Kubantu abaninzi abane-autism, ihlabathi liyindawo yamashishini. Izikolo, umsebenzi, iindawo zokudlala, iindawo zentlalo kunye neenkcubeko, nokuba imikhosi yokuzalwa ilayishwa ngamathuba okudlulelwa ngokwemvakalelo , ukuxhatshazwa, ukukhungatheka, ukudideka, okanye ukungahambi kakuhle. Ngomlinganiselo omncinci wokuxabana kunye nemali, unako ukuguqula ikhaya lomntwana kwiindawo ezingcwele ze-autism apho unokugqiba.
Kutheni Imisebenzi Yesiqhelo ingaba nzima
Abantu abaninzi kwi-autism i-spectism bayabakhathalela ngokungaqhelekanga naluphi uhlobo "lokuhlaselwa" oluthabathekileyo-oluvela kwiisandi eziphakamileyo ukuya kwizibane ezikhanyayo kunye nezihlwele. Kananjalo banokuba baninzi ngaphezu koontanga abathile ukuba bafumane utshintsho kwixesha eliqhelekileyo, ukutya okutsha, abantu abatsha, kunye nezicwangciso ezintsha zokuba ziphazamise okanye ziphazamise. Nokuba uhambo oluya kwivenkile lungaba nzima kakhulu.
Iithintelo kwi-Autism-Home Friendly
Ngenxa yobunzima bemihla ngemihla kumntu kwi-autism spectrum, kuyacaca ukuba ikhaya kufuneka libe, ubuncinane ixesha elithile, indawo engcwele. Ngelishwa, kunjalo, akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa imiba emi endleleni:
- Abantakwabo kunye nabazali banayo imfuno kwaye banokukhetha ukumema abangani, ukwenza ingxolo, khetha ukutya okutsha, okanye mhlawumbi utshintshe kwaye uphicothe ubomi bendlu.
- Uninzi lwezonyango ezinconywayo kubantwana abane-autism basekelwe kwikhaya, oku kuthetha ukuba emva kweeyure zesikolo (kunye nezonyango ezisekelwe esikolweni), abantwana bangabuyela ekhaya ukuya kwiiyure ezongezelelweyo zonyango olunikezwa ngabazali kunye / okanye oogqirha bezithuthi.
- Ubomi bentsapho akusoloko buqikelelwa okanye buzolile. Iziganeko zeemeko kunye neziganeko ezitshintsha ubomi zihlala zithetha ubuncinane ixesha elifutshane lenkxwaleko. Umntakwabo wakalimaza, ugogo nomkhulu ugula-kwaye izinto kufuneka zitshintshe.
Ukwenza Ikhaya Lakho Lika-Autism-Mhlobo
Ekubeni ukunyaniseka ukuba akukho ikhaya langempela liza kuba yi-oasis ehlazileyo kwihlabathi lembambano, yintoni iintsapho ezinokuyenza ukuze zikhuthaze amava akhululekile kwilungu losapho nge-autism?
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zehlabathi zangempela:
- Nika ishedyuli ecacileyo ukuba wena kunye nelungu lakho losapho lingalindela ukulandela, ubuncinane ubuninzi bexesha. Oku kungase kube lula njengokuthi "Woza ekhaya, utshintshe iimpahla, ubukele iTV ngeyure enye, udle isidlo, uhlambe, wenze umsebenzi wesikolo, ulale." Faka ishedyuli kwifom ebonakalayo, kwaye qiniseka ukuba wonke umntu uyayiqonda into ekulindelekileyo. Olu hlobo lweshedyuli ngokuqhelekileyo lufanelekile kubantwana bakowenu njengabaselula kwi-autism spectrum.
- Nika umntwana wakho indawo kunye nexesha lokuphumla yedwa. Kubantu abaninzi (kunye nangaphandle!) Autism, ixesha lokuphuka kunye nexesha elilodwa kubaluleke kakhulu.
- Gcina ukutya okukhethiweyo endlwini, ukuze ilungu lakho lentsapho lilindele ukulitya ubuncinane into enokuyithandayo. Oko akuthethi ukuba "ungadli nantoni na entsha," kodwa uthetha ukuba ilungu lakho lentsapho elithembekileyo lingalindela ukutya into ekulindelekileyo, eyakhayo kunye neyokuthuthuzelayo.
- Khangela kwaye ususe iphunga, izandi, kunye nezibane ezixhalabisa ngokwenene. Ewe, kufuneka usebenzise izinto zokucoca-kodwa unako ukufumana ezinye izinto ezivumba. Ewe, abanye abantwana bakho banokuphulaphula umculo-kodwa banako ukusebenzisa i-headphones. Ewe, udinga ukukhanya kwimizi yakho-kodwa izibane ze-fluorescent ezingenakukhathazeka ngokwenene kumntu onengxaki.
- Nciphisa ekwenzeni iindawo zasendlini kwizinto ezincedisayo ngokwenene, eziyimfuneko, kwaye ezinomdla kumntwana wakho. Akukho mntwana omele abuyele kwimeko yesoyiki, eyazi ukuba iiyure zonyango ezingathandeki zigcinwe! Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba abazali nabagqirha bakwazi ukubonelela ngeendlela ezisetyenziswayo zokudlala okanye ukuziphucula ukuva okanye imisebenzi yokwelapha ekhaya. Ezi ntlobo zonyango zinokumnandi kumntwana-kwaye uncedise ekwakheni kunokuba unxulumane noxinzelelo lwentsapho.
- Gcina isimo sezulu ngaphandle kwimiqondiso yoxinzelelo kwilungu lakho losapho. Basenokungakwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo oko kukukhathazayo, ngoko ke unokufuna ukwenza umcuphi omncinci ukuze uqikelele ukuba, umzekelo, iphunga lokupheka iklabishi libaqhuba iinqompe, okanye umnxeba wabo omncinci osasazana uyenza ba hlanya. Emva kokungena kwiingxaki, unokwenza izicombululo ezilula (weqa iklabishi, faka ifowuni kwisimungulu).