I-Sexual Oral in the Age of "Virginity Technical"
Ngethuba ndithetha neqela labantu abaselula nje, ndaliva igama elitsha kum. Abaninzi bathetha ngokuba "ngabahlobo ngeenzuzo". Ukuba nguyise ongenamahloni entombi ezintathu ezishumi elivisayo, kwafuneka ndibuze ukuba oko kwakuthetha ntoni. Emva koko ndatshwenyeka ukuba ndifumanise ukuba abaninzi abaselula abaneminyaka eli-14 ukuya kwe-18 ubudala bahlakulela olu hlobo olutsha lolwabelana ngesondo kuphela.
Namhlanje, amaninzi amantombazana kunye namantombazana "ukuxubusha" ngesondo abazicingeli ukuba baqabane okanye balamano obusondeleyo. Ngaphezu koko, bavame ukucinga ngesondo ngomlomo ngandlela-thile "ngokuvunyelweneyo" ngobudlelwane obungasondeli-kakhulu, ngokokuba abanye baqhubeka bezicingela "njengezentombi" emva kokuthatha isondo ngomlomo.
Uphando olutshanje olushicilelwe kwiNcwadi ye-Psychology ye-Pediatric Psychology luhlolisise iqela labafundi aba-10 malunga neengcamango zabo kunye nembono ngesondo. Inyaniso yokuba abatsha abakwi-10 kwibanga babesebenza ngokulala ngokwesondo. Okumangalisa ukuba uphando olufunyenwe lulutsha lwaba nesondo ngomlomo kaninzi kunokuba ulalane kunye kunye namanye amaqabane amaninzi. Uninzi oluphazamisayo kukuba uninzi lwala ma-adolescentshengululo luthi aluzange lusetyenzise iikhondom ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo .
Izinto ezichaphazela ukuziphatha ngokwesondo
Uxinzelelo lwontanga luyimpembelelo enamandla ebomini bentsholongwane. Kodwa oko kuyinto enye kwisigqibo sesigqirha sokuthatha into yokuziphatha ngokwesondo.
Izizathu ziquka:
- Intsha ifuna ukuthandwa phakathi koontanga. Iintsholongwane zikholelwa ukuba xa zilalana ngesondo, ngomlomo okanye ngesondo ziya kuthathwa njengeziwayo. Uphando lubonisa okuphambene. Ngelixa zibhekwa njenge "zidumile" abo bantu abatsha ababandakanyekayo kwisondo esingakhuselekanga abayithandi kakhulu phakathi kwabo ontanga.
- Iintsholongwane zivame ukukholelwa ngesondo ngomlomo yindlela ekhuselekileyo yokulala, kokubili kokukhulelwa kunye nezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo. Iingxelo zibonakalisa ngenye indlela. Izigidi zentsholongwane zitsholongwane nge-STD ezifana ne- chlamydia , i- gonorrhea , i- HIV , kunye ne- herpes ngamnye ngonyaka kunye nesondo ngomlomo yindlela abachaphazeleka ngayo abaselula.
Ziziphi izingozi zoLwaphulo lomlomo?
Uqhagamshelwano lwezesondo nge-Oral-Penile
Umngcipheko wemvelo: Ukwenza isondo ngomlomo okanye "ukuphazamisa umsebenzi" kuthatha umngcipheko wokudlulisela umlingane kumlingane owamkelekileyo kuba u-HIV ngaphambi kokuba u-ejaculate ("pre-cum") umbane okanye i-seed (cum) ingena emlonyeni. Naziphi na izilonda ezivulekileyo, izilonda ezibandayo, njl njl njll indlela apho igciwane okanye ibhaktheriya zingena kwigazi kunye nokuthelela. Kwimlingani yokufakela, kukho umngcipheko weengxaki zokusuleleka ngenxa yokuba igazi elijongene negalelo eliphuma kumlingani okanye isifo esivulekileyo singathintana ne-scratch, cut cut or worment on the penis.
Umngcipheko ogciniweyo: Nangona ubuncipheko bunexesha elincinci kunabesilisa okanye besini, isandulela-ngculazi isatshintshelwe kumaqabane omlomo ngokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo ("uphuthumise imisebenzi"), kwimeko apho amaqabane angenayo ayengenayo i-ejaculate (cum).
Ukuqhagamshelana ngokocwangco ngomlomo
Umngcipheko wezobugcisa - Ukwenza isondo ngomlomo kwintombazana inomngcipheko weengxaki zokudlulisela i-HIV kumlingani ofaka isandla (umntu ohlawulayo okanye osondeza indawo yangasese) ngenxa yokuba isisu esiswini kunye negazi singena emlonyeni.
(Oku kuquka, kodwa akuphelelanga, igazi lokuya esikhathini). Ngokufanayo, kukho umngcipheko weengxaki zokudluliselwa nge-HIV ngexesha lesondo lomlomo kumlingane owamkelayo (umntu ophethe isisu okanye eselisayo) xa igazi elisulelekileyo lisuka kumlonda womlomo okanye i-genum yegazi idibana ne-vulvar okanye izicucu zesisu okanye izilonda.
Umngcipheko ogciniweyo - Umngcipheko wokutshatshulwa nge-HIV ngexesha lesondo lomlomo liphantsi xa kuthelekiswa ngokwesini kunye nesondo . Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko zokutshintshwa kwe-HIV kunye nee-STD ezibangelwa isondo ngomlomo.
Iingcebiso Kubaselula
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo lubeka umngcipheko wosuleleko lwe-HIV kunye nezinye izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo .
- Khumbula ukuba i-HIV kunye nezinye ii-STD zihlala ngonaphakade, oku kuthetha ukuba abanako ukuphiliswa.
- Nangona ubonakala ngathi uyathandwa kakhulu, ukuba nesondo somlomo olungakhuselekanga awukuthandi kakhulu phakathi koontanga bakho. Enyanisweni, uphando lubonisa ukuba abantu abanjengawe kwaye bayakuhlonipha xa ungabonanga ngesondo ngomlomo.
- Ngethuba lokulala ngesondo, intombazana nentombazana zisengozini yesifo.
- Ukufumana idumela lokuba "utywala", "utywala", okanye "lula" uya kuhlala nawe emva kokuba isikolo esiphakeme siphelile.
- Ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha nomzali ngesondo somlomo, kuthetha nomcebisi wakho wesikolo, utitshala oyithandayo okanye ugqirha wakho wosapho.
Iingcebiso kubazali kunye nabacebisi
- Ukugxininisa ubungozi bokubelana ngesondo ngomlomo kubafana kunye namantombazana.
- Benze baqaphele ukuba ukuthandwa akuthethi ukuba bathandwa kakhulu.
- Ukuxininisa ukuba banokuza kuwe baxoxe nantoni na, kungakhathaliseki ukuba akunakukhathazeka njani.
- Yazi oko umntwana wakho akwenzayo, apho aya khona, kwaye ngubani na oya kuba nabo.
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