Enye yeembonakaliso ze- autism yinto ekhethekileyo yinto eqhelekileyo . Abantu abaninzi kwimibutho banokuphila ngokungaqhelekanga. Zidla ukutya okufanayo ngexesha elifanayo ngalunye suku, zilala ngexesha elifanayo ubusuku bonke, zambatha iimpahla ezifanayo zasehlobo okanye ebusika, kwaye zenza inxaxheba kwimisebenzi efanayo, ngokufanayo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Iindlela zokunciphisa ukuxhalabisa, ezinokuba yingxaki ebalulekileyo kubantu abaninzi kwibala.
Nangona akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuphila ngendlela ehlelekile kwaye eqikelelweyo, kunokuba nzima ukuyigcina nangona into encinci ihamba ngokukhawuleza. Yintoni eyenzekayo xa isiqriqho siphula? Ibhasi sele ifike? I-shoelace yakho ihluma? Nangona le "ncipheko" encinci ingase ibe yimizila yeendlela eziya kumntu onobuchopho, banokuvakalelwa ngumntu ophethe i-autism.
Kwakhona kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuhlala nomntwana (okanye umntu omdala) ongekho ngokupheleleyo malunga neendlela zakhe kunye nezinto ezikhethiweyo. Inyani kukuba i-life-and neurotypical need for different varieties - ihambe endleleni. Enoba siya kwiimpikiswano zobomi njengemitshato kunye nemingcwabo, ukuhlangabezana neemeko eziphambili zemozulu, okanye ukuzonwabisa kwiiholide ezingaphandle kweedolophu, sihlala sifuneka ukugoba, ukucoca, kunye nokuhlala ukuze sihambelane nale meko.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amagumbi okufundela kunye neenkqubo zezingane kunye nabantu abadala abane-autism bahlelwe ukwenza ubomi buqulatheke kwaye buqulunqwe ngendlela enokwenzeka.
Iishedyuli ezibonakalayo zithunyelwa kwaye zilandelwa kumzuzu. Ukulindela kudibene, kwaye amava omculo ayagcinwa ubuncinci. Kwakunjalo nasemakhaya amaninzi, aququzelelwe ukuqinisekisa ukuvumelana. Le yindlela enhle yokugcina iimvakalelo kwi-keel-kodwa ke, xa "inhlekelele" ihlaselwa (njengokuba yenza njalo ngokusuka kwimeko yonke ukususela ekuxothweni kwangaphambili kwimeko yomkhuhlane), abantu abane-autism zinemithombo embalwa yokulawula iimvakalelo zabo okanye iimfuno zeso simo esitsha.
Ngenxa yoko, ootitshala nabazali basoloko bemangaliswa ukubona ukuhlala bezolile, umntwana osisiseko ophuma kumntu oqhekezayo ukuxhaphaza ngokokubonakala ngathi utshintsho oluncinci.
Iingcebiso Zokunceda Abantwana Nge-Autism Yakha Ukuzinza Nokuzinza
Ngenxa yokuba ukulungelelanisa nokuzinza kubaluleke kakhulu kubomi obugcweleyo (okanye nakubomi obungaphandle kwendawo yokuhlala), kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa nokuzisebenzisa ezo zakhono-nangona ukwenza oko kunzima okanye kungakhathazeki. Ngaloo nto engqondweni, zilapha ezinye iingcebiso zokwakha ukuguquguquka nokuqina ngaphandle kokwenza umonakalo owenzela wena okanye umthandane wakho nge autism.
- Sebenza kwizakhono eziza kukunceda uhlale uxolo kwaye uxhaswe ebusweni bexhala lokuxhamla okanye ukuphazamiseka. Inyaniso kukuba abantu abaninzi abane-autism bakhetha ukwenza izinto ngendlela yabo-kwaye, xa bejamelene nesidingo sokuguquguquka, banokuthukuthela. Ukuba udibana kunye nabo, le meko iya kukhula ngokugqithiseleyo ngokupheleleyo kumacala omabini - kwaye mhlawumbi iphela ngokubuyela kwixesha eliqhelekileyo. Enoba ucinga ukucamngca, ukuphefumula ngokuchukumisayo, okanye ukuthatha indlela elula ukuyithatha, kuya kuwe ukugcina umonde wakho nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo.
- Ziqhelanise ukuguquguquka kwiindawo ezizimeleyo okanye ezamkelekileyo. Njengoko ungeke ukhuthaze umntwana ukuba asebenze ngebhayisekile yokuqala phakathi kwesitalato esityebileyo, akufanele usebenzise ukuguquguquka nokuqina phakathi kwendawo yokuthengisa. Ekhaya, okanye ikhaya lomhlobo oqondayo, yindawo enhle yokuqalisa. Ehlabathini, uya kubelana nezigwebo zabanye abangenako ukuqonda okukwenzileyo okanye kutheni unokwenza.
- Umzekelo kwaye usebenzise iimpendulo ezifanelekileyo ukudideka okanye uxhalabe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uyazi ukuba wonke umntu ubhekene nokudumala kwaye kufuneka aguqule ngokwenene-kodwa umntwana wakho nge autism ayengazi. Kunceda ukubonakalisa ukudumala okwenene okanye okufanayo kunye nezimpendulo ezifanelekileyo. Umzekelo - "Hayi, hayi! Ndikho ngaphandle kokutya okuthandayo! Ndiyadumala! Ndiya kukwenza ntoni? Hm. Mhlawumbi ndiza kudla isidlo sesidlo sakusihlwa esikhundleni sam. Kuya kuba kuhle. Kamva, ndiza kufumana ukutya okunye kwivenkile. " [Inqaku: amabali asekuhlaleni anganceda ukulungiselela abantwana abane-autism kwiimeko ezinzima.]
- Qala ngokukhawuleza ngokubonelela ngeendlela ezicacileyo, ezinokusetyenziswa ngokulula xa kufuneka ukulungelelaniswa. Ukuqulunqwa kwengqondo kubunzima kuwo wonke umntu. Xa usebenza ngokuguquguquka, ngoko ke, kunceda ukuqala ngeenketho ezithile ozikhethayo. Umzekelo: "Ndiyaxolisa ukuba asinayo izinja ezishushu ozilindele ukuba udle.
- Khetha izicwangciso ezincinci, eziphantsi kweengozi ukuzenza uguquguquko. Izinguqu ezinkulu zinzima kakhulu kuthi sonke. Ngoko ukhethe iziganeko zokuziqhelanisa ezinobungozi obuphantsi kokuba wena kunye nomntwana wakho nge-autism (ukhetha isidlo esitsha sokutya esidlweni sakusihlwa, ugqoke i-shirt ehlukile, njl.). Qinisekisa ukuba unayo ixesha elaneleyo namandla ukuze uhambe kunye nenkqubo kunye - kwaye, njengokuba kwenzeka ngezinye ixesha, ukusilela kwaye uzame kwakhona.
- Ukufumana abanye ukuxhasa ukuguquguquka nokuqina. Ehlabathini lenene, umzali akahlali esekelwe ukuxhasa kwaye akhuthaze ukuguquguquka nokuqina - kunye nabanye bahlala behlanganiswe kumxube. Njengokuba kunokwenzeka, zibandakanya iqabane lakho, abantwana bomntakwabo , oogqirha, kunye nabanye kwiimeko ezichanekileyo okanye ezixutywayo ezivela kwisiqhelo esivamile. Yintoni abayifunayo okanye abayidingayo? Unokwenziwa njani izigqibo ezithatha ingqalelo kwabanye abantu?
- Lungiselela ukhetho xa ufuna. Ngaphandle kokulungiselela kunye nokuziqhelanisa, utshintsho olungalindelekanga lunokukhuphaza okusemandleni ethu. Yilungiselele loo nto nanini na unako. Umzekelo, unokukholelwa ukuba umntwana wakho ogunyazisiweyo ulungele ukuzama ivenkile entsha okanye ukulala emva kancinci - kodwa izinto ezivela ekukhatyeleni ukuya kwi-sensory overload kuya kwi-grouchiness zingena endleleni. Xa oko kwenzeka (kwaye kuya kuba), yenza isicwangciso B sifike njengokuba "siya kudla siphume!"