beqwalasela nokubuyiselwa kwendalo; u mbulelo; ukuthandaza okanye ukucamngca; ukwenza izinto ezinokuzikhukhumeza, ukungabi nantoni kwaye rhoqo imihla ngemihla, kwindlela endingazijonga ngayo, ukucinga ngokubaluleka kwabo ngokomoya-kwaye le ngcamango ixhaswa ngabanye abalobi bokomoya kunye nabafundisi bezenkolo.
Ndikholelwa ukuba abantu abazalelwe kwimpilo enzima kakhulu, njengaleyo ene-autism, baxelwe ukuba benze njalo, kwaye abaxhomekanga kweli hlabathi ukuba bazinyame ngaphandle kokukhuselwa okanye ukuhlawulwa. Ndineeninzi zabazali ndidibanise ukuba ndibonise ukuba bangabantu abangcono kunokuba bebebekhona-ukuba bangabakho ngokomoya apho bebengekabi ngaphambili-ngenxa yokuba ngumzali umntwana ono-autism.
Abanye abazali abaninzi baye babika ukuba abantwana babo babatshele ukuba bakhethwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa.
Umhlobo wam uMichael uyayibonisa ngokugqithiseleyo kwi-Autism kunye no-God Connection xa exoxa ngokuba "umphefumlo opheleleyo emzimbeni ophukileyo" aphikisanayo nento echaziweyo; imbuyekezo ayifumana ngayo ukufikelela ngqo kuThixo kunye nezimpendulo ezithe ngqo kumbuzo wakhe ongenanto ukuze ufumane ingqiqo yehlabathi elikhuselekileyo kunye nendawo yakhe kuyo.
UMichael uthi, ngokuqhelekileyo, kulabo "imiphefumlo ephukileyo emzimbeni wonke" iimpendulo ezinjalo zikwaziswa kwabanye kuphela xa zidlulayo.
Umbuzo: Waza njani ukuchaza "i-autism kunye noThixo?"
Impendulo: Ndihlala ndibanomdla kwiimeko kunye neemeko ezichasayo inkcazelo engqiqweni okanye ingcamango yesayensi-ndihlala ndijonge ngcamango yokuba abantu abanakho zonke iimpendulo. Kwaye ndinelungelo lokukhula kwintsapho apho izinto ezinokuthi zixoxwe ngokucacileyo kwaye ziyamangaliswa, zingagxothwa njengezinto ezingenakwenzeka.
Ndaqala ukuqaphela "uxhulumaniso lukaThixo" kum umsebenzi wam nje njengomcebisi we-autism malunga neyesithandathu okanye iminyaka eyisixhenxe edlulileyo. Ngeli xesha, ndasebenza kwiinqanaba eziphantsi kwamaphandleni ase-Pennsylvania ukucebisa amaqela amaninzi ahlukeneyo awaziwayo. Nangona kunjalo, ndaqala ukugcina-kwaye ndafunda ngendlela-yokomelela indlela yokomoya yokuba ngabantu abane-autism endibacebisana nabo. Uninzi lweemixholo lwaqala ukuvela njengento eqhelekileyo (ukukwazi oko kwakuza kwenzeka ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke), ukucatshulwa (ukutshintshana, okanye ukungena, iingcamango kunye nemifanekiso kunye nolunye), ukunxibelelaniswa kwezilwanyana (ukuthungatha ngokukhawuleza nokutolika "izilwane ezivela ekhaya" okanye izilwanyana ezivuthayo), ukudibanisana nomntu othandekayo kuMoya, ngokuqhelekileyo ugogo nomkhulu (ukugxininisa ngokugqithiseleyo kwiifoto zomntu oshonile kunye nolwazi olunzulu nolwazi olungaziwa ngobomi babo), iintlobo zeemiphefumlo eziphilileyo ("izigwili" , ezizimeleyo, ezichazwe njengeengelosi ngabanye.
Ndandiqonda ukuba, ngenxa yezo zinto ezidlulileyo, ezi zinto zaziqhelekileyo-ezendalo, ezingekho ngokwemvelo.
Njengoko ndafunda okungakumbi malunga nale mimandla, ndacinga, "Ndoda yam, ukuba ndibona oku kwenzeka kwiindawo ezimbini zasemaphandleni yasePennsylvania, kwenzekani kulo lonke ilizwe ?!" Ngoko ndibeka "Uzive" ngendlela yokuthunyelwa kwe-intanethi kunye neebhodi zamyalezo, kwaye wayevuyiswa gqitha ukuba ndinokusola ukuqinisekiswa ngamaninzi kunye neeninzi zabazali kunye nabaqeqeshi abaqala ukundixelela ngamava abo. Abantu abangamakhulu amabini eekhilomitha-ababengakaze badibana-bonke babandixelela ukuhluka kweendikimba ezifanayo.
Le ngxelo yakha isiseko sophando lwam ekuquluneni i-Autism kunye no-God Connection, kodwa ndinokukuxelela ukuba yinto nje kuphela kwinqonga le-iceberg enkulu kakhulu.
Ngenxa yento yonke endiyifundayo, ndaphinda ndiphosakele ukuba ndiguqule ngokomoya. Inqobo yam, isihloko sokusebenza sencwadi kwakuyi-Autism kunye neConnirvoyant Connection, kodwa kungekudala ndaqonda ukuba yayihloniphekile kunoko; ukuba imindeni enothando ndadibana nayo yayinomdla wokomoya okanye unqulo, kwaye ndazi ukuba akukho mxholo ngaphandle kwe-Autism kunye no-God Connection.
Umbuzo: Yintoni ocebisa abantu ukuba "yenze" ngale ngcaciso xa uqinisekisile yona?Impendulo : Okokuqala, qondani ukuba oku akusebenzi kubo bonke abantu abane-autism ngaphezu kokuba kusebenza kubo bonke abantu abanomdla. Okwesibini, makhe sivume ukuba ngokwenene abantu baninzi, kwaye kukho uluntu lwabantu ababelana ngamava-awunabo.
Okwesithathu, vumela ukuba kuqinisekiswe injongo yakho-enoba ungumntu ozimelayo, umzali, okanye uchwepheshe-njengombambisene-nziswano kunye nolwalamano, ukukhulisa abanye ukuba babonise intlonipho, bahlonele kwaye bahloniphe abanye ngaphandle kwemida ezifana nokubandlululwa kunye nokulawula okusemthethweni. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, xhasa umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba ubomi bakhe abukho ngaphandle kwenjongo; ukuba uyathandwa, kwaye isipho sakhe sivela kuMmandla oPhakamileyo-kungekhona into yokwesaba; kwaye sonke sinomsebenzi wokuqesha izipho zethu kunye neetalenta ukuze sibe nenkonzo enhle nakakhulu kwabanye.
Umbuzo: Ziziphi iiprojekthi zakho ezizayo, kwaye abantu banokuqhagamshelana njani nabo?
Impendulo: Ndikho kwinkqubo yokuququzelela i-autism yokubambisana ngokuzimela, apha ePennsylvania. Sisekusekwe ukususela ngo-Matshi 2006 kunye nabameli kwibala elikuloo ndawo; ngoku siza kubambisana ukuze sibambisane nekharityhulam yokuqeqesha i-autism kubaqeshwa bezempilo yengqondo abasondeza abantwana kunye nentsha nge-autism.
Unakho ukuphinda uhlaziywe kuzwelonke. Siphinde sicwangcise inkomfa yokuqala ye-autism eyenzelwe kuphela-okanye idibene kunye nabantu abane-autism kumzamo wokufundisa abanye "ngaphakathi ngaphakathi."
Uxwebhu olusekelwe kwi-Autism kunye no-God Connection uphuhliso.
Ndathintana neenyanga ezininzi ngaphambi kokuba le ncwadi ipapashwe ngumenzi wefilimu omncinci, uTeo Zagar, owenza ifilimu ebizwa ngokuba yiMental Games, ibali lothando malunga nodokotela ophethwe yisifo esixhatshazayo nesigxina esizifunayo ngokomoya ukuba siphile ixesha elide kunokuba enjongo. Oku kuya kuthatha iminyaka embalwa yokucwangcisa, ukulungiselela, kunye nokuveliswa kwesosiza.
Kwaye ndiqulunqa incwadi yokulandelelana kwi-Autism kunye no-God Connection ebonisa ngakumbi inkcazelo ye-iceberg; Ndicwangcise ukuphindaphinda iingcamango kwincwadi yokuqala, kodwa ngcaza. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ezinye i-autistics zingakwazi ukunxibelelana nezilwanyana, ziphi na izilwanyana ezizithethayo kwaye zinokuthintela njani thina sonke.
Abafundi bakho bahlala bemkelekile ukudibana nam ngewebhusayithi yam. Ndiyabonga ngethuba lokuxoxa nomsebenzi wam kunye nophando!