Amanyathelo okulandelwayo xa uceba inkonzo yakho okanye umntu omthandayo
Imingcwabo kunye neenkonzo zesikhumbuzo zinika ithuba lamalungu entsapho, abahlobo kunye nabanye ababaziyo nabathandekayo abafikile ukuba babuthele ndawonye kwaye bawakhumbule umntu owafa ngenkathi enikela induduzo kunye nenkxaso kwabo bafuphi kuye, kunye nomnye nomnye.
Ingaba ucebise emva kokufa (imeko efunekayo ) okanye ngaphambili (imeko " engaphambili "), ukulungiselela umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kubonisa ukuba yinkqubo yokumangalisa, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo.
Eli nqaku linikezela ngokuthe ngqwaba kwamanyathelo omele ulandele ukucwangcisa umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo, nokuba wena okanye owathandekayo.
Ubunzima : Kunzima
Ixesha elifunekayo : Iintsuku ezi-1 +
Kucacile ukuba, ixesha elithathayo ukuthabatha kunye nokulungelelanisa umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kuya kuhluka ngohlobo lokuba ulungele umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo ngaphambi kokufa-mhlawumbi kuwe okanye kumntu obathandayo obhekene nokunciphisa ubomi ugula - okanye emva kokufa. Kungakhathaliseki, amanyathelo angezantsi asebenza ngokubanzi nakwiimeko.
Indlela yokucwangcisa uMngcwabo okanye iSikhumbuzo
Ukucwangcisa umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo yinkqubo enomntu, kwaye izigqibo zakho ziya kubumba ngamava obomi bakho, ulwalamano lwakho nomntu oshonile, into efunayo ngumntu ofileyo okanye into oyifunayo emva kokuba ufile, oko unokukufumana, kunye ezininzi zezinye izinto. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokucwangcisa umngcwabo kwangaphambili , kodwa nantsi izigqibo oza kufuneka ukuba wenze.
1. Khetha iFomu yokuCandwa
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ngephutha ukuba umngcwabo wamangcwaba unye into efanayo, okanye ukhetha ukucinywa kuthetha ukuba awukwazi ukugcina inkonzo yomngcwabo nomzimba womgubo oshonelwe ngaphambili. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba "umngcwabo" njengoko sicinga ngokuqhelekileyo kubandakanya imisebenzi emibini ebalulekileyo :
• Yintoni enokuyenza ngokuhlala kwimizimba yomntu ofileyo (uhlobo lokugqibela)
• Ukuhlonela, ukukhumbula nokukhuphela ubomi kunye nenkumbulo yomntu owafa (uhlobo lomngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo)
Xa ucwangcisa umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo, kunokubonakalisa kulula ukukhetha kuqala uhlobo lokugqibela lomzimba oyifunayo :
• Ukungcwaba (ngeNdabuko) : Ingaba ngaphantsi komhlaba kwingcwaba / kumangcwaba, okanye ngaphantsi komhlaba kwi-mausoleum okanye kwingcwaba (ngamanye amaxesha kuthiwa "ukukhungulwa"), ukumbelwa kwangokwemveli kubandakanya ukuthenga i-casket, icebo lamangcwaba okanye indawo ye-mausoleum, i-graveliner okanye igumbi lokungcwaba , kunye nelitye lelitye, i-gravemarker, isikhumbuzo okanye i-plaque.
• Ukungcwaba ( okweNdalo okanye "okuGcini") : Inani elikhulayo lamangcwaba angumngcwabo, kunye namasayithi adalwe ngokukodwa kule fomu yesimo sokugqibela, ngoku unikezela ngamathuba emvelo okanye "ukungcwaba" . Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abakhetha ukungcwaba indalo bafuna ukunciphisa impembelelo yabo kwimeko emva kokufa.
• Ukudumba : Inkqubo yokugumba idla ukutshisa / ukutshaya umlilo ukuze unciphise umzimba ukuba atyathele amaqhekeza okanye " umlotha ." Ezi zitshiziweyo zihlala zinika ithuba lokusasaza izinto ezahlukeneyo emva koko, njengokugcina okanye ukusabalalisa iindawo ezihlala kuyo, ukungcwatywa ngaphantsi komhlaba kwi-urn, ukubeka i- cremated inurned remains e- columbarium , njl njl.
• I- Alkaline Hydrolysis : Le fom yokubonelela kokugqibela isentsha kwaye ingenako ukufumaneka kwindawo yakho, kodwa inkqubo ye-alkaline hydrolysis (ngezinye izihlandlo ebizwa ngokuthi "ukutshiswa okungenasici") isebenzisa uxinzelelo kunye nokushisa okuphantsi (ukuphikisana nokushisa) ukunciphisa umzimba i-liquid inert kunye ne-squelet bone bone.
2. Yenza umfanekiso weNkonzo enenjongo
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, iinkonzo zokungcwaba ziye zanda ngakumbi, nakuba abantu abaninzi becinga " umngcwabo wendabuko " njengesiqhelo. Inkonzo yomngcwabo okanye yememori yesikhumbuzo ibonisa ubomi obomntu nobuntu bomntu ofileyo, njengoko kubonwa ngumntu oshonile kunye / okanye abathandekayo bakhe abasaphilayo, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba iifom ezinjalo zithatha.
Iintsapho ezininzi kule mihla zikhetha ukucwangcisa umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo ejolise ekukhunjuleni umfi njengoko wayephila, inkonzo igxile kumzimba womntu oshonile / ukuhlala, okanye ukudibene kokubili. Ngako oko, kufuneka ucinge kwaye uceba umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo ukuba wena kunye / okanye umntu ofelayo ubona indlela eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokuthi "ukuhlawula" - into ebamba impawu ezizodwa zomntu ofileyo; ibonakalisa yakhe kunye / okanye zakho iinkonzo, ezonqulo okanye ezingokomoya; kwaye inikeza ithuba elikhunjulwayo, elinentsingiselo kubantu abalilayo ukuba baveze intlungu yabo ngeli thuba bebathuthuzela baze baxhasane.
Ezinye iintsapho zikhetha ukuqhuba iinkonzo zomngcwabo kwindawo yokunqula okanye kwindlu yokungcwaba yasekhaya ehlanganisa ukufundwa kweemfundiso nomculo; abanye banqwenela iinkonzo zomhlaba okanye ezingenanto zonqulo eziqhutyelwe kwindawo yoluntu okanye eyimfihlo; kanti abanye bakhetha ukubamba umngcwabo wangasese kunye nokudibanisa kwamalungu entsapho kamva kunye nentlanganiso yesikhumbuzo kamva kubathandekayo.
Kufuneka uqwalasele oku okulandelayo xa ucinga ngomngcwabo wakho okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo ukuze uyifake , ngokufanelekileyo:
• Abaphathi (abachaphazelekayo) abaza kubakhokela inkonzo, njengelungu lezefundisi, umbhiyozo, umlawuli womngcwabo, njl.
• Ukufundwa, njengemibongo, imithandazo, iincwadi zenkolo okanye zelizwe, njl., Kwaye ngubani oza kubakhulula
• Ama-eulogist (s), ngubani oza kubhala aze ahambise i-eulogy malunga nomfi
• Umculo, nokuba ngaba ngexesha langoku, iingoma zenkolo okanye zombini
• Ukutya / ukuNxila, nokuba ngaba ngabafundi, benikwe "i-potluck" ngabafundi, okanye bahlelwe ngumngcwabo okanye umnikezeli
• Abaxhamli, ukuba isibonelelo sokugqibela siquka inkonzo yamangcwaba
• Ukuthumela i-Webcasting kumngcwabo , okanye ukwenza ukurekhoda kwenkonzo ekhoyo kamva
• Ukuthinta umntu, njengombhobho wememori , ividiyo yesikhumbuzo, imemorabilia yomntu siqu, njl.
3. Ngaba ufuna ukuba uMzimba ufike?
Esinye isisombululo esibalulekileyo oya kuyidinga ukuyenza xa ucwangcisa inkonzo yokungcwaba ibandakanya ukubonakala komntu oshonile. Njengoko kuphawuliwe ngasentla, ukungcwaba kunye nokutshiswa kwamanzi kukuphela kweendlela zokugcina umzimba, kwaye akufuneki okanye kungavumeli iinkonzo zomngcwabo kunye nomzimba okwangoku . Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza ulungiselelo lomngcwabo "wendabuko" olubandakanya ukuvuswa / ukuhanjelwa kwangaphambili kunye nomzimba oqingqiweyo kwi-casket evulekile nangona ufuna ukutshiswa komntu ofileyo njengendlela yokugqibela. Ngokufanayo, ezinye iintsapho zikhetha ukutyhila umntu ongafihlwanga ngaphandle komsebenzi ngaphambili, kodwa ubambe inkonzo yesikhumbuzo emva koko okanye ngaphandle kweendawo ezikhoyo.
4. Iintyatyambo, iMinikelo okanye zombini?
Ngokwesiko, abantu bathumela iintyatyambo zokungcwaba okanye iintlanzi zengxolo njengophawu loxhaswa kunye nokuvakalisa induduzo zabo. Kule minyaka emininzi edluleyo, kunjalo, iintsapho ziye zasebenzisa ibinzana elithi "Endaweni yeentyatyambo ..." kwizaziso zokufa kunye neengqungquthela zokubonisa ukukhetha kwabo kwimingcwabo yemingcwabo yomngcwabo esikhundleni sokuba, okanye ngaphezu koko, iintyatyambo. Ngaloo ndlela, kufuneka unqume ukuba ngaba bahambayo bangathumela iintyatyambo, ukuba ngaba kunokuba bazinikele kwiinkampani ezizikhethelayo okanye zibangele imemori yomntu ofileyo, okanye ukuba nayiphi na indlela yokubhaliweyo ifanelekile . ( Nceda ubone " Iimpawu Zengcaciso Eminye 'Kwiindawo Zaseentyatyambo' " malunga neengcebiso malunga nokuba ungayifumana njani ngakumbi umnqweno wakho .)
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uceliwe kwisaziso sokufa okanye ukuguquka, imidiya yoluntu okanye ngomlomo, kufuneka uqhagamshelane ngokucacileyo indlela / apho ukuthumela khona iminikelo. Imizekelo yezizathu ezifanelekileyo okanye imibutho onokuyikhetha iquka :
• ukubeletha okunyamekela umthandayo
• isizathu esifuna ukufumana unyango kwisifo okanye kwisifo esibangela ukufa komntu osithandayo, njengomhlaza, isifo senhliziyo, i-Alzheimer, njl.
• uthando, intlangano okanye ishishini elimele imbangela okanye injongo ebonisa intshutshiso okanye inkolelo yomntu oshonile, okanye enye eyayixhasa
5. Umnxibelelwano / uMboneleli weNkonzo yoPhando (s)
Emva kokuqulunqa oku ngasentla, isinyathelo esilandelayo kukuphanda iinkonzo zakho kunye neenkonzo zokukhetha. Ukuba ukufa sele kusenzekile, unokuqhagamshelana nomngcwabo wasekhaya, umnikezeli wokungcwaba okanye amangcwaba . ( Kwaye unokuba ufuna ukufunda " Yintoni ongayenza ngokukhawuleza Emva kokuba umntu othandekayo efa ," enika uluhlu lokuhlola uluhlu lwemisebenzi elondoloziweyo kufuneka liphathe ngokukhawuleza .) Umnikeli wakho okhethiweyo unokukunceda ukuba ulungiselele umngcwabo, isikhumbuzo kunye / okanye inkontileka yenkonzo oyifunayo ; ukubonelela ngolwazi malunga nemveliso eyahlukeneyo kunye nenkonzo; kuchaza iindleko ezibandakanyekayo kwiirhwebo, iinkonzo kunye nezinye iirhafu zemfundo; kwaye kukunceda wenze isaziso sokufa okanye isifo sokufumana isatifikethi sokufa esisemthethweni.
Kufuneka uxoxe kunye nomnikezeli wakho naluphi na uhlobo lwenkolo okanye ukhetho oluthandayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unqwenela umngcwabo okanye unqulo lonqulo okanye unqulo, ungathanda ukusebenzisa iinkonzo zomngcwabo , apho amanye amakhaya angcwaba asebenza kuwo. Amakhaya amaninzi omngcwabo anamava asebenzayo kwiintsapho ezivela kwimvelaphi eyahlukeneyo kunye nemigangatho yabo yomngcwabo, amasiko kunye namasiko.
Ukuba uceba umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kusengaphambili, kufuneka ucinge ngemveliso yakho kunye nenketho yenkonzo kwi-Intanethi ngokuvakashela iiwebhusayithi zamakhaya ahlukeneyo, ababoneleli kunye namangcwaba kwindawo yakho. Namhlanje, amaninzi amashishini anika ulwazi olulungileyo lwemveliso kunye nenkonzo ekhompyutheni, amanani, kwaye aze afake " uluhlu lwamaxabiso jikelele " (ukuba i-Federal Trade Commission (FTC) idinga ukuba umniki-nye abe ne "GPL"). Oku kwenza kube lula ukuthelekisa amanani kunye neenkonzo / iinkonzo zokurhweba ezikhoyo kwendawo.
Ngokucacileyo, unokwazi ukujonga iinkcukacha ngezinye iindlela , ezifana ne-Yellow Pages, ngokufowunela okanye ukubhala, okanye nangokutyelela umboneleli.
Ekugqibeleni, nokuba uceba umngcwabo ngaphambi okanye emva kokufa, unamalungelo amanqanaba angaphantsi kwe-FTC "uMngcwabo woMngcwabo" omele uhlalutye kwaye uwuqonde .
6. Cinga iindlela zakho zokuhlawula
Iindleko ziyahlukahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela yokugqibela kunye nohlobo lomngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo enifisayo kodwa kufuneka uqwalasele indlela uza kuhlawula ngayo ezo nkonzo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuhlawula ezikhoyo namhlanje, njenge :
• Ukugcina imali
• Inshshurensi
• Ukuxhaswa ngemali, ngokuqhelekileyo ngeminikelo yakho yomngcwabo
• Amakhadi ekwereta
I-akhawunti ethembekileyo yokuthembela / ihlawulwe nge-Death (POD) kwiziko lemali, elibeka bucala imali kwiindleko zokugqibela ezidlulela kumxhamli otyunjweyo kwaye ziphephe ukuhlolwa.
Ukongezelela, kunokwenzeka ukuba ulungelelanise ngokufanelekileyo iinkonzo zakho kwangaphambili kunye nomboneleli kwaye uhlawule kwangaphambili , ingaba zonke kanye kanye okanye ngezavenge. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba abantu bangena kule "malungiselelo" , kuquka ukukhipha umthwalo wokwenza izigqibo ezinzima emva kokufa; ukukhusela ubunzima bezezimali kubasindileyo, okanye ukuchitha phantsi impahla yabo ukuze bafumane izibonelelo ezithile zedolophu.
7. Yenza Ubulumko Bakho Bwaziwe
Ekugqibeleni, ukuba uceba umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kwangaphambili, kufuneka uxelele intsapho yakho malunga nokuphela kokuphila kwakho inqwenela ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyazi into oyifunayo . Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka unikezele irekhodi ebhaliweyo kunokuthembela kwimemori yelungu lomntu okanye ukugcina izicwangciso zakho kwikhompyutheni yakho, kodwa nangokwenza ingxoxo enye yeqabane lakho okanye umlingane, umntwana, umntakwabo okanye umzali unokubonakalisa okungcono kunanto.
Ukuba ulungiselele ngokusemthethweni umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kumniki-nkonzo, ngoko kufuneka ugcine loo maxwebhu kunye namanye amaphepha afanele ekhaya - kwaye uvumele abathandekayo bakho bazi ngokuhlala kwabo kunye nendawo yabo - ngoko banokufikelela ngexesha elifanelekileyo xa kuyimfuneko. Ukuba ugcina amaxwebhu akho asemthethweni kwindawo ephephile, okanye ukukhutshwa kwibhokisi ye-deposit box, ke kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umthandayo (o) naye uyazi ukuba unxibelelwano olukhuselekileyo okanye unokufikelela kwisihluthulelo.